{"id":8218,"date":"2016-07-25T10:36:54","date_gmt":"2016-07-25T07:36:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=8218"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:14:07","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:14:07","slug":"bekar-ile-evli-insanlarin-yasamlarindaki-farkliliklar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2016\/07\/25\/bekar-ile-evli-insanlarin-yasamlarindaki-farkliliklar\/","title":{"rendered":"Bekar ile evli insanlar\u0131n ya\u015famlar\u0131ndaki farkl\u0131l\u0131klar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Bekar olmak ya da yaln\u0131z ya\u015famay\u0131 se\u00e7mek t\u0131pk\u0131 evlenip \u00e7oluk \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u0131\u015fmak gibi bir tercih olabilir. Ancak bu iki farkl\u0131 ya\u015fam bi\u00e7imi aras\u0131nda nedense bekar ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131n h\u00fczn\u00fc hep a\u011f\u0131r bas\u0131yor. \u0130\u015fte orada atalar\u0131n \u201cyaln\u0131zl\u0131k, Allah\u2019a mahsus\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc akla geliyor. Her ne kadar bekar ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131n da kendine g\u00f6re g\u00fczellikleri, al\u0131nan sorumluluklar\u0131n azl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n verdi\u011fi rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131 olsa da biz daha fazla bekar kalmaman\u0131z i\u00e7in size evlilikten farkl\u0131 ve h\u00fcz\u00fcnl\u00fc yanlar\u0131 hat\u0131rlatmak istedik. \ud83d\ude42<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>1.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2016\/07\/25\/bekar-ile-evli-insanlarin-yasamlarindaki-farkliliklar\/01-13\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8229\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8229\" title=\"01\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/012.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"493\" height=\"277\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/012.gif 493w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/012-300x168.gif 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 493px) 100vw, 493px\" \/><\/a>Bekar ya\u015fam\u0131 sallama \u00e7ayd\u0131r. Evlilik, duman\u0131 hep t\u00fcten \u00e7aydanl\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>2.<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2016\/07\/25\/bekar-ile-evli-insanlarin-yasamlarindaki-farkliliklar\/02-12\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8230\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8230\" title=\"02\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/022.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"245\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/022.gif 500w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/022-300x147.gif 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Bekar ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131n en korkulu tablosu grip olunan and\u0131r. Sanki d\u00fcnyada tek yaln\u0131z ya\u015fayan sizmi\u015fsiniz gibi hissettirir. \u00d6yleki ilgiye de ihtiya\u00e7 artar ve g\u00f6zden bir damla ya\u015f bile d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrt\u00fcr. Evlilik ise ball\u0131 s\u00fctt\u00fcr, s\u0131rta konulan koltuk minderidir.<\/p>\n<p>3.<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2016\/07\/25\/bekar-ile-evli-insanlarin-yasamlarindaki-farkliliklar\/03-11\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8231\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8231\" title=\"03\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/032.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"346\" height=\"180\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/032.gif 346w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/032-300x156.gif 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 346px) 100vw, 346px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Bekar ya\u015fam\u0131 tatillerde hep \u201csingle fark\u0131\u201d \u00f6dendi\u011fi i\u00e7in k\u00fclfettir. Evlilik, 0-12 ya\u015f aras\u0131 \u00fccretsizdir. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>4.<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2016\/07\/25\/bekar-ile-evli-insanlarin-yasamlarindaki-farkliliklar\/04-11\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8232\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8232\" title=\"04\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/042.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"278\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/042.gif 500w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/042-300x166.gif 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Kabul edelim bu biraz k\u00f6t\u00fc bir ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131k ama bekar ya\u015fam\u0131 restoran\u0131n giri\u015finde yemek yemeye mahkum olmakt\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc aile salonlar\u0131 hep \u00fcst kattad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>5.<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2016\/07\/25\/bekar-ile-evli-insanlarin-yasamlarindaki-farkliliklar\/05-6\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8233\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8233\" title=\"05\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/052.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"476\" height=\"360\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/052.gif 476w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/052-300x226.gif 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 476px) 100vw, 476px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Bekar ya\u015fam\u0131 tost-\u00e7ay iken evlilik serpme kahvalt\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>6.<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2016\/07\/25\/bekar-ile-evli-insanlarin-yasamlarindaki-farkliliklar\/06-2\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8225\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8225\" title=\"06\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/061.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"635\" height=\"270\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/061.gif 635w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/061-300x127.gif 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 635px) 100vw, 635px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Bekarl\u0131k sultanl\u0131kt\u0131r derler ancak k\u0131\u015f geldi\u011finde do\u011falgaz faturas\u0131n\u0131 tek ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za \u00f6demek zorunda kal\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>7.<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2016\/07\/25\/bekar-ile-evli-insanlarin-yasamlarindaki-farkliliklar\/7-7\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8239\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8239\" title=\"7\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/7.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"635\" height=\"476\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/7.gif 635w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/7-300x224.gif 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 635px) 100vw, 635px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Bekarl\u0131k \u00e7o\u011fu zaman buzdolab\u0131n\u0131n yumurta g\u00f6z\u00fcne konulmu\u015f yar\u0131m limon gibidir.Evlilik ise dondurma kutusunun i\u00e7indeki kuru k\u00f6ftedir. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>8.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2016\/07\/25\/bekar-ile-evli-insanlarin-yasamlarindaki-farkliliklar\/08-3\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8234\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8234\" title=\"08\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/082.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"494\" height=\"260\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/082.gif 494w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/082-300x157.gif 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 494px) 100vw, 494px\" \/><\/a>Bekarl\u0131k, uzun vadede yaln\u0131zl\u0131k psikolojisini ve melankoliyi tetikleyebilir. Evlilik, bir aile ge\u00e7mi\u015fi biriktirebilmektir.<\/p>\n<p>9.<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2016\/07\/25\/bekar-ile-evli-insanlarin-yasamlarindaki-farkliliklar\/09-3\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8235\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8235\" title=\"09\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/092.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"530\" height=\"320\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/092.gif 530w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/092-300x181.gif 300w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/092-85x50.gif 85w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 530px) 100vw, 530px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Bekarl\u0131k, t\u00fcm masraflar tek ba\u015f\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan ay sonu bo\u015f c\u00fczdan demektir. Evlilik, yast\u0131k alt\u0131ndaki k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcn paras\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>10. Bu da bir itiraf bonusu. Evliyken bekarl\u0131\u011fa, bekarken evlili\u011fe \u00f6zenilir. Yine de t\u00fcm bunlar\u0131n sonunda tek ki\u015filik bir ge\u00e7mi\u015f olu\u015fturmaktansa y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r ortak bir hat\u0131ra biriktirmek tercih edilir. Gelin siz de yaln\u0131z ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131za, dolaptaki dondurulmu\u015f g\u0131dalara ve sallama \u00e7aylarla yap\u0131lan kahvalt\u0131lara bir son verin. D\u00fcnyada size de uygun, birlikte olmaktan mutluluk duyaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z birisi mutlaka vard\u0131r. \u00d6nemli olan onu do\u011fru yerde aramakt\u0131r. Yani <a href=\"http:\/\/www.eCift.com\">e\u00c7ift<\/a>\u2019te. e\u00c7ift, nitelikli ve ciddi ili\u015fki arayan bekarlar\u0131n bulu\u015ftu\u011fu bir arkada\u015fl\u0131k sitesidir. Hemen \u00fccretsiz bir \u015fekilde kay\u0131t olabilir ve arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fiye bir merhaba diyerek ilk at\u0131m\u0131 atabilirsiniz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc a\u015fk, e\u00c7ift\u2019te ba\u015flar!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bekar olmak ya da yaln\u0131z ya\u015famay\u0131 se\u00e7mek t\u0131pk\u0131 evlenip \u00e7oluk \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u0131\u015fmak gibi bir tercih olabilir. Ancak bu iki farkl\u0131 ya\u015fam bi\u00e7imi aras\u0131nda nedense bekar ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131n h\u00fczn\u00fc hep a\u011f\u0131r bas\u0131yor. \u0130\u015fte orada atalar\u0131n \u201cyaln\u0131zl\u0131k, Allah\u2019a mahsus\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc akla geliyor. Her ne kadar bekar ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131n da kendine g\u00f6re g\u00fczellikleri, al\u0131nan sorumluluklar\u0131n azl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n verdi\u011fi rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131 olsa da [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8219,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,2277],"tags":[977,2169,2174,1736,293,193,2173,517,68,1868],"class_list":["post-8218","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ask","category-yasam","tag-arkadaslik","tag-bekar","tag-bekar-ve-evliler-arasindaki-farklar","tag-bekarlik","tag-ciddi-iliski","tag-ecift","tag-evli","tag-evlilik","tag-iliskiler","tag-kadin-ve-erkek-iliskileri"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8218","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8218"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8218\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8949,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8218\/revisions\/8949"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8219"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8218"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8218"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8218"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}