{"id":8120,"date":"2016-05-31T10:52:18","date_gmt":"2016-05-31T07:52:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=8120"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:14:07","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:14:07","slug":"gercek-aski-bulmak-tum-taslarin-yerine-oturmasi-gibidir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2016\/05\/31\/gercek-aski-bulmak-tum-taslarin-yerine-oturmasi-gibidir\/","title":{"rendered":"Ger\u00e7ek a\u015fk\u0131 bulmak, t\u00fcm ta\u015flar\u0131n yerine oturmas\u0131 gibidir"},"content":{"rendered":"

T\u00fcm s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131na, zorluklar\u0131na ve eksikliklerine ra\u011fmen ya\u015fam\u0131n en g\u00fczel ayr\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 ger\u00e7ek a\u015fk\u0131 buldu\u011funuzu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z and\u0131r. Kafan\u0131zda y\u0131llard\u0131r d\u00f6nen bir sorunun cevab\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ok a\u00e7\u0131k ve net bir \u015fekilde alm\u0131\u015f gibi hissetti\u011finiz o huzurlu an. \u0130\u015fte o an hi\u00e7bir \u015feye de\u011fi\u015filmez. Hele de bunu hissetti\u011finizde o ki\u015finin elini tutuyorsan\u0131z. \u0130\u015fte o anda insan\u0131n hissetti\u011fi duygular vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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O duygulardan akl\u0131m\u0131za gelen birka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131 sizler i\u00e7in derlemek istedik.<\/p>\n

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  1. Daha \u00f6nce yaln\u0131z ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u015feylerin o kadar da manal\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark edersiniz.<\/li>\n
  2. A\u015fk\u0131n, asl\u0131nda k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ufac\u0131k mutluluklar oldu\u011funu anlars\u0131n\u0131z. Ya\u011fmurda \u0131slanan aya\u011fa eve gelip kuru ve temiz \u00e7orap giymenin verdi\u011fi s\u0131cakl\u0131k gibi.<\/li>\n
  3. Daha \u00f6nce ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z kalp k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131rtlan\u0131yormu\u015f gibi hissetti\u011finiz anlar\u0131n ne kadar manas\u0131z oldu\u011funu anlar ve g\u00fcl\u00fcmsersiniz.<\/li>\n
  4. En son bu kadar huzurlu hissetti\u011finizde sanki anneniz sizi hafta sonu \u00f6perek uyand\u0131rm\u0131\u015f ve \u00e7izgi film izlerken \u00e7ikolatal\u0131 ekmek yiyormu\u015fsunuz gibi gelir. A\u015fk \u00e7ocukluk huzuru gibidir.<\/li>\n
  5. Size hep karma\u015f\u0131k ve endi\u015fe veren gelecek, can\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bazen s\u0131kan ge\u00e7mi\u015f art\u0131k anlams\u0131zd\u0131r. Sizin i\u00e7in sadece \u015fimdiki zaman vard\u0131r.<\/li>\n
  6. Size \u00e7ok uzak gelen, asla yapamam dedi\u011finiz \u015feyleri bile s\u0131rf o seviyor diye yapmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 fark edersiniz. Bir futbol ma\u00e7\u0131na gittim ya da bir pembe dizi izledim derken kendinize g\u00fclersiniz.<\/li>\n
  7. Yaz\u0131n k\u0131zg\u0131n kumlardan serin sulara atlam\u0131\u015f gibi s\u00fcrekli bir ferahl\u0131k ile gezersiniz.<\/li>\n
  8. Size sar\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 anda sanki hastayken birisi s\u0131cak bir tas \u00e7orba getirmi\u015f gibi mutlu hissedersiniz.<\/li>\n
  9. Size sevdi\u011fini s\u00f6ylemesi \u00e7\u0131plak ayakla \u00e7imlerde gezip bahar\u0131n gelmesini fark etti\u011finiz an gibidir. \u0130\u00e7 \u0131s\u0131t\u0131r.<\/li>\n
  10. Ger\u00e7ek a\u015fk\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten buldu\u011funuzda g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemeniz hep yar\u0131n yokmu\u015fcas\u0131na olur. Kayg\u0131s\u0131z ve huzurludur.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    A\u015fk\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 hem fiziksel hem ruh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 iyi eder. Onu ger\u00e7ekten buldu\u011funuzu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z anda d\u00fcnyadaki t\u00fcm ta\u015flar yerine oturmu\u015f gibi hissedersiniz. Bazen bulunmas\u0131 zordur, bazen yan\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdad\u0131r ama g\u00f6rmezsiniz. \u0130\u015fte tam da bu y\u00fczden ger\u00e7ek a\u015fk\u0131 hissedecek ki\u015fiyi bulmak i\u00e7in bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmelisiniz. Nas\u0131l m\u0131?<\/p>\n

    Elbette onu do\u011fru yerde ve do\u011fru y\u00f6ntemle arayarak bulabilirsiniz. Bunun i\u00e7in en do\u011fru se\u00e7im de yenilik\u00e7i ve bilimsel bir y\u00f6ntemle size en uygun ki\u015fileri \u00f6neren e\u00c7ift<\/a>. Binlerce nitelikli bekar\u0131n bulu\u015ftu\u011fu e\u00c7ift, ki\u015fili\u011fin bir ili\u015fkide uyum i\u00e7in en \u00f6nemli bile\u015fen oldu\u011funu g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde bulunduruyor ve vakit kaybetmenizi \u00f6nl\u00fcyor. e\u00c7ift\u2019in \u00f6zelliklerini ke\u015ffetmek, do\u011fru ve ger\u00e7ek a\u015fk\u0131 bulmak i\u00e7in daha fazla vakit kaybetmeyin!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    T\u00fcm s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131na, zorluklar\u0131na ve eksikliklerine ra\u011fmen ya\u015fam\u0131n en g\u00fczel ayr\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 ger\u00e7ek a\u015fk\u0131 buldu\u011funuzu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z and\u0131r. Kafan\u0131zda y\u0131llard\u0131r d\u00f6nen bir sorunun cevab\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ok a\u00e7\u0131k ve net bir \u015fekilde alm\u0131\u015f gibi hissetti\u011finiz o huzurlu an. \u0130\u015fte o an hi\u00e7bir \u015feye de\u011fi\u015filmez. Hele de bunu hissetti\u011finizde o ki\u015finin elini tutuyorsan\u0131z. \u0130\u015fte o anda insan\u0131n hissetti\u011fi duygular vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8121,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[977,193,1693,2147,2309,68,765,1868],"class_list":["post-8120","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ask","tag-arkadaslik","tag-ecift","tag-gercek-ask","tag-gercek-aski-bulmak","tag-hissetmek","tag-iliskiler","tag-iyi-hissetmek","tag-kadin-ve-erkek-iliskileri"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8120","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8120"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8120\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8981,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8120\/revisions\/8981"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8121"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8120"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8120"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8120"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}