{"id":7462,"date":"2015-06-18T10:00:30","date_gmt":"2015-06-18T07:00:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=7462"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:14:20","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:14:20","slug":"buyukannelerden-ask-ve-evlilige-dair-tavsiyeler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2015\/06\/18\/buyukannelerden-ask-ve-evlilige-dair-tavsiyeler\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u00fcy\u00fckannelerden A\u015fk ve Evlili\u011fe Dair Tavsiyeler"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hayatta kendi ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za edindi\u011fimiz tecr\u00fcbelerden daha de\u011ferli bir \u015fey varsa o da sizi seven insanlar\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131zda kar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zorluklara kar\u015f\u0131 verdi\u011fi nasihatlerdir. Sizden b\u00fcy\u00fck olan birisinin sizi korumak ve yol g\u00f6stermek amac\u0131yla s\u00f6yledi\u011fi tavsiyeleri dinlemekten inan\u0131n zarar gelmez. Yap\u0131lan sosyal bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmada yoldan ge\u00e7en 10 b\u00fcy\u00fckanneye a\u015fk hakk\u0131nda tecr\u00fcbelerinin payla\u015fmalar\u0131 istenmi\u015f. Bak\u0131n onlar neler s\u00f6ylemi\u015f?<!--more--><\/p>\n<p><strong>1. \u00a0<\/strong><strong>Kendinizi yeterince sevmeden ba\u015fkalar\u0131na sevginizi veremezsiniz.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7463\" title=\"1\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"630\" height=\"354\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/1.jpg 630w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/1-300x168.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 630px) 100vw, 630px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>40 y\u0131ld\u0131r evliyim. \u00d6\u011frendi\u011fim en \u00f6nemli \u015fey kendinizi yeterince sevmeden ba\u015fkalar\u0131na sevginizi veremeyece\u011finizdir. Kendinize kar\u015f\u0131 yeterince d\u00fcr\u00fcst bir sevgi besledi\u011finiz an bunu ba\u015fkalar\u0131 ile payla\u015fabilir ya da ba\u015fkalar\u0131na bu sevgiyi adayabilirsiniz. (Marion)<\/p>\n<p><strong>2.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><strong>Sevdi\u011finiz ki\u015finin en iyi oldu\u011fu yan\u0131 g\u00f6rmekten vazge\u00e7meyin.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7464\" title=\"2\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"620\" height=\"413\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/2.jpg 620w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/2-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Bir ili\u015fkide en \u00f6nemli olan \u015fey birbirinize g\u00fcvenmek ve sevecek bir yan bulabilmenizdir. E\u015fimle uzun y\u0131llar evli kald\u0131k ve hep iyi anla\u015ft\u0131k. E\u015fim herkese kar\u015f\u0131 iyi bir insan oldu.Sakin bir insand\u0131, herkesi severdi ve herkes de onu. Bazen onun insanlarda bu kadar \u00e7ok sevecek yan\u0131 nas\u0131l buldu\u011funu anlamazd\u0131m. Daha sonra anlad\u0131m ki o insanlar\u0131 g\u00fcld\u00fcr\u00fcyordu. En \u00e7ok da beni bu onun en iyi oldu\u011fu yand\u0131. (Shirley)<\/p>\n<p><strong>3.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><strong>Espiri anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 olan yak\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131 bir adam iyi bir se\u00e7imdir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7465\" title=\"3\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"620\" height=\"413\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/3.jpg 620w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/3-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Espri anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 olan yak\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131 bir adam bulun b\u00f6ylece sonsuza dek birlikte e\u011flenir ve g\u00fcl\u00fcmsersiniz. (Nancy)<\/p>\n<p><strong>4.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><strong>Birbirinizi \u00f6zleyecek zaman tan\u0131y\u0131n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7466\" title=\"4\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/4.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"620\" height=\"413\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/4.jpg 620w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/4-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>30 y\u0131ld\u0131r evliyiz. E\u015fimin 2 k\u0131zkarde\u015fi ile birlikte ya\u015f\u0131yoruz. B\u00f6ylece birbirimizi \u00f6zleyebiliyoruz. \u0130\u015fin a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7as\u0131 eve kocam\u0131 bulmak i\u00e7in gidiyorum. (Gayle)<\/p>\n<p><strong>5.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><strong>Sevdi\u011finiz ki\u015fiye kar\u015f\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131za dikkat edin<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7467\" title=\"5\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/5.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"620\" height=\"414\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/5.jpg 620w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/5-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nas\u0131l davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131za dikkat edin. E\u011fer birlikte oldu\u011funuz ki\u015fi sizi ele\u015ftirecekse bunu yaparken herkese kar\u015f\u0131 nas\u0131l davran\u0131yorsa size de o \u015fekilde davranmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 beni insanlar\u0131 yarg\u0131lamayan birisine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrd\u00fc ve ili\u015fkilerimde de kolayl\u0131klar sa\u011flad\u0131. E\u011fer bir ki\u015fi herkese davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z gibi ona davranman\u0131za katlanam\u0131yorsa o ki\u015fi do\u011fru insan de\u011fildir.(Angela)<\/p>\n<p><strong>6.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><strong>A\u015f\u0131k olmak ve sevmek insan\u0131 zorlamamal\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7468\" title=\"6\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/6.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"620\" height=\"414\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/6.jpg 620w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/6-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ger\u00e7ekten \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterdi\u011fim ve birlikte olmaktan ho\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131m birisi beni g\u00fcvende hissettirir. \u0130\u015fte sevmek bu kadar basittir. \u0130nan\u0131n bu kadar basit. Bu y\u00fczden sevme i\u015fini zorla\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131n. (Diva)<\/p>\n<p><strong>7.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><strong>Evlendi\u011finiz ki\u015finin do\u011fru insan oldu\u011fundan emin olmadan evlenmeyin<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7500\" title=\"7\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/7.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"620\" height=\"465\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/7.jpg 620w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/7-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ben bo\u015fanal\u0131 \u00e7ok y\u0131llar ge\u00e7ti. Bir adamla yanl\u0131\u015f sebeplerden dolay\u0131 evlendim ama o daima iyi bir eski-e\u015f olarak kalacak ve k\u0131zlar\u0131ma da \u00e7ok iyi davrand\u0131. O y\u00fczden partnerlerinizi se\u00e7erken kendinize iyi nedenler bulun. O ki\u015fiyle benzer bir yeti\u015ftirilme tarz\u0131na ve entelekt\u00fcel uyuma sahip oldu\u011funuzdan emin olun. Bunlar i\u015finizi daha da kolayla\u015ft\u0131racakt\u0131r. (\u0130simsiz)<\/p>\n<p><strong>8.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><strong>Her \u015feye ra\u011fmen severken kendinizi ilk s\u0131raya koyun<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7470\" title=\"8\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/81.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"620\" height=\"413\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/81.jpg 620w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/81-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131na verece\u011finiz sevginin bir s\u0131ras\u0131 varsa ilk s\u0131raya kendinizi koyun. Bu sadece a\u015f\u0131k oldu\u011funuz ki\u015fi i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erli de\u011fil. Kimi severseniz sevin b\u00f6yle davran\u0131n. Arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z, aileniz ya da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bebeklerin sevgiye \u00e7ok ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bebe\u011finize yeterli sevgi verebilmeniz i\u00e7in kendinizi yeterince sevmelisiniz. (Lisa)<\/p>\n<p><strong>9.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><strong>Birbirinize kar\u015f\u0131 adil olun<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7471\" title=\"9\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/9.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"620\" height=\"413\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/9.jpg 620w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/9-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Birbirinize kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ok da ciddi olmay\u0131n, bu \u015fekilde birbirinizi daha kolay tan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. A\u015f\u0131k oldu\u011fumuz ki\u015fiyle yeni bir dil konu\u015furuz ve birbirimize \u00f6zel bir y\u00f6ntemle davran\u0131r\u0131z. Bu \u00e7ok saf ve de\u011ferli bir \u015feydir. Bunu unutmay\u0131n! (Bonita)<\/p>\n<p><strong>10.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><strong>\u0130li\u015fkinizi dostluk \u00fczerine kurun<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7472\" title=\"10\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/10.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"622\" height=\"414\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/10.jpg 622w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/10-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 622px) 100vw, 622px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Benim inan\u0131\u015f\u0131ma g\u00f6re a\u015fk sevgidir, a\u015fk sab\u0131rd\u0131r. Sevgimi bir s\u0131raya koymam gerekirse a\u015f\u0131k oldu\u011fum adam sevgilim olmadan \u00f6nce dostumdur. Duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 birbirinizle korkmadan payla\u015fabilmelisiniz, beraber g\u00fclebildi\u011finiz gibi beraber de a\u011flayabilmelisiniz. (Laura)<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7473\" title=\"11x\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/11x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"504\" height=\"504\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/11x.jpg 504w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/11x-50x50.jpg 50w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/11x-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 504px) 100vw, 504px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Bonus olarak bir tane tavsiye de bizim b\u00fcy\u00fcklerimizden gelsin. Ne demi\u015fler nikahta keramet vard\u0131r. Size uygun e\u015f aday\u0131n\u0131 bu zamana kadar aray\u0131p bulamamam\u0131\u015f olabilirsiniz. Ancak a\u015fk insan\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirir, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ise bamba\u015fka bir insan yapar. Size a\u015fk ve sevmek \u00fczerine bamba\u015fka bir hayat dersi verecek o ki\u015fiyi art\u0131k uzaklarda aramay\u0131n. Hemen \u015fimdi eCift.com\u2018 a gelerek \u00fccretsiz \u00fcye olun. Sevip sevmenin mutlulu\u011funu bir \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu tadaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z o do\u011fru ki\u015fiyi e\u00c7ift\u2019 te aramaya \u015fimdi ba\u015flay\u0131n!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hayatta kendi ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za edindi\u011fimiz tecr\u00fcbelerden daha de\u011ferli bir \u015fey varsa o da sizi seven insanlar\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131zda kar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zorluklara kar\u015f\u0131 verdi\u011fi nasihatlerdir. Sizden b\u00fcy\u00fck olan birisinin sizi korumak ve yol g\u00f6stermek amac\u0131yla s\u00f6yledi\u011fi tavsiyeleri dinlemekten inan\u0131n zarar gelmez. Yap\u0131lan sosyal bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmada yoldan ge\u00e7en 10 b\u00fcy\u00fckanneye a\u015fk hakk\u0131nda tecr\u00fcbelerinin payla\u015fmalar\u0131 istenmi\u015f. Bak\u0131n onlar neler s\u00f6ylemi\u015f?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,4],"tags":[1877,1874,193,1878,1868,1875,1876],"class_list":["post-7462","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ask","category-kalp","tag-ask-tecrubeleri","tag-buyukannelerden-tavsiyeler","tag-ecift","tag-evlilik-tecrubeleri","tag-kadin-ve-erkek-iliskileri","tag-nasihatlar","tag-tecrube"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7462","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7462"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7462\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9335,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7462\/revisions\/9335"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7462"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7462"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7462"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}