{"id":7032,"date":"2014-09-03T12:54:28","date_gmt":"2014-09-03T09:54:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=7032"},"modified":"2024-05-24T13:46:48","modified_gmt":"2024-05-24T10:46:48","slug":"sehir-asklarinda-hepimiz-birer-kahramaniz-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2014\/09\/03\/sehir-asklarinda-hepimiz-birer-kahramaniz-2\/","title":{"rendered":"\u015eehir A\u015fklar\u0131nda Hepimiz Birer Kahraman\u0131z"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\"\"Sonbahar ba\u015flad\u0131. Bu \u00e7o\u011fumuz i\u00e7in bu tatilin bitmesi ve \u015fehre d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f zaman\u0131 demek. Yo\u011fun bir temponun i\u00e7ine tekrar dalmak; d\u00fcnyan\u0131n h\u0131z\u0131na tekrar yeti\u015fmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak demek. Bir de t\u00fcm hayat tela\u015f\u0131n\u0131n aras\u0131nda a\u015f\u0131k olmak demek. K\u0131sacas\u0131, hem kad\u0131nlar hem de erkeler i\u00e7in ili\u015fkilerde kahramanl\u0131k zaman\u0131 ba\u015fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

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\u2018An\u0131 Ya\u015famak’ Modas\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n

Evet, bulundu\u011fumuz andan mutlu ayr\u0131lmak en \u00f6nemlisi. Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her ne olursa olsun! Ancak, \u015f\u00f6yle bir ger\u00e7ek var ki, insan i\u00e7in aidiyet duygusu \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Bu nedenle anl\u0131k olarak ya\u015fabilece\u011fimiz duygular ile korumam\u0131z gereken duygular\u0131 birbirinden ay\u0131rmak \u00f6zellikle ruh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemli. O nedenle an\u0131 ya\u015fama ak\u0131m\u0131na kap\u0131l\u0131p, elimizdeki de\u011ferleri de \u00e7abuk t\u00fcketince elimizde kocaman bir \u201chi\u00e7\u201d kal\u0131yor. \u0130li\u015fkiler kelebe\u011fin \u00f6mr\u00fc misali anl\u0131k zevklerde aran\u0131rken, k\u00f6\u015fede bucakta \u00fc\u00e7 ay\u0131 a\u015fm\u0131\u015f bir birliktelik g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczde \u015fa\u015f\u0131r\u0131r hale geliyoruz.<\/p>\n

‘En Pahall\u0131’ Ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mutsuz bireyin belkide kredi kartlar\u0131na ya da banka hesaplar\u0131na yans\u0131mas\u0131d\u0131r al\u0131\u015fveri\u015f \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131. Al\u0131r, al\u0131r, al\u0131r ve durmadan al\u0131r\u0131z. Neye ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z oldu\u011funu dahi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden, hatta \u00e7o\u011fu zaman hi\u00e7 ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z yokken. T\u00fcketim hissinin yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu d\u00fcrt\u00fc, bizi ve ili\u015fkilerimizi koca bir bo\u015flu\u011fa s\u00fcr\u00fckler. \u0130\u00e7imizdeki bo\u015flu\u011fu s\u00fcrekli \u00fczerimizdeki k\u0131yafetler ile doldurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131z. Ama nafile. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc duygular yerlerine maddi varl\u0131klar doldurulamayacak kadar de\u011ferlidir.<\/p>\n

Stres An\u0131nda Kalbi K\u0131r\u0131n\u0131z!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0130\u015f hayat\u0131, \u015fehir hayat\u0131, trafik, ko\u015fu\u015fturmaca, ge\u00e7im derdi vs…\u00a0 Bunlar\u0131n hepsi hepimiz i\u00e7in ciddi stres kayna\u011f\u0131. Bu nedenle art\u0131k neredeyse iki g\u00f6n\u00fcl bir araya gelince samanl\u0131k seyran olmuyor. \u0130li\u015fkiler ister istemez y\u0131pran\u0131yor. Kalpler ister istemez k\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yor. Stres \u00a0y\u00fckl\u00fc insanlar s\u00fcrekli sava\u015f halinde ve kimseye tahamm\u00fcl\u00fcm\u00fcz kalm\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

1 G\u00fcn 38 Saat Olsa Yeter mi?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bir de \u00f6zellikle \u015fehirlerde hi\u00e7bir \u015feye yeti\u015fememe kayg\u0131s\u0131 ald\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 gidiyor. \u00c7iftlerin birbirine zaman ay\u0131rmas\u0131, hatta ve hatta yeni insanlarla tan\u0131\u015fmak i\u00e7in zaman yaratmak dahi gittik\u00e7e g\u00fc\u00e7le\u015fiyor. Bu s\u00fcrecin do\u011fal sonucu olarak arkada\u015f ya da sevgili arayanlar, evlenmek isteyenlerin \u00e7o\u011fu internet arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve evlilik sitelerine y\u00f6neliyor. \u00d6nceden toplumun yad\u0131rgad\u0131\u011f\u0131 internetten ili\u015fki aray\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u015fimdi hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n en do\u011fal s\u00fcre\u00e7lerinden bir tanesi haline geliyor.<\/p>\n

K\u0131saca \u015fehirde ili\u015fkiler de biraz yorgun. Tonlarca hayat y\u00fck\u00fc alt\u0131nda eziliyor. Kad\u0131n\u0131n ve erke\u011fin i\u015fi ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7ok zor. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir insan olmak sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkiler s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmek ad\u0131na b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7aba sarfetmeleri gerekiyor. K\u0131sacas\u0131 hem kad\u0131n hem de erke\u011fin bir ili\u015fki i\u00e7in kahraman gibi sava\u015fmas\u0131 gerekiyor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

  Sonbahar ba\u015flad\u0131. Bu \u00e7o\u011fumuz i\u00e7in bu tatilin bitmesi ve \u015fehre d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f zaman\u0131 demek. Yo\u011fun bir temponun i\u00e7ine tekrar dalmak; d\u00fcnyan\u0131n h\u0131z\u0131na tekrar yeti\u015fmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak demek. Bir de t\u00fcm hayat tela\u015f\u0131n\u0131n aras\u0131nda a\u015f\u0131k olmak demek. K\u0131sacas\u0131, hem kad\u0131nlar hem de erkeler i\u00e7in ili\u015fkilerde kahramanl\u0131k zaman\u0131 ba\u015fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[984,22,293,193,68,460,194,1026],"class_list":["post-7032","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ask","tag-arkadaslik-sitesi","tag-ask","tag-ciddi-iliski","tag-ecift","tag-iliskiler","tag-ilk-bulusma","tag-mutlu-iliskiler","tag-uzun-omurlu-iliskiler"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7032","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7032"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7032\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7547,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7032\/revisions\/7547"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7032"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7032"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7032"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}