{"id":6815,"date":"2014-07-04T14:50:30","date_gmt":"2014-07-04T11:50:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=6815"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:14:22","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:14:22","slug":"mutlu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2014\/07\/04\/mutlu\/","title":{"rendered":"Mutlu \u00c7iftlerin S\u0131rr\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Bir insanla yak\u0131nla\u015f\u0131p ili\u015fkiyi s\u00fcrd\u00fcrebilmek emek istiyor. Ancak, mutlu ve uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc bir ili\u015fki ya\u015famak g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fczde b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz kadar zor de\u011fil.<\/p>\n

Kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fim ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 beklentiler, hayalk\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011frama ihtimalini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

Bu i\u015fi kotarm\u0131\u015f \u00e7iftleri inceledi\u011fimizde belirlenen ortak noktalar\u0131 listeledik.<\/p>\n

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\u0130li\u015fki emek ister:<\/strong> \u0130kili ili\u015fkilerde ileti\u015fim ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 \u00f6zveri olmazsa olmaz. Kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 sayg\u0131 ve sevginin yan\u0131nda birbirini anlayabilme ve d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcml\u00fc olarak birbirine destek olmak gerekir.<\/p>\n

Ciddi ad\u0131mlar\u0131 aceleye getirmeyin:<\/strong> Her\u015feyin do\u011fru zamanda anlaml\u0131 oldu\u011funu unutmay\u0131n. Aileyle tan\u0131\u015fmak, ayn\u0131 eve ta\u015f\u0131nmak gibi b\u00fcy\u00fck ad\u0131mlar\u0131 atma konusunda bask\u0131 yapmay\u0131n ve ili\u015fkiyi ak\u0131\u015f\u0131na b\u0131rak\u0131n.<\/p>\n

D\u00fczenli bir ili\u015fkiniz olunca t\u00fcm sorunlar\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmez:<\/strong> \u201cAh arad\u0131\u011f\u0131m a\u015fk\u0131 bir bulsam\u201d diye bekleyip onu buldu\u011funuzda g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayattaki sorunlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n devam etti\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcnce moraliniz bozulmas\u0131n. A\u015fk sihirli bir de\u011fnek de\u011fil.<\/p>\n

S\u0131r saklamay\u0131n:<\/strong> Uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc, mutlu ili\u015fkilerde her zaman vurgulanan ileti\u015fimin temelinde \u201cd\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck\u201d vard\u0131r. \u0130ki taraf kartlar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k oynar, duygular\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi yans\u0131tmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaz.<\/p>\n

Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakini de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n, zay\u0131f noktalar\u0131na tak\u0131lmay\u0131n:<\/strong> Kimse m\u00fckemmel de\u011fil. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiyi oldu\u011fu gibi sevebiliyorsan\u0131z, ili\u015fkiniz gelecek vaadediyor. Ancak, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin bir kaya gibi sa\u011flam ve hatas\u0131z olmas\u0131n\u0131 bekliyorsan\u0131z k\u00f6t\u00fc bir haberimiz var; o i\u015f y\u00fcr\u00fcmez.<\/p>\n

Kin tutmay\u0131n, ge\u00e7mi\u015fe tak\u0131lmay\u0131n:<\/strong> \u0130li\u015fkilerin ini\u015fli ve \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015fl\u0131 d\u00f6nemli olur. \u00d6nemli olan, yap\u0131lan hatalar\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015fla kar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131p kendini affettirebilmek\/kar\u015f\u0131dakini affedebilmek ve tats\u0131z an\u0131lar\u0131 ge\u00e7mi\u015fte b\u0131rakabilmektir. Ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015f \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcleri s\u00fcrekli yeniden g\u00fcndeme getirmek y\u0131prat\u0131c\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n

Her\u015feyi ki\u015fisel alg\u0131lamay\u0131n:<\/strong> Baz\u0131 durumlarda davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n belirleyicisi de\u011fi\u015febilir. \u00d6rne\u011fin, yorgunluk, i\u015fyerindeki stres, hormonal dengeler ki\u015fiyi sab\u0131rs\u0131z ve aksi yapabilir. B\u00f6yle bir durumda ya\u015fanan g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f ayr\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131ndan ki\u015fisel sonu\u00e7lar \u00e7\u0131karmay\u0131n. Anla\u015fma sa\u011flanamayan konular\u0131 daha sakin bir zamanda konu\u015fmak \u00fczere erteleyin.<\/p>\n

Ge\u00e7mi\u015f ili\u015fkileri ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k olarak g\u00f6rmeyin:<\/strong> Ayr\u0131l\u0131kla sonu\u00e7lanan her ili\u015fki, insan\u0131n i\u00e7inde bir burukluk b\u0131rak\u0131r. Ancak, deneyiminiz k\u00f6t\u00fc de olsa her ili\u015fkinin size katt\u0131\u011f\u0131 paha bi\u00e7ilemez \u00f6\u011fretiler vard\u0131r. Bunlar\u0131 birer kazan\u00e7 olarak g\u00f6rebilir ve her\u015feyde olumlu bir taraf oldu\u011funu kendinize hat\u0131rlatabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim engellenemez:<\/strong> Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkilerde ki\u015filer birbirlerine katt\u0131klar\u0131yla geli\u015ftirir. Bazen bu geli\u015fim, farkl\u0131 y\u00f6nlere de gidebilir. B\u00f6yle bir\u015fey farketti\u011finizde bunun \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7meye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n.
\nBenzer Yaz\u0131lar:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Pozitif Ol, Mutlu Ol.<\/a>
\nA\u015fk U\u011fruna Yapmaman\u0131z Gerekenler<\/a>
\nHuzursuz \u0130li\u015fkiler Hasta Ediyor<\/a>
\nMutluluk \u00d6mr\u00fc Uzat\u0131yor<\/a>
\nAyr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 F\u0131rsat Olarak G\u00f6rebilmek<\/a><\/h5>\n

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e\u00c7ift<\/a> – A\u015fk Burada Ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

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    Bir insanla yak\u0131nla\u015f\u0131p ili\u015fkiyi s\u00fcrd\u00fcrebilmek emek istiyor. Ancak, mutlu ve uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc bir ili\u015fki ya\u015famak g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fczde b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz kadar zor de\u011fil. Kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fim ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 beklentiler, hayalk\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011frama ihtimalini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr. Bu i\u015fi kotarm\u0131\u015f \u00e7iftleri inceledi\u011fimizde belirlenen ortak noktalar\u0131 listeledik.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[22,193,1807,536,194,1088,1026],"class_list":["post-6815","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kalp","tag-ask","tag-ecift","tag-ibasarili-iliskiler","tag-iliski-tavsiyeleri","tag-mutlu-iliskiler","tag-mutlu-iliskilerin-sirri","tag-uzun-omurlu-iliskiler"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6815","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6815"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6815\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11547,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6815\/revisions\/11547"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6815"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6815"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6815"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}