{"id":6682,"date":"2014-05-20T10:10:14","date_gmt":"2014-05-20T07:10:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=6682"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:14:36","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:14:36","slug":"iletisim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2014\/05\/20\/iletisim\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130leti\u015fimi Sonland\u0131rman\u0131n Kibar Yolu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-6683\" title=\"\u0130leti\u015fimi Sonland\u0131rmak\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/stockfresh_4122852_teenage-girl-laptop-computer-and-notebook_sizeXS.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"416\" height=\"289\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/stockfresh_4122852_teenage-girl-laptop-computer-and-notebook_sizeXS.jpg 416w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/stockfresh_4122852_teenage-girl-laptop-computer-and-notebook_sizeXS-300x208.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 416px) 100vw, 416px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u0130nternette bir \u015fekilde tan\u0131\u015f\u0131p yaz\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015filer olduysa sohbetin bazen umdu\u011funuz gibi geli\u015fmedi\u011fini deneyimlemi\u015fsinizdir.<\/p>\n<p>Kimi zaman, beklenti ve ilgi alanlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n uyu\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz. Bazen de ilgi alan\u0131n\u0131za giren bir ba\u015fka aday, di\u011ferlerine ilginizi kaybetmenize sebep olur. B\u00f6yle durumlarda hi\u00e7bir a\u00e7\u0131klama yapmadan ileti\u015fimi kesti\u011finiz oldu mu?<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>\u0130leti\u015fimi sonland\u0131rman\u0131n en kolay yolu, mesajlar\u0131 cevaps\u0131z b\u0131rak\u0131p zamanla kendili\u011finden kopmas\u0131n\u0131 beklemek. Ancak, kendinizi kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n yerine koyacak olursan\u0131z ne kadar naho\u015f bir durum oldu\u011funu az \u00e7ok tahmin edebilirsiniz. Hatta ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za gelmi\u015fse ve birden kesilen mesajlar\u0131n sebebini merak ettiyseniz, anlamak daha da kolayla\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Tam da bu sebepten ileti\u015fimi sonland\u0131rman\u0131n farkl\u0131 bir yolunu denemenizi \u00f6neriyoruz. Biraz daha \u00f6zveri gerektirse de kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015finin \u00f6zg\u00fcvenini sarsmadan ad\u0131m atm\u0131\u015f olursunuz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>D\u00fcr\u00fcst olun:<\/strong> Kendinize yap\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 istemedi\u011finiz \u015feyi kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakine de yapmay\u0131n. Oyalay\u0131c\u0131 s\u00f6ylemlerden ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n ve beklentilerinizi do\u011fru \u015fekilde aktar\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A\u00e7\u0131k ve net olun:<\/strong> Laf\u0131 doland\u0131rmay\u0131n. \u0130leti\u015fim sonland\u0131rma amac\u0131ndaysan\u0131z, bunu yaz\u0131p ertesi g\u00fcn ba\u015fka bir mesaj atmay\u0131n. Hareketleriniz tutarl\u0131, c\u00fcmleleriniz imas\u0131z ve a\u00e7\u0131k olsun.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sayg\u0131l\u0131 ve kibar olun:<\/strong> Hi\u00e7bir zaman hakaret ya da k\u00fcf\u00fcr i\u00e7erikli mesajlar g\u00f6ndermeyin. Gereksiz ayr\u0131nt\u0131lara, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakileri yaralay\u0131c\u0131 ifadelere girmemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. M\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funda az zarar verecek bir mesaj atarak, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin ileriki tan\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131nda s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ya\u015fama riskini artt\u0131rmamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130lk denemede do\u011fru kelimeleri se\u00e7mede zorlanabilirsiniz ama bir sonrakinde \u00e7ok daha kolay oldu\u011funu siz de g\u00f6receksiniz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Benzer Yaz\u0131lar:<\/strong><\/p>\n<h5><a title=\"Twitter, A\u015fk\u0131 \u00d6ld\u00fcr\u00fcyor! kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2014\/04\/10\/twitter\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Twitter, A\u015fk\u0131 \u00d6ld\u00fcr\u00fcyor!<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"\u0130leti\u015fiminizi \u0130yile\u015ftirmenin 6 Yolu kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2014\/04\/09\/iletisimin-6yolu\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">\u0130leti\u015fiminizi \u0130yile\u015ftirmenin 6 Yolu<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"Telefonla\u015fmak M\u0131, Mesajla\u015fmak M\u0131? kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2014\/02\/26\/mesajlasmak\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Telefonla\u015fmak M\u0131, Mesajla\u015fmak M\u0131?<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"Alt\u0131n De\u011ferindeki \u0130lk Mesaj kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2014\/01\/30\/ilk-mesaj\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Alt\u0131n De\u011ferindeki \u0130lk Mesaj<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"Reddedilme Korkusu kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2013\/12\/26\/reddedilme-korkusu\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Reddedilme Korkusu<\/a><\/h5>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">e\u00c7ift<\/a> &#8211; A\u015fk Burada Ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; \u0130nternette bir \u015fekilde tan\u0131\u015f\u0131p yaz\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015filer olduysa sohbetin bazen umdu\u011funuz gibi geli\u015fmedi\u011fini deneyimlemi\u015fsinizdir. Kimi zaman, beklenti ve ilgi alanlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n uyu\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz. Bazen de ilgi alan\u0131n\u0131za giren bir ba\u015fka aday, di\u011ferlerine ilginizi kaybetmenize sebep olur. B\u00f6yle durumlarda hi\u00e7bir a\u00e7\u0131klama yapmadan ileti\u015fimi kesti\u011finiz oldu mu?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6683,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[22,193,1754,1753,1750,1751,1015,1749,1752],"class_list":["post-6682","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalp","tag-ask","tag-ecift","tag-iletisimi-bitirmek","tag-iletisimi-sonlandirmak","tag-internette-iletisim","tag-internette-mesajlasma","tag-internette-tanismak","tag-internette-yazismak","tag-mesaslasmayi-sonlandirmak"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6682","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6682"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6682\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11559,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6682\/revisions\/11559"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6683"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6682"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6682"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6682"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}