{"id":6661,"date":"2014-05-15T15:51:13","date_gmt":"2014-05-15T12:51:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=6661"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:14:36","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:14:36","slug":"pozitif","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2014\/05\/15\/pozitif\/","title":{"rendered":"Pozitif Ol, Mutlu Ol."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-6662\" title=\"Pozitif \" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/stockfresh_1088310_joy-and-freedom_sizeXS.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"424\" height=\"283\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/stockfresh_1088310_joy-and-freedom_sizeXS.jpg 424w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/stockfresh_1088310_joy-and-freedom_sizeXS-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 424px) 100vw, 424px\" \/><br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\nBaz\u0131 durumlar vard\u0131r, ya\u015fam enerjimizin \u00e7ekildi\u011fini hissederiz. Bunun sebebi bas\u0131k hava olabilir, gergin bir ofis ortam\u0131 olabilir, bazen de sizi olumsuz s\u00f6ylemleri ile a\u015fa\u011f\u0131ya \u00e7eken bir arkada\u015f.<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\n\u0130nsan sosyal bir varl\u0131kt\u0131r. G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayattaki etkile\u015fimlerinden etkilenir ve kendini sosyal ili\u015fkilerine g\u00f6re tan\u0131mlar. \u0130leti\u015fimin kopuk oldu\u011fu ortamlarda gergin bir hava olu\u015fur, tam tersi insan\u0131n kendini rahat hissetti\u011fi ortamda enerjisi y\u00fckselir ve \u00e7evresine daha olumlu ve uyumlu duygular yans\u0131t\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Peki ortam\u0131 ve insanlar\u0131 se\u00e7emedi\u011fimiz durumlarda ne yapmak gerekir? Neyseki bunun i\u00e7in de baz\u0131 y\u00f6ntemler mevcut. E\u011fer bu tavsiyelere uyup kendi modumuzu y\u00fckseltebilirsek, ortam\u0131 ve insanlar\u0131 da etkileyebilir ve gri bulutlar\u0131 biraz olsun da\u011f\u0131tabiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7evrenizi pozitif duygular ve y\u00fcksek enerjili insanlardan olu\u015fturmak istiyorsan\u0131z, i\u015fe kendiniz pozitif olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak ba\u015flay\u0131n.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n<strong>Kendinize inanc\u0131n\u0131z tam olsun:<\/strong> \u00d6ncelikle, kendinize g\u00fcvenmeniz ve kendiniz i\u00e7in belirledi\u011finiz hedeflerden emin olman\u0131z gerekiyor. Yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sorumlulu\u011funu al\u0131p do\u011fru buldu\u011funuz \u015feyleri savunabildi\u011finiz bir tav\u0131r \u00e7evrenize de g\u00fcven verir. Karas\u0131zl\u0131k ve g\u00fcvensizlik ise tam tersi, belirsizlik hisleri sebebiyle olumsuz etkiler.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k beklemeden affedin:<\/strong>\u0130nsanlar hata yapabilir. Bu hatalar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman k\u00f6t\u00fc niyet olmaks\u0131z\u0131n, fazla d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmeden yap\u0131l\u0131r. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n hatalar\u0131n\u0131 her seferinde g\u00fcndeme getirip negatif deneyimleri hat\u0131rlamak \u00e7ok da gerekli de\u011fil. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131, olumsuz duygular birer deneyim olarak de\u011ferlendirildi\u011finde asl\u0131nda \u00e7ok da \u00f6nemli dersler i\u00e7erdi\u011fini g\u00f6rebilirsiniz. Bu noktalar\u0131n\u0131 kendinize not al\u0131p gerisini ge\u00e7mi\u015fte b\u0131rak\u0131n. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakini affedip olumsuz deneyimleri geride b\u0131rakabildi\u011finizde daha hafif oldu\u011funuzu g\u00f6receksiniz. Siz y\u00fckleri geride b\u0131rakt\u0131k\u00e7a \u00e7evrenizdeki destekleyici ve y\u00fcksek enerjili insanlar\u0131n artt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6receksiniz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cNas\u0131l bakarsan \u00f6yle g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u201d:<\/strong> E\u011fer olumlu bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 benimserseniz olumlu deneyimleriniz artar. Tam tersi olarak karamsar olduk\u00e7a hep k\u00f6t\u00fc deneyimlere odaklan\u0131r ve bu d\u00f6ng\u00fcden \u00e7\u0131kamazs\u0131n\u0131z. Her\u015feyin bir sebebi var, siz iyi niyetli bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131zdan de\u011ferlendirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Benzer Yaz\u0131lar:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h5><a title=\"Mutluluk \u00d6mr\u00fc Uzat\u0131yor kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2014\/02\/05\/mutluluk\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Mutluluk \u00d6mr\u00fc Uzat\u0131yor<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"Ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 F\u0131rsat Olarak G\u00f6rebilmek kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2013\/11\/19\/ayrilik-firsati\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 F\u0131rsat Olarak G\u00f6rebilmek<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"A\u015fk Hayat\u0131n\u0131zda Devrim Yap\u0131n kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2013\/11\/06\/askta-devrim\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">A\u015fk Hayat\u0131n\u0131zda Devrim Yap\u0131n<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"Sar\u0131lman\u0131n G\u00fcc\u00fc kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2012\/11\/26\/sarilmanin-gucu\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Sar\u0131lman\u0131n G\u00fcc\u00fc<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck Sevin\u00e7ler, Sa\u011flam Temeller kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2012\/09\/24\/kucuk-sevincler\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck Sevin\u00e7ler, Sa\u011flam Temeller<\/a><\/h5>\n<p>&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">e\u00c7ift<\/a> &#8211; A\u015fk Burada Ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; Baz\u0131 durumlar vard\u0131r, ya\u015fam enerjimizin \u00e7ekildi\u011fini hissederiz. Bunun sebebi bas\u0131k hava olabilir, gergin bir ofis ortam\u0131 olabilir, bazen de sizi olumsuz s\u00f6ylemleri ile a\u015fa\u011f\u0131ya \u00e7eken bir arkada\u015f.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6662,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[22,193,1744,194,664,1745,1746,1743],"class_list":["post-6661","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalp","tag-ask","tag-ecift","tag-kisisel-mutluluk","tag-mutlu-iliskiler","tag-mutlu-olmak-icin","tag-mutlu-olmanin-yolu","tag-pozitif-ask","tag-pozitif-olmak"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6661","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6661"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6661\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11560,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6661\/revisions\/11560"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6662"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6661"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6661"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6661"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}