{"id":6545,"date":"2014-04-09T13:59:29","date_gmt":"2014-04-09T10:59:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=6545"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:14:36","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:14:36","slug":"iletisimin-6yolu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2014\/04\/09\/iletisimin-6yolu\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130leti\u015fiminizi \u0130yile\u015ftirmenin 6 Yolu"},"content":{"rendered":"

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A\u015fk\u0131n tuzu biberi ufak tefek kavgalard\u0131r. Ba\u011fr\u0131\u015f \u2013 \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131\u015f ard\u0131ndan var\u0131lan ya\u015fanan ate\u015fkes, yat\u0131\u015fan sinirler beraberinde bir rahatlama getirir. Ancak, kavgalar\u0131n s\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve niteli\u011fi ili\u015fkinizin kalitesini etkileyebilir. \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcms\u00fcz ve \u015fiddetli kavgalar sizi y\u0131prat\u0131r ve uzun vadede tuz-biber olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n

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\u0130\u015flerin bu noktaya gelmemesi i\u00e7in ileti\u015fiminiz g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olmal\u0131. \u201cG\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ileti\u015fim nas\u0131l olur?\u201d diyecek olursan\u0131z;<\/p>\n

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1.<\/strong> \u00d6nceli\u011finiz her zaman \u201canlamak\u201d olsun, \u201c\u00fcste \u00e7\u0131kmak\u201d ya da \u201cg\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc kabul ettirmek de\u011fil\u201d. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin derdini, k\u0131zd\u0131\u011f\u0131 noktay\u0131 anlayamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulmak da zorla\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n

2.<\/strong> Kimin hakl\u0131 oldu\u011fu \u00f6nemli de\u011fil. \u0130ki taraf birbirini az \u00e7ok anlad\u0131ysa bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulup ortak bir noktada bulu\u015fmak daha \u00f6nemli. \u0130\u015fi sidik yar\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7evirmek bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm olmayacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

3.<\/strong> \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcretme a\u015famas\u0131nda duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 geride b\u0131rak\u0131n, mant\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 dinleyin. Yo\u011fun duygular, i\u015fleri oldu\u011fundan farkl\u0131 g\u00f6rmenize sebep olabilir. Gerekiyorsa biraz ara verip sakinle\u015ftikten sonra \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00f6nerileri \u00fczerinde konu\u015fabilirsiniz. Daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 sonu\u00e7lar alaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6receksiniz.<\/p>\n

4.<\/strong> Kelimeleri se\u00e7erek kullan\u0131n. \u00d6fke an\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden sarf edilen s\u00f6zler hi\u00e7 istemeyece\u011finiz reaksiyonlara sebep olabilir. Tart\u0131\u015fma s\u0131ras\u0131nda ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z cevaplardan kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin en \u00e7ok hangi noktalara tak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirleyip bu tarz kal\u0131plar\u0131 kullanmamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

5.<\/strong> Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin duygular\u0131n\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemeyin, \u00f6nemseyin. Y\u0131prat\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fil, yap\u0131c\u0131 olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n ve bu do\u011frultuda s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 koruyun. \u00c7izgiyi a\u015fmamaya, terbiyesizle\u015fmemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n

6.<\/strong> Sorunlar\u0131 g\u00f6rmemezlikten gelmeyin, ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz tart\u0131\u015fmalarda konuyu \u00f6ylece b\u0131rak\u0131p ka\u00e7may\u0131n. Sorunlar birikmeden \u00e7\u00f6zmek her zaman daha kolay olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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E\u011fer kavga konunuz hep ayn\u0131ysa, belli durumlara \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcretemiyorsan\u0131z k\u0131s\u0131r d\u00f6ng\u00fc i\u00e7ine girmeyin. Tarafs\u0131z bir 3. Ki\u015fiye dan\u0131\u015fabilir, profesyonel yard\u0131m isteyebilirsiniz. Daha \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm odakl\u0131 yollar\u0131 denemeniz faydal\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Benzer Yaz\u0131lar:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Telefonla\u015fmak M\u0131, Mesajla\u015fmak M\u0131?<\/a>
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    A\u015fk\u0131n tuzu biberi ufak tefek kavgalard\u0131r. Ba\u011fr\u0131\u015f \u2013 \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131\u015f ard\u0131ndan var\u0131lan ya\u015fanan ate\u015fkes, yat\u0131\u015fan sinirler beraberinde bir rahatlama getirir. Ancak, kavgalar\u0131n s\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve niteli\u011fi ili\u015fkinizin kalitesini etkileyebilir. \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcms\u00fcz ve \u015fiddetli kavgalar sizi y\u0131prat\u0131r ve uzun vadede tuz-biber olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6548,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[22,193,540,68,989,1700,990,987],"class_list":["post-6545","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalp","tag-ask","tag-ecift","tag-iletisim","tag-iliskiler","tag-iliskilerde-iletisim","tag-sorunlari-cozum","tag-tartismalara-cozum","tag-tartismamak-icin"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6545","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6545"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6545\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11570,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6545\/revisions\/11570"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6548"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6545"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6545"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6545"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}