{"id":6516,"date":"2014-04-02T11:51:32","date_gmt":"2014-04-02T08:51:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=6516"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:14:36","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:14:36","slug":"saman-alevi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2014\/04\/02\/saman-alevi\/","title":{"rendered":"A\u015fk\u0131n\u0131z Bir Saman Alevi Mi?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-6518\" title=\"Saman Alevi Mi, Ger\u00e7ek A\u015fk M\u0131?\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/stockfresh_2679594_love-is-blind-woman-wearing-heart-shape-glasses_sizeXS.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"424\" height=\"283\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/stockfresh_2679594_love-is-blind-woman-wearing-heart-shape-glasses_sizeXS.jpg 424w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/stockfresh_2679594_love-is-blind-woman-wearing-heart-shape-glasses_sizeXS-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 424px) 100vw, 424px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Romantik Hollywood filmleri, beyaz atl\u0131 prenslerin ba\u015frolde oldu\u011fu prenses masallar\u0131 ile a\u015fka dair beklentilerimizin k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flardan itibaren \u015fekillendi\u011fini s\u00f6yleyebiliriz. Bu beklentilerin ne kadar kar\u015f\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 zaman ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e deneyimleyip kendimize g\u00f6re yeniden olu\u015fturuyoruz. Ancak, a\u015f\u0131kken duygu yo\u011funlu\u011fumuzdan dolay\u0131 g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fczden ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z baz\u0131 \u00f6nemli ipu\u00e7lar\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ili\u015fkinin bir saman alevi mi yoksa y\u0131llard\u0131r arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z mutlu ve uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc a\u015fk m\u0131 oldu\u011funu anlamak i\u00e7in \u015fu noktalar\u0131 g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde bulundurmakta fayda var.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Duygu yo\u011funlu\u011fu bir kriter de\u011fil:<\/strong> Uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc ili\u015fkilerin en \u00f6nemli unsurlar\u0131ndan biri, ili\u015fkinin olgunlu\u011fudur.\u00a0 Bu olgunlu\u011fun olu\u015fabilmesi i\u00e7in belli bir zaman, sayg\u0131 ve g\u00fcven gerekir. \u0130lk zamanlarda hissedilen yo\u011fun duygular bu 3 unsurun \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7ti\u011fi i\u00e7in tam olarak kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin do\u011fru insan olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6stergesi olarak kabul edilemez.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Uyar\u0131 bayraklar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmemezlikten gelmeyin:<\/strong> Kendinizi bir ili\u015fkiye adad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, dengelere dikkat edin. \u00c7e\u015fitli k\u00fclt\u00fcrel yarg\u0131lar\u0131 kenara b\u0131rakarak kendinizin daha \u00e7ok fedakarl\u0131k yapmas\u0131 veya ili\u015fikiyi sahiplenmesi gerekti\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesini benimsemeyin. \u0130ki ki\u015finin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 etkile\u015fimleriyle olu\u015facak ili\u015fkiniz, sa\u011flam temeller \u00fczerine oturmal\u0131. Ba\u015ftan itibaren sorumluluk sahibi olan tek taraf olmamal\u0131, taraflar aras\u0131nda e\u015fit da\u011f\u0131lmal\u0131.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Baz\u0131 konullarda hemfikir olmak gerekebilir:<\/strong> Bireysel d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve kararlar\u0131n\u0131zda farkl\u0131l\u0131k g\u00f6stermeniz ili\u015fkinizi zenginle\u015ftirse de belli durumlarda ortak bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131na sahip olup ayn\u0131 do\u011frultuda karar verebilmek uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc ili\u015fkilerin \u00f6nemli bir par\u00e7as\u0131. \u00d6rne\u011fin;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<ul>Duygu yo\u011funlu\u011funuz ve ileti\u015fim al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z<\/ul>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<ul>Gelecek planlar\u0131, tatiller<\/ul>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<ul>Birbirinize kar\u015f\u0131 olan sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131z<\/ul>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<ul>Arkada\u015f ortamlar\u0131, aile ile tan\u0131\u015fma zamanlamas\u0131<\/ul>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>Ekonomik durum, genel harcamalar, ya\u015fam standard\u0131<\/ul>\n<p>gibi konularda yak\u0131n \u00e7izgide yer alman\u0131z \u00f6nemli bir i\u015farettir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fcm bu maddeleri bir c\u00fcmlede toplayacak olursak, \u201cromantik bir ili\u015fkinin olmazsa olmaz\u0131; sizi sevgi, sayg\u0131 ve hakketti\u011finiz de\u011fer \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde tamamlayacak biriyle beraber zaman i\u00e7inde olu\u015facak g\u00fcvenli bir ileti\u015fimdir\u201d diyebiliriz.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Benzer Yaz\u0131lar:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h5><a title=\"\u0130\u015fler Ciddile\u015fmeden\u2026 kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2014\/01\/02\/isler-ciddi\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">\u0130\u015fler Ciddile\u015fmeden\u2026<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"Fl\u00f6rtten Ciddi \u0130li\u015fkiye Ne Zaman Ge\u00e7meli kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2013\/10\/24\/flortten\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Fl\u00f6rtten Ciddi \u0130li\u015fkiye Ne Zaman Ge\u00e7meli<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"K\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 Alarma Sebep Olan Davran\u0131\u015flar kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2013\/09\/13\/kirmizi-alarm\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">K\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 Alarma Sebep Olan Davran\u0131\u015flar<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"Z\u0131t Kutuplar Birbirini \u00c7eker mi? kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2012\/10\/05\/zit-kutuplar\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Z\u0131t Kutuplar Birbirini \u00c7eker mi?<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"Ciddi Kararlar Almadan \u00d6nce Sorman\u0131z Gerekenler kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2012\/06\/26\/ciddi-kararlar\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Ciddi Kararlar Almadan \u00d6nce Sorman\u0131z Gerekenler<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"Huzursuz \u0130li\u015fkiler Hasta Ediyor kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2014\/03\/06\/huzursuz\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Huzursuz \u0130li\u015fkiler Hasta Ediyor<\/a><\/h5>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">e\u00c7ift<\/a> &#8211; A\u015fk Burada Ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Romantik Hollywood filmleri, beyaz atl\u0131 prenslerin ba\u015frolde oldu\u011fu prenses masallar\u0131 ile a\u015fka dair beklentilerimizin k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flardan itibaren \u015fekillendi\u011fini s\u00f6yleyebiliriz. Bu beklentilerin ne kadar kar\u015f\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 zaman ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e deneyimleyip kendimize g\u00f6re yeniden olu\u015fturuyoruz. Ancak, a\u015f\u0131kken duygu yo\u011funlu\u011fumuzdan dolay\u0131 g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fczden ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z baz\u0131 \u00f6nemli ipu\u00e7lar\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6518,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2387,4],"tags":[22,193,1693,1694,1695,68,1696,1692,1026],"class_list":["post-6516","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-flort","category-kalp","tag-ask","tag-ecift","tag-gercek-ask","tag-gercek-aski-nerden-anlarim","tag-gercek-askin-ozellikleri","tag-iliskiler","tag-mutlu-iliskilerin-ipuclari","tag-saman-alevi-asklar","tag-uzun-omurlu-iliskiler"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6516","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6516"}],"version-history":[{"count":18,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6516\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11572,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6516\/revisions\/11572"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6518"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6516"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6516"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6516"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}