{"id":6206,"date":"2014-01-02T14:30:33","date_gmt":"2014-01-02T12:30:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=6206"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:14:38","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:14:38","slug":"isler-ciddi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2014\/01\/02\/isler-ciddi\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130\u015fler Ciddile\u015fmeden&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-6207\" title=\"Ciddile\u015fmek?\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/stockfresh_2458107_sad-woman-holding-red-valentine-heart_sizeXS.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"424\" height=\"283\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/stockfresh_2458107_sad-woman-holding-red-valentine-heart_sizeXS.jpg 424w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/stockfresh_2458107_sad-woman-holding-red-valentine-heart_sizeXS-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 424px) 100vw, 424px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u0130li\u015fkiniz i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fck bir ad\u0131m atmaya haz\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fczenli olarak g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp beraber vakit ge\u00e7irmekten keyif ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z biri var. Zaman ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e payla\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n say\u0131s\u0131 ve niteli\u011fi art\u0131yorken kendinizi bir yol ayr\u0131m\u0131nda bulabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Bekar g\u00fcnlerinize veda edip, daha \u00e7ok zaman ve emek gerektiren bir birlikteli\u011fe ad\u0131m atabilir ya da bireyselli\u011finizi korumak ve \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczden \u00f6d\u00fcn vermemek i\u00e7in mesafenizi korumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilirsiniz.\u00a0Se\u00e7iminizi ilkinden yana kullanacaksan\u0131z kendinize baz\u0131 sorular sorup ciddi bir ili\u015fki i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ekten de haz\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z, \u00f6\u011frenebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n<strong>Ortak bir gelecek hayal edebiliyor musunuz?<\/strong> Birka\u00e7 ay, hatta birka\u00e7 y\u0131l sonras\u0131na dair plan ve hayallerinizde o ki\u015fiye de yer veriyor musunuz? Onu hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n neresine konumland\u0131raca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z konusunda hen\u00fcz bir\u015fey belirleyemediyseniz, belki de biraz daha zamana ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ger\u00e7ekten ho\u015flan\u0131yor musunuz?<\/strong> Beraber sinemaya gitmek, yemek yemek gibi ara ara yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z aktivitelerde g\u00fczel zaman ge\u00e7iriyor olabilirsiniz. Peki ona ger\u00e7ekten de de\u011fer veriyor musunuz? Sorunlar\u0131n\u0131 dinlemek, nas\u0131l hissetti\u011fine \u00f6nem vermek de ge\u00e7irdi\u011finiz zamanlar\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131 m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sorunlarla nas\u0131l ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorsunuz?<\/strong> Anla\u015fmazl\u0131\u011fa d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczde ya da birbirinizi k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda nas\u0131l bir ileti\u015fiminiz oluyor? Duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7ekinmeden payla\u015fabiliyor ve birbirinizi dinliyor musunuz? Yoksa sorunlar yokmu\u015f gibi mi davran\u0131yorsunuz? E\u011fer uzun s\u00fcreli bir ili\u015fki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, sorunlar hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fabilmeniz ve birbirinizi anlaman\u0131z son derece \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ge\u00e7mi\u015ften gelen sorunlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zd\u00fcn\u00fcz m\u00fc?<\/strong> \u0130ki taraf\u0131n da \u00f6nceki ili\u015fkilerinden kalm\u0131\u015f baz\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 olabilir. \u00dczerinden yeterince zaman ge\u00e7ince etkisi azalan bu sorunlar, yeni ili\u015fkilere ta\u015f\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda p\u00fcr\u00fczler olu\u015fturabilir. Eski sevgilisini unutamam\u0131\u015f, kafa da\u011f\u0131tmak i\u00e7in beraber zaman ge\u00e7irdi\u011finiz biriyle ciddi bir ili\u015fki do\u011fru bir karar olmayabilir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hassas konularda d\u00fcr\u00fcst davranabiliyor musunuz?<\/strong> Para, cinsellik gibi pek konu\u015fulmayan konularda ayn\u0131 bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015fmak \u00f6nemlidir. Bu tip konular hep geri plana at\u0131lsa da bir\u00e7ok ili\u015fkinin y\u00fcr\u00fcmemesinin sebebidir. A\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a konu\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, orta yolu bulamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z konular varsa, ileride daha b\u00fcy\u00fck anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar ya\u015faman\u0131z\u0131n olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ok y\u00fcksek.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Aile ve arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z bu ili\u015fkiyi onayl\u0131yor mu?<\/strong> Bazen d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bir g\u00f6z bizim g\u00f6remedi\u011fimiz \u015feyleri farkeder. Sizi \u00e7ok iyi tan\u0131yan aile ve arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z, beraber oldu\u011funuz ki\u015finin size ne kadar uygun oldu\u011fu konusunda da genelde do\u011fru bir fikre sahip olurlar. Sizi uyard\u0131klar\u0131 bir konu varsa, dikkate almakta fayda var. Pembe g\u00f6zl\u00fckleri fark\u0131nda olmadan takm\u0131\u015f olabilir ve bunu \u00e7ok ge\u00e7 farkedebilirsiniz. Sizi seven yak\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n yaln\u0131zca iyili\u011finizi istedi\u011fini unutmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tek e\u015flilik, evlilik, \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirme konular\u0131nda bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z benzer mi?<\/strong> Bunu konu\u015fmak i\u00e7in erken demeyin. Bu konularda farkl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flere sahipseniz, beraber mutlu olman\u0131z maalesef m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil. Herkesin evlilik ve \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirme konusunda belli beklentileri vard\u0131r. Bunu \u015fimdiye kadar ciddi ciddi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemi\u015f olabilirsiniz, ancak bu beklentiler kar\u015f\u0131lanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaratacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>De\u011fer yarg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z nas\u0131l?<\/strong> \u0130nan\u00e7, aile yap\u0131s\u0131 gibi unsurlar ki\u015fili\u011finizin ve hayat tarz\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r. Biriyle yak\u0131nla\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda devreye bu etkenlerin belirledi\u011fi al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z da girer. Bu noktalarda benzer bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131na sahip de\u011filseniz ileride anl\u015famazl\u0131\u011fa d\u00fc\u015febilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Bu sorular\u0131n rehberli\u011finde daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 karar verebilirsiniz.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Benzer Yaz\u0131lar:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<h5><a title=\"Z\u0131t Kutuplar Birbirini \u00c7eker mi? kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2012\/10\/05\/zit-kutuplar\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Z\u0131t Kutuplar Birbirini \u00c7eker mi?<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"Fl\u00f6rtten Ciddi \u0130li\u015fkiye Ne Zaman Ge\u00e7meli kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2013\/10\/24\/flortten\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Fl\u00f6rtten Ciddi \u0130li\u015fkiye Ne Zaman Ge\u00e7meli<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"Bilgisayar Ba\u015f\u0131ndayken Sorulacak 5 Soru kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2013\/10\/07\/5-soru\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Bilgisayar Ba\u015f\u0131ndayken Sorulacak 5 Soru<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"K\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 Alarma Sebep Olan Davran\u0131\u015flar kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2013\/09\/13\/kirmizi-alarm\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">K\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 Alarma Sebep Olan Davran\u0131\u015flar<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"\u0130li\u015fkinin Ad\u0131n\u0131 Koymak kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2012\/07\/13\/iliskinin-adini-koymak\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">\u0130li\u015fkinin Ad\u0131n\u0131 Koymak<\/a><\/h5>\n<p>&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">e\u00c7ift<\/a> &#8211; A\u015fk Burada Ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; \u0130li\u015fkiniz i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fck bir ad\u0131m atmaya haz\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z? D\u00fczenli olarak g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp beraber vakit ge\u00e7irmekten keyif ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z biri var. Zaman ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e payla\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n say\u0131s\u0131 ve niteli\u011fi art\u0131yorken kendinizi bir yol ayr\u0131m\u0131nda bulabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6207,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2387,4],"tags":[22,1606,293,1604,1605,1608,1607,194],"class_list":["post-6206","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-flort","category-kalp","tag-ask","tag-ciddi-dusunmek","tag-ciddi-iliski","tag-ciddi-iliskiden-once","tag-ciddi-iliskiye-hazir-misiniz","tag-iliskide-anlasmazliklar","tag-iliskilerin-temeli","tag-mutlu-iliskiler"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6206","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6206"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6206\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11596,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6206\/revisions\/11596"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6207"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6206"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6206"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6206"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}