{"id":6073,"date":"2013-11-19T11:57:14","date_gmt":"2013-11-19T09:57:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=6073"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:14:38","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:14:38","slug":"ayrilik-firsati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2013\/11\/19\/ayrilik-firsati\/","title":{"rendered":"Ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 F\u0131rsat Olarak G\u00f6rebilmek"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-6074\" title=\"G\u00fc\u00e7lenmek\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/stockfresh_2028919_crossfit-woman-doing-push-ups_sizeXS.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"424\" height=\"283\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/stockfresh_2028919_crossfit-woman-doing-push-ups_sizeXS.jpg 424w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/stockfresh_2028919_crossfit-woman-doing-push-ups_sizeXS-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 424px) 100vw, 424px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Her <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ecift.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">a\u015fk<\/a>, her ili\u015fki hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n geriye kalan\u0131n\u0131 beraber ge\u00e7irece\u011fimiz ki\u015fiyle oldu\u011fumuz inanc\u0131yla s\u00fcrer. Sanki hi\u00e7 bitmeyecekmi\u015f\u00e7esine ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ili\u015fkiler, ayr\u0131l\u0131kla sonland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ise olduk\u00e7a \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc ve zor bir d\u00f6nem ba\u015flar. Ancak,\u00a0 her biten ili\u015fkinin sizi ne kadar geli\u015ftirdi\u011fini ve t\u00fcm s\u00fcrecin \u00f6\u011freticili\u011fini k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsememek gerekir.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015f hi\u00e7bir \u015fey bo\u015funa ya da zaman kayb\u0131 olarak de\u011ferlendirilmemelidir. <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?s=ayr%C4%B1l%C4%B1k\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ayr\u0131l\u0131k<\/a> sonras\u0131 karamsarl\u0131\u011fa kap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z d\u00f6nemlerde, kendinize hat\u0131rlatabilece\u011finiz olumlu \u00f6zellikler hi\u00e7 de az de\u011fil.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n<strong>Biten her ili\u015fki, sizi as\u0131l ili\u015fkiniz i\u00e7in haz\u0131rlar.<\/strong><br \/>\nZaman i\u00e7inde eski \u00e7ekicili\u011fini yitiren, eskisi kadar mutluluk ve huzur vermeyen ili\u015fkiler bitti\u011finde, kendiniz ve ili\u015fkiler hakk\u0131nda yeni bir\u00e7ok \u015fey \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015f olursunuz. Bir ili\u015fkiden ve kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinden beklentileriniz art\u0131k daha nettir. Ne istemedi\u011finizi \u00e7ok daha kolay\u00a0 belirler ve bu y\u00f6nde ilerleyebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Standartlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 belirlemenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.<\/strong><br \/>\nGe\u00e7mi\u015f ili\u015fkinizin y\u00fcr\u00fcmemesinin sebebi, size gelecek i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli ipu\u00e7lar\u0131 verir. Bu sebepleri ve kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinden beklentileriniz g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde bulundurarak yeni standartlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 belirleyip daha mutlu olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z birlikteliklere haz\u0131rl\u0131k yapabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z hakk\u0131nda ders \u00e7\u0131karabilirsiniz.<\/strong><br \/>\nGe\u00e7mi\u015f ili\u015fkilerinizde tart\u0131\u015fmaya, yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa, k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131\u011fa sebep olan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011ferlendirdi\u011finizde baz\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f kal\u0131plar\u0131n\u0131n kendini tekrar etti\u011fini g\u00f6rebilirsiniz. B\u00f6yle kal\u0131plar\u0131 tespit etti\u011finizde bunun de\u011fi\u015fen <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?s=ili%C5%9Fkiler\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ili\u015fkiler<\/a> ve ki\u015filerden ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z, karakterinizle alakal\u0131 bir durum oldu\u011funu fark edersiniz. B\u00f6yle durumlarda gelecek ili\u015fkinizde ayn\u0131 olumsuzluklar\u0131n tekrarlanmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in kendinizi geli\u015ftirmeye ve belli kal\u0131plardan ka\u00e7\u0131nmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sizi \u00f6ld\u00fcrmeyen \u015fey, g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir.<\/strong><br \/>\nHer biti\u015f, bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7t\u0131r asl\u0131nda. \u0130nsan \u00f6mr\u00fc boyunca say\u0131s\u0131z ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 ve biti\u015f deneyimler. Bir <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ecift.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ili\u015fki<\/a> bitti\u011finde, kendinize d\u00f6n\u00fcp yeniden bir birey olmay\u0131 ke\u015ffetmek, yaln\u0131zl\u0131k gibi duygularla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kmak gerekir. Her ayr\u0131l\u0131k, sizi biraz daha kendinize yak\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r ve duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n fark\u0131na varman\u0131z\u0131, gelecek beklentilerinizi ke\u015ffetmenizi sa\u011flar. Kendinizi yak\u0131ndan tan\u0131d\u0131k\u00e7a, daha g\u00fc\u00e7lenir ve g\u00fcvenli hissedersiniz.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\nHayat, ini\u015f ve \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015flarla dolu olsa da her gecenin ard\u0131ndan g\u00fcne\u015f do\u011far ve yeni bir g\u00fcn ba\u015flar. \u0130li\u015fkiler de sizi bekledi\u011finiz o \u00f6zel ki\u015fiye haz\u0131rlayan basamaklar gibidir. Bu s\u00fcreci bir f\u0131rsat olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcp kendinizi geli\u015ftirebilirsiniz. Duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bast\u0131rmak ya da ili\u015fkiler hakk\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekten ka\u00e7mak ger\u00e7ek \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm olmaz.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Benzer Yaz\u0131lar:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h5><a title=\"Yeni Bir \u0130li\u015fkiye \u201cGer\u00e7ekten\u201d Haz\u0131r M\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z? kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2013\/03\/08\/yeni-bir-iliski\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Yeni Bir \u0130li\u015fkiye \u201cGer\u00e7ekten\u201d Haz\u0131r M\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"K\u0131r\u0131k Kalp Ger\u00e7ekten Ac\u0131t\u0131yor kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2012\/10\/01\/kirik-kalp-sendromu\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">K\u0131r\u0131k Kalp Ger\u00e7ekten Ac\u0131t\u0131yor<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"\u0130li\u015fki Bitti\u011finde Asla Yapmaman\u0131z Gerekenler kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2012\/08\/14\/iliski-bittiginde\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">\u0130li\u015fki Bitti\u011finde Asla Yapmaman\u0131z Gerekenler<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"\u015eimdi Gel De G\u00f6r Beni! kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2012\/09\/20\/simdi-gel-de-gor-beni\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">\u015eimdi Gel De G\u00f6r Beni!<\/a><\/h5>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">e\u00c7ift<\/a> \u2013 A\u015fk Burada Ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; Her a\u015fk, her ili\u015fki hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n geriye kalan\u0131n\u0131 beraber ge\u00e7irece\u011fimiz ki\u015fiyle oldu\u011fumuz inanc\u0131yla s\u00fcrer. Sanki hi\u00e7 bitmeyecekmi\u015f\u00e7esine ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ili\u015fkiler, ayr\u0131l\u0131kla sonland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ise olduk\u00e7a \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc ve zor bir d\u00f6nem ba\u015flar. Ancak,\u00a0 her biten ili\u015fkinin sizi ne kadar geli\u015ftirdi\u011fini ve t\u00fcm s\u00fcrecin \u00f6\u011freticili\u011fini k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsememek gerekir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6074,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[22,569,566,737,1144,1000,1001,1553,1133,1552,193],"class_list":["post-6073","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalp","tag-ask","tag-ask-acisi","tag-ayrilik","tag-ayrilik-acisi","tag-ayrilik-sonrasi","tag-ayrilikla-basa-cikmak","tag-ayrilikla-basa-cikmanin-yollari","tag-biten-ask","tag-biten-iliskiler","tag-biten-iliskilerin-ardindan","tag-ecift"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6073","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6073"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6073\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11607,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6073\/revisions\/11607"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6074"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6073"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6073"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6073"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}