{"id":5782,"date":"2013-09-16T11:38:03","date_gmt":"2013-09-16T08:38:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=5782"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:14:39","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:14:39","slug":"yalnizliktan-bunalmak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2013\/09\/16\/yalnizliktan-bunalmak\/","title":{"rendered":"Yaln\u0131zl\u0131ktan Bunald\u0131n\u0131z M\u0131?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Yaln\u0131zl\u0131k<\/a> zor. Hayat\u0131 payla\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z o \u00f6zel insana bir an evvel kavu\u015fmak isteyebilirsiniz. Ancak, \u00f6nce bir dakika durup kendimize bakal\u0131m. Hayalimizdeki insanla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda g\u00fczel bir ili\u015fki y\u00fcr\u00fctecek durumda m\u0131y\u0131z ger\u00e7ekten?<\/p>\n

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S\u0131ralayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z maddeler duygusal a\u00e7\u0131dan haz\u0131r olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 tespit etmeye yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir:
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\n\u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc bir ki\u015finin etkisi:<\/strong> Eski ili\u015fkinizin etkilerinden kurtulamam\u0131\u015f olabilirsiniz. Yeni biriyle tan\u0131\u015fma a\u015famas\u0131nda, onu s\u00fcrekli eski k\u0131z\/erkek arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131zla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yorsan\u0131z, bu konuyu hen\u00fcz a\u015famam\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funuzu g\u00f6sterir. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131zdan s\u0131kl\u0131kla bahsetmek de benzer bir durumun g\u00f6stergesidir. \u00d6ncelikle yapman\u0131z gereken bu defteri kapat\u0131p, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakini oldu\u011fu gibi, ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rmadan de\u011ferlendirmektir.<\/p>\n

Umutsuz bir aray\u0131\u015f i\u00e7inde olmak:<\/strong> Uzun zamand\u0131r yaln\u0131zsan\u0131z ve bu durum can\u0131n\u0131za tak ettiyse aray\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131za gere\u011finden fazla \u00f6nem veriyor olabilirsiniz. Hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n birincil amac\u0131n\u0131 bir e\u015f bulmak olarak belirlediyseniz d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda fazla umutsuz g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr ve kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc korkutursunuz. \u0130lk f\u0131rsat\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131rmamak i\u00e7in fark\u0131nda olmadan fazla s\u0131k bo\u011faz edebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

Genellemeler yapmak:<\/strong> Ge\u00e7mi\u015f deneyimlerinizden \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z dersler sonucunda insanlar\u0131 genelleyerek de\u011ferlendiriyor olabilirsiniz. Ancak, \u201cher yak\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131 ve kendine g\u00fcvenen erkek\u00a0 aldat\u0131r\u201d diye genelleyerek yak\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131 erkeklerden uzak durmak gibi hareketlerden ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc, herkesin ayr\u0131 bir karakteri, ayr\u0131 deneyimleri vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Al\u0131\u015fk\u0131nlara \u00f6ncelik vermek:<\/strong> \u00c7e\u015fitli al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klara sahipseniz, bunlar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden f\u0131rsatlar\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131yor olabilirsiniz. Sa\u011fl\u0131k ya da maddi sorunlar\u0131 beraberinde getirebilecek al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klardan kurtulmaya, daha sosyal aktivitelere a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131k vermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

Profilinize gereken \u00f6nemi vermemek:<\/strong> Arkada\u015fl\u0131k siteleri<\/a>nde olu\u015fturdu\u011funuz profilleriniz sizi ger\u00e7ekten do\u011fru yans\u0131t\u0131yor mu? Sizi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z kadar karamsar ya da ciddiyetsiz g\u00f6steriyor olabilir mi? Bu konuda yak\u0131n bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdan yard\u0131m alabilirsiniz. Profil bilgilerinize bak\u0131p d\u00fczeltmeler konusunda yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir daha uygun adaylarla tan\u0131\u015fman\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir.
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\nBu konularda de\u011ferlendirmelerinizi yapt\u0131ktan sonra yeni bir ili\u015fkiye haz\u0131r olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131za karar verip duruma g\u00f6re \u00f6nlemlerinizi alabilir, \u00e7evrenizden yard\u0131m isteyebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

 
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\nBenzer Yaz\u0131lar:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Yeni Bir \u0130li\u015fkiye \u201cGer\u00e7ekten\u201d Haz\u0131r M\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/a>
\nA\u015fktan Umut Kesilmez<\/a>
\nA\u015fk\u0131 Ararken\u2026<\/a>
\nDo\u011fru \u0130li\u015fkiyi Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131za Nas\u0131l Emin Olursunuz?<\/a>
\nYaln\u0131zl\u0131ktan S\u0131k\u0131ldays\u0131n\u0131z B\u00f6yle Buyrun!<\/a><\/h5>\n

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    Yaln\u0131zl\u0131k zor. Hayat\u0131 payla\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z o \u00f6zel insana bir an evvel kavu\u015fmak isteyebilirsiniz. Ancak, \u00f6nce bir dakika durup kendimize bakal\u0131m. Hayalimizdeki insanla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda g\u00fczel bir ili\u015fki y\u00fcr\u00fctecek durumda m\u0131y\u0131z ger\u00e7ekten?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5783,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[22,1416,1415,1417,1418,193,1419,1414,1413,69,1177],"class_list":["post-5782","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalp","tag-ask","tag-ask-ariyorum","tag-aski-aramak","tag-aski-ararken-yapilan-hatalar","tag-askta-genelleme","tag-ecift","tag-ecift-profilini-doldurma","tag-yalnizliga-son-vermek","tag-yalnizligin-zorluklari","tag-yalnizlik","tag-yeni-bir-iliski"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5782","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5782"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5782\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11628,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5782\/revisions\/11628"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5783"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5782"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5782"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5782"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}