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En sevilen dedikodu<\/a> konular\u0131ndan biri, eski a\u015fk hikayeleridir. Bitmi\u015f ili\u015fkiler<\/a>in ard\u0131ndan, ki\u015filerin ayr\u0131l\u0131k d\u00f6nemini nas\u0131l atlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hakk\u0131nda say\u0131s\u0131z yorum yap\u0131l\u0131r. A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 tepkiler,\u00a0bu konu\u015fmalar\u0131n odak noktas\u0131d\u0131r. <\/p>\n Erkek arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z eski k\u0131z arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n hala kendisiyle ileti\u015fime ge\u00e7ip kendisini rahats\u0131z etti\u011finden \u015fikayet\u00e7iyse, endi\u015felenmemeniz i\u00e7in 2 sebep var.<\/p>\n \u0130lki, \u201ceski\u201d k\u0131z arkada\u015f olmas\u0131 yani beraber bir geleceklerinin olmayaca\u011f\u0131; ikincisi de erkek arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n durumu biraz abart\u0131yor olabilece\u011fi.<\/p>\n B\u00f6yle bir durumda sizin yapman\u0131z gerekenler:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Destek\u00e7i olun:<\/strong> Sevgiliniz, eski k\u0131z arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n tav\u0131rlar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda zor durumda kal\u0131rken bir de sizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek zorunda kalmay\u0131 istemez. Buna m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca f\u0131rsat vermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Eski k\u0131z arkada\u015f\u0131yla ge\u00e7mi\u015f ili\u015fkilerini kurcalamay\u0131n ve k\u0131skanmay\u0131n. Anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 oldu\u011funuzu ve zor d\u00f6nemlerde arkas\u0131nda durdu\u011funuzu g\u00f6stermenin tam zaman\u0131.<\/p>\n Empati yap\u0131n:<\/strong> Kad\u0131nlar hassas d\u00f6nemlerden ge\u00e7erken tepkilerini kontrol edemeyip a\u015f\u0131r\u0131ya ka\u00e7abiliyor. \u00c7evrenize bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, benzer bir tepkiyi vermek durumunda kalan arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rebilirsiniz. Hatta belki benzer bir\u015feyi siz de ya\u015fam\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. Bunu g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcne ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015finin en yak\u0131n arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z Cansu<\/em> ya da kuzeniniz Pelin<\/em> de olabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek anlay\u0131\u015f g\u00f6stermeniz daha kolay olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n \u0130leti\u015fime ge\u00e7meyin:<\/strong> B\u00f6yle konularda 3. ki\u015filerin araya girmesi genellikle i\u015fleri daha da karma\u015f\u0131k bir hale sokar. \u0130ki ki\u015finin aras\u0131ndaki konulara sizin m\u00fcdahaleniz do\u011fru olmayacakt\u0131r. Sizin rahats\u0131zl\u0131k duydu\u011funuz zaman konu\u015fman\u0131z gereken ki\u015fi erkek arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r, eski k\u0131z arkada\u015f\u0131 de\u011fil.<\/p>\n Ders \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131n:\u00a0<\/strong>En \u00f6nemli atas\u00f6zlerimizden biri olan \u201cG\u00fclme kom\u015funa, gelir ba\u015f\u0131na.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc asla unutmay\u0131n.\u00a0 Hayat s\u00fcrprizlerle doludur, \u00f6n g\u00f6remeyece\u011finiz geli\u015fmeler olabilir. \u00d6nemli olan, rahats\u0131zl\u0131k duyman\u0131za sebep olan tepkilerin ayn\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 benzer bir durumda kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda vermek isteyip istemeyece\u011finizi sorgulamak.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Benzer Yaz\u0131lar:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n
\nAnlat\u0131lanlar ki\u015filerin bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131na g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fir. Tam da bu sebepten etrafta konu\u015fulanlara kulak asmamak en iyisidir.<\/p>\nEn K\u00f6t\u00fc Ayr\u0131l\u0131k \u015eekilleri<\/a>
\nKad\u0131nlar\u0131n Ayr\u0131l\u0131k Ac\u0131s\u0131 \u015ea\u015f\u0131rt\u0131yor<\/a>
\n\u0130li\u015fki Bitiren C\u00fcmleler<\/a>
\nK\u0131r\u0131k Kalp Ger\u00e7ekten Ac\u0131t\u0131yor<\/a>
\n\u0130li\u015fki Bitti\u011finde Asla Yapmaman\u0131z Gerekenler<\/a>
\nSevdi\u011finizin Ba\u015f\u0131ndan Bir Evlilik Ge\u00e7mi\u015fse<\/a><\/h5>\n