{"id":5643,"date":"2013-08-02T15:21:52","date_gmt":"2013-08-02T12:21:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=5643"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:14:40","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:14:40","slug":"asktan-umut-kesilmez","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2013\/08\/02\/asktan-umut-kesilmez\/","title":{"rendered":"A\u015fktan Umut Kesilmez"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u0130li\u015fkiler<\/a>, g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc kadar kar\u0131\u015f\u0131k olmak zorunda de\u011fil. Ancak, zamanlama, \u00e7evrenin etkisi gibi \u00e7e\u015fitli etkenler durumu zora sokabiliyor bazen.<\/p>\n

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\u0130li\u015fkilerle ilgili yanl\u0131\u015f bilinenleri anlat\u0131p kli\u015fe<\/a>lerden ka\u00e7\u0131nman\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6nermi\u015ftik. Bu sefer anlatacaklar\u0131m\u0131z ise \u00e7o\u011fumuz taraf\u0131ndan test edilip onaylanm\u0131\u015f olanlar\u0131:<\/p>\n

 
\nA\u015fk\u0131, onu aramay\u0131 b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda bulursunuz.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bunu hepimiz defalarca duyduk. Belki baz\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z deneyimledi de.<\/p>\n

Bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceye \u00e7ok tak\u0131l\u0131p bulamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan endi\u015felendi\u011finizde kayg\u0131l\u0131 tav\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131z kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakilere de yans\u0131yacakt\u0131r. Oysaki, daha rahat bir d\u00f6nemde, hi\u00e7 akl\u0131n\u0131zda yokken kar\u015f\u0131la\u015facaklar\u0131n\u0131z \u00a0tam da hayalini kurdu\u011funuz t\u00fcrden olacak. Benzer bir durumu i\u015f arayanlarda g\u00f6zlemlemek de m\u00fcmk\u00fcn.<\/p>\n

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\u00a0Her i\u015fte bir hay\u0131r var.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ya\u015fanan k\u00f6t\u00fc deneyimler, \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc geli\u015fmeler s\u0131ras\u0131nda genellikle o anki hislerimizin yo\u011funlu\u011fu ile me\u015fgul olur, olumsuz duygular\u0131m\u0131z hi\u00e7 ge\u00e7meyecek sanar\u0131z. Oysaki, her biti\u015f, di\u011fer yandan yeni bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fanan de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fin ilk anda olumsuz y\u00f6nleri a\u011f\u0131r bassa da uzun vadede daha iyi bir\u015feylere vesile oldu\u011funu g\u00f6receksiniz. B\u00fcy\u00fcklerimizin s\u0131k\u00e7a tekrarlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi ger\u00e7ekten de her i\u015fte bir hay\u0131r var. G\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc ferah tutun.<\/p>\n

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Tencere yuvarlan\u0131r, kapa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bulur.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tencere \u2013 kapak hikayesi, en b\u00fcy\u00fck kli\u015fe<\/a>lerden biri olsa da ger\u00e7eklik pay\u0131 olduk\u00e7a y\u00fcksek.
\nBa\u015far\u0131s\u0131z ili\u015fkiler sonucunda g\u00fcveninizin k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya da kendinizi su\u00e7lad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z d\u00f6nemler olabilir. Ancak, kendinize haks\u0131zl\u0131k etmeyin. De\u011ferinizi bilecek, sizi oldu\u011funuz gibi kabul edip bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 payla\u015facak do\u011fru insanla hen\u00fcz kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmam\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131z demektir. \u00d6nce biraz yuvarlanman\u0131z gerekebilir ama sab\u0131rl\u0131 olun, mutlaka birbirinizi bulacaks\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n

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Umutsuzlu\u011fa kap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda bu 3 kli\u015fe<\/a>yi hat\u0131rlay\u0131n. Sizce de do\u011fru de\u011filler mi?<\/p>\n

 
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\nBenzer Yaz\u0131lar:<\/strong><\/em>
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Kli\u015felere De\u011fil, Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalara Kulak Verin!<\/a><\/h5>\n
Z\u0131t Kutuplar Birbirini \u00c7eker Mi?<\/a><\/h5>\n
Kli\u015felere Kanmay\u0131n!<\/a><\/h5>\n
Ki\u015fili\u011finiz Fiziksel \u00c7ekicili\u011finizi Etkiler Mi?<\/a><\/h5>\n

 
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e\u00c7ift<\/a> – A\u015fk Burada Ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

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    \u0130li\u015fkiler, g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc kadar kar\u0131\u015f\u0131k olmak zorunda de\u011fil. Ancak, zamanlama, \u00e7evrenin etkisi gibi \u00e7e\u015fitli etkenler durumu zora sokabiliyor bazen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5647,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[1361,1363,193,916,1362,1364,1366,1365],"class_list":["post-5643","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalp","tag-ask-hakkindaki-kliseler","tag-beklenmedik-anda-ask","tag-ecift","tag-iliskiden-beklentiler","tag-iliskiler-hakkindaki-kliseler","tag-iliskiler-uzerine","tag-karmasik-iliskiler","tag-umutsuz-asklar"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5643","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5643"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5643\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11637,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5643\/revisions\/11637"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5647"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5643"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5643"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5643"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}