{"id":5325,"date":"2013-04-01T16:27:05","date_gmt":"2013-04-01T13:27:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=5325"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:15:04","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:15:04","slug":"dogru-kisi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2013\/04\/01\/dogru-kisi\/","title":{"rendered":"Do\u011fru Ki\u015fiyle Beraber Oldu\u011funuzu Nas\u0131l Anlars\u0131n\u0131z?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5326\" title=\"Gelecek Planlar\u0131\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/Fotolia_47355500_XS.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"424\" height=\"283\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/Fotolia_47355500_XS.jpg 424w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/Fotolia_47355500_XS-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 424px) 100vw, 424px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Son anda iptal olan d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnler, ayr\u0131l\u0131kla biten evlilikler\u2026 \u201cBir yerde bir hata yap\u0131l\u0131yor ama nerede?\u201d sorusundan yola \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p \u201cYanl\u0131\u015f Adamla Evlenmemenin Yollar\u0131\u201d isimli kitab\u0131 yazan Anne Milford, mutlu ili\u015fkilerle ilgili bir\u00e7ok tespit payla\u015f\u0131yor. Hayalimizdeki e\u015fin \u00f6zellikleri ki\u015fiden ki\u015fiye g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fse de baz\u0131 \u00f6zellikler herkes i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erli.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Bu evrensel \u00f6zelliklerle ilgili ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131 s\u0131ras\u0131nda Milford, orta\u011f\u0131 Jennifer Gauvain ile birlikte y\u00fczlerce kad\u0131nla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki 5 maddede karar k\u0131lm\u0131\u015f. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkilerin olmazsa olmaz 5 maddesini \u015fu \u015fekilde s\u0131ralan\u0131yor:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>\u0130yi y\u00f6nleriniz \u00f6n planda:<\/strong> Beraber oldu\u011funuz ki\u015fi sizi k\u00f6t\u00fc al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131p iyi ve g\u00fczel de\u011fi\u015fiklikler yapman\u0131z\u0131 i\u00e7in motive ediyorsa, +1 puan\u0131 kenara yaz\u0131n. Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fminiz i\u00e7in att\u0131\u0131n\u0131z ad\u0131mlar, karars\u0131z kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z konularda yol g\u00f6sterme bir ili\u015fkinin olmazsa olmaz\u0131.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Birbirinize g\u00fcveniyorsunuz:<\/strong> \u0130li\u015fkinizde k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011fa, huzursuzlu\u011fa yer yoksa g\u00fcven sorununuz yok demektir. \u0130yi g\u00fcnde oldu\u011fu gibi k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcnde de birbirinize destek olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan emin olmak \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Ayn\u0131 de\u011fer ve inan\u00e7lara sahipsiniz:<\/strong> Hayat, toplum, aile, gelecek gibi konularda ayn\u0131 \u00e7izgide bulu\u015fmak \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Bu \u00f6zellik \u00e7o\u011funlukla g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edilir. Ancak, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman fiziksel \u00e7ekicilikten \u00e7ok daha \u00f6nemlidir.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Birlikte e\u011flenebiliyorsunuz:<\/strong> Beraber g\u00fczel vakit ge\u00e7irebilmek, \u015fakala\u015f\u0131p g\u00fclebilmek ili\u015fkinin sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in oldu\u011fu kadar sizin sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in de olmazsa olmaz.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131z k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fil yap\u0131c\u0131:<\/strong> Birbirinize de\u011fer verdi\u011finiz i\u00e7in sorunlar\u0131 konu\u015fmay\u0131 se\u00e7iyorsan\u0131z ve s\u0131rf ele\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131p \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmak i\u00e7in tart\u0131\u015fm\u0131yorsan\u0131z olgun ve gelecek vadeden bir ili\u015fkidesiniz demektir.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Bu \u00f6zellikleri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek, ili\u015fkinizi yeniden de\u011ferlendirin. \u0130\u00e7inizdeki ses sizin i\u00e7in do\u011fru ki\u015fi olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyecek.<\/p>\n<p>Mutlu ili\u015fkilerle ilgili daha fazla tavsiye i\u00e7in a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki linklere t\u0131klayabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2012\/10\/05\/zit-kutuplar\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Z\u0131t Kutuplar Birbirini \u00c7eker mi?<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2012\/05\/17\/dogru-iliskiyi-yasadiginiza-nasil-emin-olursunuz\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Do\u011fru \u0130li\u015fkiyi Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131za Nas\u0131l Emin Olursunuz?<\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"Mutlu \u0130li\u015fkilerin 6 Alt\u0131n Kural\u0131 kal\u0131c\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131\" href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2011\/12\/12\/mutlu-iliskiler\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Mutlu \u0130li\u015fkilerin 6 Alt\u0131n Kural\u0131<\/a><\/h4>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><a title=\"e\u00c7ift - Anasayfa\" href=\"http:\/\/www.eCift.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">e\u00c7ift<\/a> \u2013 A\u015fk Burada Ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; Son anda iptal olan d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnler, ayr\u0131l\u0131kla biten evlilikler\u2026 \u201cBir yerde bir hata yap\u0131l\u0131yor ama nerede?\u201d sorusundan yola \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p \u201cYanl\u0131\u015f Adamla Evlenmemenin Yollar\u0131\u201d isimli kitab\u0131 yazan Anne Milford, mutlu ili\u015fkilerle ilgili bir\u00e7ok tespit payla\u015f\u0131yor. Hayalimizdeki e\u015fin \u00f6zellikleri ki\u015fiden ki\u015fiye g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fse de baz\u0131 \u00f6zellikler herkes i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erli.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5326,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[22,1235,1236,1239,1237,193,1240,1241,194,1244,1243,1242,1238],"class_list":["post-5325","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalp","tag-ask","tag-dogru-adamla-evlenmek","tag-dogru-esi-bulmak","tag-dogru-iliski","tag-dogru-insanla-oldugundan-emin-olmak","tag-ecift","tag-kiminle-evlenmeliyim","tag-kiminle-mutlu-olurum","tag-mutlu-iliskiler","tag-mutlu-iliskinin-kurallari","tag-saglikli-iliskilerin-ozellikleri","tag-saglikli-iliskler","tag-size-uygun-mu"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5325","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5325"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5325\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11660,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5325\/revisions\/11660"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5326"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5325"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5325"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5325"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}