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Ne sebeple olursa olsun, bir ili\u015fki bitti\u011finde ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 kabullenmek zaman al\u0131r. Eski al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fti\u011fini g\u00f6rmek, \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc atmak belli bir zaman gerektirir. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te hat\u0131rlanmas\u0131 gereken, bunun ge\u00e7ici bir d\u00f6nem oldu\u011fudur.
\nPeki, yeni bir ili\u015fkiye ger\u00e7ekten haz\u0131r oldu\u011funuzu nas\u0131l anlars\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n
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Huzur:<\/strong> \u0130li\u015fkiniz s\u00fcresinde zamanla geli\u015fen al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klardan, hat\u0131ralardan ka\u00e7mak i\u00e7in \u00e7o\u011fumuz kalabal\u0131\u011fa kar\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 ve kafa da\u011f\u0131tmay\u0131 tercih ederiz. Her f\u0131rsatta d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar, arkada\u015flarla bulu\u015fur, \u00e7e\u015fitli e\u011flencelere kat\u0131l\u0131r, eve m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca az u\u011frar\u0131z. Evde bir ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za kal\u0131nca akl\u0131n\u0131za gelen d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler sizi bunalt\u0131r ve s\u0131rayla sizinle d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kabilecek arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 arars\u0131n\u0131z. E\u011fer bu d\u00f6ng\u00fcden s\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 fark eder ve kendinize vakit ay\u0131rman\u0131z gerekti\u011fini hissederseniz bu iyiye i\u015faret. S\u00fcrekli d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n, harcad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z enerji ve paran\u0131n fark\u0131na vard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda bu d\u00f6nemin sonuna geldi\u011finizi g\u00f6zlemleyebilirsiniz. En son ne zaman evde elinizde kahvenizle bir kitap okudu\u011funuzu hat\u0131rlayabiliyor musunuz? Bunu \u00f6zl\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, huzura ve dengeli bir ili\u015fkiye haz\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z diyebiliriz.<\/p>\n Y\u00fczle\u015fme:<\/strong> \u0130li\u015fkiniz ve ayr\u0131l\u0131k sebebiniz hakk\u0131nda uzun uzun d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp iki taraf a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan da bak\u0131p de\u011ferlendirebildiniz mi? Yaln\u0131zca bir taraf\u0131 su\u00e7lay\u0131c\u0131, k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131k i\u00e7eren bir duygu durumundaysan\u0131z, hen\u00fcz i\u00e7sel hesapla\u015fman\u0131z\u0131 tamamlayamam\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131z demektir. \u0130li\u015fkilerin iki ki\u015finin tav\u0131r ve hareketleri \u00fczerine kuruldu\u011funu kabul edip olaylar\u0131 her a\u00e7\u0131dan de\u011ferlendirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131 da anlamak k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ge\u00e7mesi i\u00e7in \u00f6nemlidir. Ayr\u0131l\u0131k i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erli sebepleriniz oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcp bu defteri kapatman\u0131n vakti gelmi\u015f diyorsan\u0131z eski ili\u015fkinizi kafan\u0131zda da bitirebilmi\u015fsiniz olursunuz.<\/p>\n Yas bitimi:<\/strong> \u00d6fke, a\u011flama n\u00f6betleriniz tekrarlanm\u0131yorsa yas d\u00f6neminin sonuna gelmi\u015f olabilirsiniz. Mesaj atma iste\u011finiz, facebook profilini s\u0131k s\u0131k kontrol etme d\u00fcrt\u00fcn\u00fcz yat\u0131\u015ft\u0131 m\u0131? Onun ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla \u00e7ekilmi\u015f foto\u011fraflar\u0131n\u0131 normal kar\u015f\u0131lamaya ba\u015flad\u0131ysan\u0131z ve k\u00fcsme-bar\u0131\u015fma k\u0131s\u0131r d\u00f6ng\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc art\u0131k \u00e7ocuk\u00e7a buluyorsan\u0131z, m\u00fcjde! Daha olgun ili\u015fkilere haz\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z demektir.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n