{"id":5154,"date":"2013-02-13T16:37:43","date_gmt":"2013-02-13T14:37:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=5154"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:15:05","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:15:05","slug":"en-kotu-ayrilik-sekilleri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2013\/02\/13\/en-kotu-ayrilik-sekilleri\/","title":{"rendered":"En K\u00f6t\u00fc Ayr\u0131l\u0131k \u015eekilleri"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5155\" title=\"En K\u00f6t\u00fc Ayr\u0131l\u0131klar\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/stockfresh_1339461_divorce_sizeXS.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"424\" height=\"283\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/stockfresh_1339461_divorce_sizeXS.jpg 424w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/stockfresh_1339461_divorce_sizeXS-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 424px) 100vw, 424px\" \/><br \/>\nHayat\u0131n\u0131z boyunca \u00e7e\u015fitli insanlarla tan\u0131\u015f\u0131r, kimileriyle yak\u0131nla\u015f\u0131r, kimilerinden uzakla\u015f\u0131r\u0131z. Baz\u0131 ili\u015fkiler, anlamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z kadar h\u0131zl\u0131 geli\u015febilir. Baz\u0131s\u0131 da hi\u00e7 tahmin etmeyece\u011finiz \u015fekilde bitebilir.\u00a0\u00d6zellikle ikili ili\u015fkilerde denge olduk\u00e7a hassast\u0131r.\u00a0 \u0130nsan\u0131n kendiyle ilgili, \u00e7evresi, i\u015fi, g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131yla ilgili de\u011fi\u015fiklikleri bu t\u00fcr yak\u0131n ili\u015fkilere yans\u0131r.\u00a0\u00c7e\u015fitli sebeplerden dolay\u0131 ili\u015fkiyi bitirmeye karar verdi\u011finizde de bunu kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakine nas\u0131l a\u00e7\u0131klayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z derdi ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte bu nokta olduk\u00e7a kritiktir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc, ayr\u0131lman\u0131n da bir adab\u0131 var.<br \/>\nBeraber ge\u00e7irdi\u011finiz zaman 1 hafta, 1 y\u0131l olsun farketmez, asla \u015fu \u015fekillerde ili\u015fki bitirmeyin:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mesaj atmak:\u00a0<\/strong> Sizinle g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek istemedi\u011fini belirten bir mesaj\u0131n duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ne kadar allak bullak edece\u011fini bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Derin bir nefes al\u0131p telefon etmek daha iyi bir tercih olacakt\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece sorular\u0131, a\u00e7\u0131klamalar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 konu\u015farak geride b\u0131rak\u0131p vicdan\u0131n\u0131z daha rahat bir \u015fekilde yola devam edebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tepkisizlik:<\/strong> Telefonlar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7mamak, mesajlar\u0131na cevap yazmamak, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmemek\/konu\u015fmamak i\u00e7in \u00e7e\u015fitli taklalar atmak kabul edilemez davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda geliyor. Kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p da duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlatamayacak kadar \u00e7ekiniyor olamazs\u0131n\u0131z. Ne olursa olsun, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki bir a\u00e7\u0131klamay\u0131 hakediyor.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Not b\u0131rakmak:<\/strong> \u00a0Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n bay\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u201cSex and the City\u201d dizisini izleyenler hat\u0131rlayacakt\u0131r, Berger\u2019in \u00a0ka\u011f\u0131t \u00fczerine yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 b\u00f6l\u00fck b\u00f6r\u00e7\u00fck 2 c\u00fcmle ile Carrie\u2019yi terketti\u011fi b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc.\u00a0 \u0130\u00e7inizden ge\u00e7enleri anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z mektup tarz\u0131nda bir yaz\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece bir ka\u011f\u0131t b\u0131rakarak ayr\u0131lman\u0131n bir a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131 olamaz.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Arkada\u015f arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla:<\/strong>\u00a0 Bir arkada\u015f\u0131 devreye sokarak , sizin yapman\u0131z gereken a\u00e7\u0131klamalar\u0131 ona yapt\u0131rmak hi\u00e7 olacak \u015fey mi? Evet, maalesef oluyor. Kimsenin arkas\u0131na saklanmay\u0131n ve bunu akl\u0131n\u0131zdan bile ge\u00e7irmeyin.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ayr\u0131l\u0131klar her zaman zor ama beterin beteri var. Bunlardan biri ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za gelmediyse i\u015fi iyi taraf\u0131ndan g\u00f6rmek i\u00e7in bir sebebiniz daha olabilir.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">e\u00c7ift &#8211; A\u015fk Burada Ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Hayat\u0131n\u0131z boyunca \u00e7e\u015fitli insanlarla tan\u0131\u015f\u0131r, kimileriyle yak\u0131nla\u015f\u0131r, kimilerinden uzakla\u015f\u0131r\u0131z. Baz\u0131 ili\u015fkiler, anlamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z kadar h\u0131zl\u0131 geli\u015febilir. Baz\u0131s\u0131 da hi\u00e7 tahmin etmeyece\u011finiz \u015fekilde bitebilir.\u00a0\u00d6zellikle ikili ili\u015fkilerde denge olduk\u00e7a hassast\u0131r.\u00a0 \u0130nsan\u0131n kendiyle ilgili, \u00e7evresi, i\u015fi, g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131yla ilgili de\u011fi\u015fiklikleri bu t\u00fcr yak\u0131n ili\u015fkilere yans\u0131r.\u00a0\u00c7e\u015fitli sebeplerden dolay\u0131 ili\u015fkiyi bitirmeye karar verdi\u011finizde de bunu kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakine nas\u0131l a\u00e7\u0131klayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z derdi ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5155,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[1132,566,1129,1135,1133,1130,193,1131,791,1134,194,1136],"class_list":["post-5154","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalp","tag-asla-bunlari-yapmayin","tag-ayrilik","tag-ayrilma-sekillleri","tag-ayrilmak-istiyorum","tag-biten-iliskiler","tag-bu-sekilde-ayrilmayin","tag-ecift","tag-en-kotu-ayrilma-sekli","tag-iliskide-yapilmamasi-gerekenler","tag-iliskinin-sonu","tag-mutlu-iliskiler","tag-nasil-ayrilacagim"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5154","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5154"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5154\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11673,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5154\/revisions\/11673"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5155"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5154"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5154"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5154"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}