Kad\u0131n soruyor: “Bir \u015fey mi oldu?” Erkek kafas\u0131n\u0131 sall\u0131yor. Asl\u0131nda s\u00f6ylemek istedi\u011fi \u015feyler var, fakat cesaret edemiyor.<\/p>\n
\n1. Arabada makyaj yapman \u00f6yle salak\u00e7a g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor ki<\/strong><\/p>\n![\"\"](\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/stockfresh_1609968_young-brunette-woman-applying-makeup-while-in-the-car_sizeXS_95a91e.jpg\" "\\"Arabada")
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Kad\u0131nlar rimel s\u00fcrerken a\u011f\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131 neden a\u00e7arlar ki? Bu soruyu kendime her \u0131\u015f\u0131kta soruyorum ve rakun g\u00f6zl\u00fc olmaman i\u00e7in nazik\u00e7e frenliyorum. Fakat asla bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemem. Birincisi, sonras\u0131nda m\u00fckemmel g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyorsun ve ikincisi, yoksa evden hi\u00e7 \u00e7\u0131kamay\u0131z. <\/em><\/p>\n <\/p><\/blockquote>\n
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\n2.\u00a0Yast\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zdan nefret ediyorum<\/strong><\/p>\n![\"\"](\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Fotolia_2733815_XS.jpg\" "\\"Yast\u0131klar\\"")
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20 tane yast\u0131k! Bu kadar farkl\u0131 renk ve desenlerdeki yast\u0131klar\u0131n koltu\u011fumuzda ne i\u015fi var? Hem bunlar zekice bir plana g\u00f6re d\u00fczenlenmi\u015fken,\u00a0 \u00f6ylesine koltuklar\u0131n \u00fczerine at\u0131lm\u0131\u015f havas\u0131 vermenin manas\u0131 ne? Ayr\u0131ca, odadan \u00e7\u0131kar \u00e7\u0131kmaz arkamdan yast\u0131klar\u0131 kabartman g\u00f6z\u00fcmden ka\u00e7\u0131yor sanma.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p><\/blockquote>\n
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\n3. Bana d\u0131rd\u0131r etmekten art\u0131k vazge\u00e7<\/strong><\/p>\n![\"\"](\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/advice-467-bigs.jpg\" "\\"D\u0131rd\u0131r")
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\u015eeytan, sat\u0131r aralar\u0131nda ya\u015far. Al\u0131\u015fveri\u015f po\u015fetlerini 5 dakikal\u0131\u011f\u0131na kald\u0131r\u0131ma b\u0131rak\u0131r\u0131m, yiyecekler \u0131s\u0131n\u0131r. Markette 400 gr sipari\u015f veririm, hemen arkadan bir ses gelir: “Yok, yok 500 gr! Ki\u015fi ba\u015f\u0131 125 gr. ” Peki, \u00e7eneni kapatsan nas\u0131l olur? \u0130klime iyi gelir\u2026<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n <\/p>\n
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4. Buz gibi ayaklar\u0131n beni her gece \u00e7ileden \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yor<\/strong><\/p>\n![\"\"](\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/stockfresh_2447256_close-up-of-couples-feet-while-relaxing-in-their-bed-at-home_sizeXS_1a349a.jpg\" "\\"Buz")
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Her gece buz kesilmi\u015f ayak parmaklar\u0131n\u0131 baca\u011f\u0131mda hissetmek adeta bir su kurba\u011fas\u0131n\u0131n sald\u0131r\u0131s\u0131 gibi. Benim normal \u0131s\u0131da olmam, seninse dizlerinden itibaren donman, benim su\u00e7um de\u011fil ki. Asl\u0131nda yata\u011fa \u00e7orapla girmek asla kabul edilemez ama bu durumda g\u00f6rmezden gelebilirim.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p><\/blockquote>\n
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\n5. Neden her\u015fey planlanmal\u0131?<\/strong><\/p>\n![\"\"](\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Fotolia_47355500_XS.jpg\" "\\"plan")
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Nereye gitti\u011fimiz hi\u00e7 \u00f6nemli de\u011fil \u2013 ister g\u00f6le ister tatile -, her \u015fey i\u011fneden ipli\u011fe g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irilmeli. Peki, esneklik nerde kald\u0131? Ya da bundan b\u00f6yle detayl\u0131 tatil haz\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131 yaparken ben de mi sorsam: “Eee \u2013 gi\u015felerden \u00f6nce mi sonra m\u0131 \u00e7ocuk yapal\u0131m?”<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p><\/blockquote>\n
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6. Dedikodular\u0131ndan geriliyorum<\/strong><\/p>\n![\"\"](\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/stockfresh_1393957_secret_sizeXS.jpg\" "\\"Dedikodu\\"")
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En samimi arkada\u015f\u0131nla kavgal\u0131s\u0131n. Benim de bir \u015feyler s\u00f6ylemem gerekiyor. \u0130\u015fte bu tehlikeli: Bir hafta sonra siz yine s\u0131k\u0131 f\u0131k\u0131 olacaks\u0131n\u0131z, bense fikrimi s\u00f6yledi\u011fim i\u00e7in \u015fap\u015fal\u0131n\u0131z olaca\u011f\u0131m. Hem ofis dedikodunuza gelince: \u0130lgileniyormu\u015f gibi kafam\u0131 sallasam da, ger\u00e7ekte hi\u00e7 dinlemiyorum.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p><\/blockquote>\n
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7. Neden daha s\u0131k yemek yapm\u0131yorsun?<\/strong><\/p>\n![\"\"](\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/stockfresh_2431640_woman-cooking-vegetables_sizeXS_1c830f.jpg\" "\\"Yemek")
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Belki kula\u011fa \u00e7ok ma\u00e7oca gelebilir, fakat i\u015ften eve d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde seni ocak ba\u015f\u0131nda g\u00f6rmeyi seviyorum. Benim i\u00e7in daha s\u0131k bir \u015feyler k\u0131zartabilirsin, ben de bula\u015f\u0131klar\u0131 y\u0131kar\u0131m. Tabii ki, haberlerden hemen\u00a0sonra.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p><\/blockquote>\n
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8. Biraz kaba olsana<\/strong><\/p>\n![\"\"](\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Fotolia_43731138_XS.jpg\" "\\"K\u0131zg\u0131n\\"")
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\u0130ster sokakta olsun isterse telefonda budala bir \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131 merkezi \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131 olsun; sen hep sayg\u0131l\u0131 kal\u0131yorsun. Oysa ben k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131ktan \u00e7oktan patlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Biliyorum, genetik veya iyi aile terbiyenle ilgili. Yine de k\u00fcfret gitsin bir kere, g\u00f6r nas\u0131l rahatlayacaks\u0131n.”<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p><\/blockquote>\n
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9. E\u015fyalar\u0131ma dokunma<\/strong><\/p>\n![\"\"](\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/stockfresh_2087134_that-will-teach-you_sizeXS_5850c1.jpg\" "\\"E\u015fyalar\u0131ma")
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Sen topluyorsun ve ben hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi tekrar bulam\u0131yorum. Bu beni delirtiyor. Ancak, benim belirli bir d\u00fczen mant\u0131\u011f\u0131m var \u2013 senin asla anlayamayaca\u011f\u0131n.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p><\/blockquote>\n
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10. Evet, bu elbise i\u00e7in fazla \u015fi\u015fmans\u0131n<\/strong><\/p>\n![\"\"](\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/stockfresh_543735_selecting-clothes_sizeXS.jpg\" "\\"Elbise")
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“Bu yak\u0131\u015f\u0131r m\u0131 bana?” Erkekler bu soruya ne kadar kibarca cevap verseler de \u2013 hep kaybetmi\u015flerdir. Bu y\u00fczden \u015funu s\u00f6yleyebilmek isterdim: “Evet, bu kotun i\u00e7inde popon devasa duruyor. Ama ben seni oldu\u011fun gibi seviyorum.” Bir daha da hi\u00e7 bu t\u00fcr sorulara muhatap olmamay\u0131 diliyorum.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p><\/blockquote>\n
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11. Seninle ko\u015fuya \u00e7\u0131kmak istemiyorum<\/strong><\/p>\n![\"\"](\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Fotolia_46924231_XS.jpg\" "\\"Ko\u015fuya")
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Ben y\u00fcr\u00fcyorum, sen h\u0131zl\u0131 h\u0131zl\u0131 soluyorsun. \u00c7ift olarak ko\u015fmak romantik olabilir, ama zevkli de\u011fil. B\u0131rak ben h\u0131zl\u0131ca ko\u015fay\u0131m, sonra sen de yan\u0131ma du\u015fun alt\u0131na z\u0131pla. Bu hem romantik, hem e\u011flenceli.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p><\/blockquote>\n
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e\u00c7ift – A\u015fk Burada Ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n
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Kad\u0131n soruyor: “Bir \u015fey mi oldu?” Erkek kafas\u0131n\u0131 sall\u0131yor. Asl\u0131nda s\u00f6ylemek istedi\u011fi \u015feyler var, fakat cesaret edemiyor. Bu durum hepimiz i\u00e7in tan\u0131d\u0131k. \u0130\u015fte erkeklerin y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcze s\u00f6yleyemedikleri:<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5085,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[22,1104,193,1103,1101,1102,1108,1107,1105,194,1109,1110,1111,1106],"class_list":["post-5059","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalp","tag-ask","tag-dirdir-yapmayin","tag-ecift","tag-erkeginizi-sikmayin","tag-erkeklerin-hoslanmadigi-hareketler","tag-erkeklerin-itiraflari","tag-iliskide-diyalog","tag-iliskide-pembe-yalanlar","tag-kafa-sisirmek","tag-mutlu-iliskiler","tag-neler-soylenmeli","tag-neler-soylenmemeli","tag-neyi-kendinize-saklamaniz-gerekir","tag-pembe-yalanlar"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5059","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5059"}],"version-history":[{"count":40,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5059\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11670,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5059\/revisions\/11670"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5085"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5059"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5059"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5059"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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