{"id":4439,"date":"2012-12-03T17:29:45","date_gmt":"2012-12-03T15:29:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=4439"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:15:06","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:15:06","slug":"bulusmalarin-altin-kurali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2012\/12\/03\/bulusmalarin-altin-kurali\/","title":{"rendered":"Bulu\u015fmalar\u0131n Alt\u0131n Kural\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4637\" title=\"Bulu\u015fma Kurallar\u0131\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/stockfresh_55670_happy-mature-couple-having-healthy-breakfast-in-morning_sizeXS.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"424\" height=\"283\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/stockfresh_55670_happy-mature-couple-having-healthy-breakfast-in-morning_sizeXS.jpg 424w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/stockfresh_55670_happy-mature-couple-having-healthy-breakfast-in-morning_sizeXS-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 424px) 100vw, 424px\" \/><br \/>\n\u0130lk bulu\u015fmalar\u0131n yaz\u0131l\u0131 olmasa da kulaktan kula\u011fa anlat\u0131lan kurallar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bulu\u015fman\u0131n iyi ge\u00e7mesi ve ili\u015fkinizin gelece\u011fi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131yan bu kurallar, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z heyecan ve gerginli\u011fe ra\u011fmen hep akl\u0131n\u0131zda olsun.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><strong>Kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma yapmay\u0131n:<\/strong>\u00a0\u0130li\u015fkilerde en s\u0131k yap\u0131lan hatalardan biri, yeni tan\u0131\u015f\u0131lan ki\u015fileri ge\u00e7mi\u015f deneyimlere g\u00f6re de\u011ferlendirmektir. \u0130yi ya da k\u00f6t\u00fc deneyimler sonucunda insanlar ve ili\u015fkiler hakk\u0131nda edindi\u011finiz bilgiler \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki insan\u0131 do\u011fru de\u011ferlendiremeyebilirsiniz. Yeni bir sayfa a\u00e7\u0131p ilk bulu\u015fmaya dair de\u011ferlendirmelerinizi ayr\u0131ca yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Erkesin farkl\u0131 deneyimleri oldu\u011funu ve daha ilk seferden yanl\u0131\u015f tan\u0131nmak istemeyece\u011fini hat\u0131rlay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kendiniz olun:<\/strong> Hayat\u0131n her alan\u0131nda oldu\u011fu gibi kendini ba\u015fkas\u0131ym\u0131\u015f gibi g\u00f6stermek sizi istedi\u011finiz sonu\u00e7lara g\u00f6t\u00fcrmek yerine tam tersine sebep olur. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015finin ger\u00e7ek sizle tan\u0131\u015fma f\u0131rsat\u0131n\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131rmas\u0131n\u0131 istemezsiniz de\u011fil mi? Komik buldu\u011funuz espirilere g\u00fcl\u00fcn, kendi fikirlerinizi payla\u015f\u0131n ve samimi olun.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Yalan s\u00f6ylemeyin:<\/strong> Daha ilk bulu\u015fmada yalan s\u00f6yleyen birine g\u00fcvenmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olabilir mi? Herhangi bir konuda yalan\u0131 tercih etmeniz kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiye sayg\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k olur. Ayr\u0131ca, s\u00f6ylediklerinizin do\u011fru olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, bunu d\u00fczeltmek olduk\u00e7a zor olacakt\u0131r. Kendinizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn ve size yap\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 istemeyece\u011finiz bir\u015feyi bulu\u015ftu\u011funuz ki\u015fiye yapmaktan \u00e7ekinin.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sayg\u0131l\u0131 olun:<\/strong>\u00a0Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiye daima nazik ve sayg\u0131l\u0131 davran\u0131n. Size nas\u0131l davran\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyorsan\u0131z, bunu \u00f6nce kendiniz yapman\u0131z gerekti\u011fini unutmay\u0131n. \u00d6rne\u011fin, s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn kesilmesinden ho\u015flanm\u0131yorsan\u0131z siz de s\u00f6yleyeceklerinin bitmesini bekledikten sonra lafa girin. Yan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 farketti\u011finizde \u00f6z\u00fcr dileyin, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki \u00f6z\u00fcr diledi\u011finden \u00f6zr\u00fcn\u00fc kabul edin.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Zorlamay\u0131n:<\/strong> \u0130lk bulu\u015fmada acele karar \u00a0vermemek gerekir. Ancak, hi\u00e7 anla\u015famayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 zorlamay\u0131n. Rahat hissetmedi\u011finiz bir durumu s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmek i\u00e7in \u0131srar etmeyin. Onun yerine durumu de\u011fi\u015ftirecek yeni bir \u00f6neride bulunun. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin de en az sizin kadar gergin ve heyecanl\u0131 oldu\u011funu unutmay\u0131n. Onun daha da gerilmesine sebep olabilecek hareketlerden ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Bunlar\u0131n yan\u0131s\u0131ra, her yeni bulu\u015fma, her yeni tan\u0131\u015fma ayr\u0131 bir deneyimdir. Herbirinin \u00f6zel oldu\u011funu unutmay\u0131n. Y\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcyorsa kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakine te\u015fekk\u00fcr edip yollar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ay\u0131r\u0131n. E\u011fer g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeye devam ediyorsan\u0131z sad\u0131k ve samimi olmaya \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterin.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">e\u00c7ift &#8211; A\u015fk Burada Ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; \u0130lk bulu\u015fmalar\u0131n yaz\u0131l\u0131 olmasa da kulaktan kula\u011fa anlat\u0131lan kurallar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bulu\u015fman\u0131n iyi ge\u00e7mesi ve ili\u015fkinizin gelece\u011fi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131yan bu kurallar, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z heyecan ve gerginli\u011fe ra\u011fmen hep akl\u0131n\u0131zda olsun.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4637,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[984,22,983,981,982,293,193,536,460],"class_list":["post-4439","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalp","tag-arkadaslik-sitesi","tag-ask","tag-bulusma-hakkinda-bilmeniz-gerekenler","tag-bulusma-kurallari","tag-bulusmadan-once-mutlaka-okuyun","tag-ciddi-iliski","tag-ecift","tag-iliski-tavsiyeleri","tag-ilk-bulusma"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4439","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4439"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4439\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4796,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4439\/revisions\/4796"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4637"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4439"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4439"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4439"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}