{"id":4256,"date":"2012-10-11T12:11:37","date_gmt":"2012-10-11T09:11:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=4256"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:15:07","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:15:07","slug":"iliski-bitiren-cumleler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2012\/10\/11\/iliski-bitiren-cumleler\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130li\u015fki Bitiren C\u00fcmleler"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4257\" title=\"\u0130li\u015fkiyi Bitiren C\u00fcmleler\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/stockfresh_235658_paper-love_sizeXS.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/stockfresh_235658_paper-love_sizeXS.jpg 400w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/stockfresh_235658_paper-love_sizeXS-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n\u0130ki insan\u0131n aras\u0131ndaki ileti\u015fim ili\u015fkiler i\u00e7in \u00e7ok belirleyicidir. Ayn\u0131 fikirde olmasan\u0131z da farkl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flere sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermek ve empati yapman\u0131z gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>Ancak, tart\u0131\u015fmak da t\u0131pk\u0131 anla\u015fmak kadar ili\u015fkinin olmazsa olmaz\u0131d\u0131r.\u00a0 Fazla s\u0131k ve \u015fiddetli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece tabii ki.<br \/>\n<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>A\u00e7ken, yorgunken, i\u015f ya da ba\u015fka bir d\u0131\u015f sebepten gerginken anlay\u0131\u015f ve sab\u0131r oran\u0131 d\u00fc\u015fer. B\u00f6yle zamanlarda tart\u0131\u015fma riski daha fazlad\u0131r. \u00d6nemli olan, b\u00f6yle anlarda ipin ucunu ka\u00e7\u0131rmamak ve a\u015f\u0131r\u0131ya ka\u00e7mamakt\u0131r. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden s\u00f6ylediklerinizle sevdi\u011finizi k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131za, g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc kazanmak zor olabilir.<br \/>\nEn s\u0131k kullan\u0131lan ve en \u00e7ok k\u0131ran c\u00fcmlelerden \u00f6zellikle ka\u00e7\u0131nman\u0131z\u0131 tavsiye ederiz.<\/p>\n<p>Sevdi\u011finiz ne kadar anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olursa olsun, bu c\u00fcmlelere ayn\u0131 sab\u0131r\u0131 g\u00f6steremeyebilir.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n<strong>Beni b\u00f6yle kabul et, de\u011fi\u015fmem:<\/strong> \u00a0\u0130li\u015fkiye kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakini de\u011fi\u015ftirebilece\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek ba\u015flamak yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc insanlar\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmesi \u00e7ok zaman al\u0131r ve zorlamayla olmaz. Ancak, asla de\u011fi\u015fmeyece\u011fini ifade edip \u201cya sev, ya terket\u201d imas\u0131nda bulunmak da bir o kadar sak\u0131ncal\u0131. Zaman zaman sevgilinizle orta yolu bulmak i\u00e7in bir ad\u0131m atmaya haz\u0131r oldu\u011funuzu g\u00f6stermeniz gerekir. \u201cBen b\u00f6yleyim\u201d diyerek kestirip atmak, sorundan ka\u00e7mak; ili\u015fkinin ve kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015finin sizin i\u00e7in de\u011fersiz oldu\u011fu anlam\u0131na gelir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Belki de ayr\u0131lsak daha iyi olur:<\/strong> Bu anlamda bir c\u00fcmleyi ger\u00e7ekten ayr\u0131lmay\u0131 istemedi\u011finiz s\u00fcrece asla kullanmay\u0131n. Bir kere \u201cayr\u0131l\u0131k\u201d konusu ge\u00e7ti mi, sars\u0131lan g\u00fcveni yeniden olu\u015fturmak zaman al\u0131r. \u201cAyr\u0131l\u0131k\u201d konusu bir kere akl\u0131n\u0131za girmi\u015ftir bir kere. Ayr\u0131ca, \u201cayr\u0131lmay\u0131\u201d tehdit olarak kullanmak, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin g\u00f6z\u00fcnde k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fc\u015fmenize sebep olabilir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Eski sevgilim asla b\u00f6yle bir \u015fey yapmazd\u0131:<\/strong> Sevgilinizi ge\u00e7mi\u015fteki ili\u015fkilere g\u00f6re de\u011ferlendirmek yapabilece\u011finiz ennnn k\u00f6t\u00fc hatalardan biri. Kim eski sevgiliyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmak ister ki?\u00a0 \u0130li\u015fkinizi g\u00fcn\u00fcn \u015fartlar\u0131na g\u00f6re de\u011ferlendirin ve ge\u00e7mi\u015fle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Yorum yok:<\/strong> Tepkinizi susarak g\u00f6stermeyi tercih edebilirsiniz ama bunun sorunu \u00e7\u00f6zmek yerine i\u015fleri yoku\u015fa s\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc de unutmay\u0131n. Yorum yapmamak ayn\u0131 zamanda sevdi\u011finizin s\u00f6ylediklerini ciddiye almad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ve cevap vermeye gerek duymad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z anlam\u0131na da gelebilir. Kendinizi o konuma koyup bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn, ne kadar k\u00f6t\u00fc hissederdiniz. \u0130yi ya da k\u00f6t\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinizi payla\u015f\u0131p ortak bir noktada bulu\u015fmak i\u00e7in \u00e7aba g\u00f6stermeniz ili\u015fkiniz i\u00e7in daha yap\u0131c\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">e\u00c7ift &#8211; A\u015fk Burada Ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; \u0130ki insan\u0131n aras\u0131ndaki ileti\u015fim ili\u015fkiler i\u00e7in \u00e7ok belirleyicidir. Ayn\u0131 fikirde olmasan\u0131z da farkl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flere sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermek ve empati yapman\u0131z gerekir. Ancak, tart\u0131\u015fmak da t\u0131pk\u0131 anla\u015fmak kadar ili\u015fkinin olmazsa olmaz\u0131d\u0131r.\u00a0 Fazla s\u0131k ve \u015fiddetli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece tabii ki.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4257,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[977,22,920,193,919,803,923,921,922],"class_list":["post-4256","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalp","tag-arkadaslik","tag-ask","tag-aski-bitiren-cumleler","tag-ecift","tag-iliski-bitiren-cumleler","tag-iliskide-yapilan-hatalar","tag-sevgiliyle-tartismak","tag-tartisirken-soylememeniz-gerekenler","tag-tartismayi-alevlendiren-cumleler"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4256","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4256"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4256\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11695,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4256\/revisions\/11695"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4257"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4256"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4256"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4256"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}