{"id":4247,"date":"2021-12-01T12:03:00","date_gmt":"2021-12-01T09:03:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=4247"},"modified":"2022-04-30T16:21:37","modified_gmt":"2022-04-30T13:21:37","slug":"zit-kutuplar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2021\/12\/01\/zit-kutuplar\/","title":{"rendered":"Z\u0131t Kutuplar Birbirini \u00c7eker mi?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Fiziksel olarak z\u0131t kutuplar<\/a> birbirini \u00e7ekiyor. Bunu m\u0131knat\u0131slarla g\u00f6zlemleyebiliyoruz da. Peki ya insan ili\u015fkileri? \u0130li\u015fkilerde de ayn\u0131 durum s\u00f6z konusu olabilir mi?<\/p>\n

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Uzun vadede d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrsek cevab\u0131m\u0131z; \u201cHay\u0131r!\u201d. Farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen, ayr\u0131 ilgi alanlar\u0131 olan iki ki\u015finin birbirini \u00e7ekici bulmas\u0131 m\u0131knat\u0131slar\u0131n \u00e7ekim g\u00fcc\u00fc kadar do\u011fal. Birbirlerine farkl\u0131 bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131 kazand\u0131r\u0131r, farkl\u0131 deneyimlerle hayat\u0131 zenginle\u015ftirir ve g\u00fczel zaman ge\u00e7irirler. Ancak, i\u015f hayat\u0131 payla\u015fmak noktas\u0131na geldi\u011finde durum \u00a0de\u011fi\u015fiyor.<\/p>\n

Farkl\u0131 hayat g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri<\/a>, hayattan beklentileri de farkl\u0131 k\u0131lar. \u0130ki taraf\u0131n istek ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinin bulu\u015fabilmesi i\u00e7in yapaca\u011f\u0131 fedakarl\u0131k ili\u015fkiyi zorlayabilir. Ortak noktalar\u0131n azl\u0131\u011f\u0131, beraber ge\u00e7irilen zaman\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131rlar. Kendi ilgi alan\u0131n\u0131za ay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zaman artt\u0131k\u00e7a, sevdi\u011finizden uzakla\u015f\u0131r ve kopma noktas\u0131na gelebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

Kendi g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc savunurken ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z tart\u0131\u015fmalar, ilk zamanlarda size heyecan verebilir. Ancak, zaman ge\u00e7tikte y\u0131prat\u0131c\u0131 ve yorucu bir hal al\u0131r. Ak\u015fam evde ya da d\u0131\u015far\u0131da yemek olsun, caz m\u00fczik ya da metal m\u00fczik sevmek olsun hayat\u0131n her alan\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kacak g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 birbirinize olan sevginin \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7ebilir.<\/p>\n

Uzun vadeli, mutlu<\/a> bir gelecek d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z ortak ilgi alanlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n olmas\u0131na \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterin. \u00d6rne\u011fin, dal\u0131\u015f yapmay\u0131 seviyorsan\u0131z dal\u0131\u015f yapmay\u0131 sizin kadar seven ya da sevecek biriyle olun.\u00a0 Tiyatro oyunlar\u0131n\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131rm\u0131yorsan\u0131z, beraber tiyatroya gidebilece\u011finiz biri olsun.
\nTabii ki, her sosyal aktiveteyi \u00e7ift olarak yapmak zorunda de\u011filsiniz. Ayr\u0131 ayr\u0131 yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z aktiviteler olmas\u0131 da bir o kadar \u00f6nemli. Ancak, hayat\u0131 payla\u015fmak ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ili\u015fki ya\u015fayabilmek i\u00e7in az \u00e7ok ayn\u0131 d\u00fcnya g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc payla\u015f\u0131yor, uyumlu beklentilere sahip olman\u0131z gerekiyor.
\n\u0130li\u015fkiniz ile ilgili ciddi kararlar almadan \u00f6nce, bu a\u00e7\u0131dan de\u011ferlendirmelerinizi mutlaka yap\u0131n.<\/p>\n

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\u0130\u015fi sa\u011flama almak isterseniz,”Ciddi Kararlar Almadan \u00d6nce Sorman\u0131z Gerekenler<\/a>”\u00a0yaz\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 okuman\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6neriririz.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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e\u00c7ift – A\u015fk Burada Ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Fiziksel olarak z\u0131t kutuplar birbirini \u00e7ekiyor. Bunu m\u0131knat\u0131slarla g\u00f6zlemleyebiliyoruz da. Peki ya insan ili\u015fkileri? \u0130li\u015fkilerde de ayn\u0131 durum s\u00f6z konusu olabilir mi?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4248,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[977,22,293,917,914,193,913,912,916,578,915,918,911,979],"class_list":["post-4247","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalp","tag-arkadaslik","tag-ask","tag-ciddi-iliski","tag-ciddi-iliskilerin-gelecegi","tag-ciddi-iliskinin-ozellikleri","tag-ecift","tag-iliskide-hobiler","tag-iliskide-zitliklar","tag-iliskiden-beklentiler","tag-sevgiliyle-mac-izlemek","tag-sevgiliyle-zaman-gecirmek","tag-uzun-iliskinin-olmazsa-olmazi","tag-zit-kutuplar","tag-zit-kutuplarin-cekimi-ecift"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4247","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4247"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4247\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13563,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4247\/revisions\/13563"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4248"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4247"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4247"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4247"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}