{"id":4146,"date":"2012-09-20T12:44:27","date_gmt":"2012-09-20T09:44:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=4146"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:15:07","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:15:07","slug":"simdi-gel-de-gor-beni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2012\/09\/20\/simdi-gel-de-gor-beni\/","title":{"rendered":"\u015eimdi Gel De G\u00f6r Beni!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4148\" title=\"\u015eimdi Gel De G\u00f6r Beni\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/stockfresh_1175067_closeup-of-pretty-young-woman-yelling_sizeXS1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"424\" height=\"283\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/stockfresh_1175067_closeup-of-pretty-young-woman-yelling_sizeXS1.jpg 424w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/stockfresh_1175067_closeup-of-pretty-young-woman-yelling_sizeXS1-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 424px) 100vw, 424px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan hayat\u0131 boyunca \u00e7e\u015fitli insanlar tan\u0131r, kimiyle yak\u0131nla\u015f\u0131r, kiminden uzakla\u015f\u0131r. A\u015fklar da zaman zaman alevlenir, zaman zaman hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na sebep olur.<br \/>\n\u0130lk defa ayr\u0131l\u0131k ya\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z, ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131 hi\u00e7 bitmeyecek, bir daha hi\u00e7 kimseyi sevemeyecekmi\u015f gibi hissedebilirsiniz. Ancak, yan\u0131l\u0131yorsunuz.<\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn, geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda bu kadar k\u00f6t\u00fc hissetti\u011finize \u015fa\u015f\u0131racak ve kendinizi tan\u0131yamayacaks\u0131n\u0131z. \u0130\u015fte o an geldi\u011finde, yeni bir maceraya haz\u0131r oldu\u011funuzu anlayabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Yeni bir a\u015fka, mutlu bir beraberli\u011fe haz\u0131r oldu\u011funuzu g\u00f6steren baz\u0131 ipu\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kendinizde g\u00f6zlemleyebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kendinizle ba\u015fba\u015fa olmak rahats\u0131z etmiyor:<\/strong>\u00a0 Zor bir ayr\u0131l\u0131k d\u00f6nemi ge\u00e7irenler bilir, bu d\u00f6nemde yaln\u0131z kalmak dayan\u0131lmazd\u0131r. Aile, arkada\u015flar mutlaka her zaman birileriyle bulu\u015fulur ve kafa da\u011f\u0131t\u0131l\u0131r. Odan\u0131za \u00e7ekilip kitap okumak, sevdi\u011finiz bir filmi izlemek sizi \u00e7e\u015fitli an\u0131 ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u00fcyor ve art\u0131k daha sakin ve g\u00fcvenli hissediyorsan\u0131z, bu iyiye i\u015faret.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ge\u00e7mi\u015f ili\u015fkinizi tarafs\u0131zca de\u011ferlendirebiliyorsunuz:<\/strong> \u0130lk d\u00f6nemler, kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131 su\u00e7layarak, k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ona y\u00f6nlendirerek ge\u00e7irdi\u011finiz g\u00fcnleri geride b\u0131rak\u0131p objektif de\u011ferlendirmeler yapabiliyor musunuz? \u00a0Arada kendi hatalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n da bulundu\u011funu kabul ediyor ve ili\u015fkinizin ge\u00e7mi\u015fte kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kabullenebiliyorsan\u0131z ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n en zor k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 atlatm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131z demektir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Yeni bir ili\u015fki i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131nm\u0131yorsunuz:<\/strong> Gitti\u011finiz her yerde, yeni biriyle tan\u0131\u015fmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p yeni bir ili\u015fki aray\u0131\u015f\u0131nda olmak, ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n izlerini yeni biriyle daha kolay atlatabilece\u011finiz inanc\u0131ndan kaynaklan\u0131r. Ancak, hen\u00fcz kendinizle bar\u0131\u015fmadan, ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 kabullenmeden yeni bir ili\u015fki size umdu\u011funuzu veremeyebilir, tam tersine duruma yeni hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131 eklemenize sebep olabilir. E\u011fer, kendinizi ak\u0131\u015fa verdiyseniz ve sevgiliniz olmadan da iyi oldu\u011funuza ikna olduysan\u0131z yeni ve g\u00fczel bir ili\u015fkiye ger\u00e7ekten haz\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z demektir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ne istedi\u011finizi biliyorsunuz:<\/strong> Her ili\u015fki, iyi ya da k\u00f6t\u00fc deneyimlere imkan verir. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ayr\u0131l\u0131kla biten bir ili\u015fki, size ileride beraber olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z insan\u0131 belirlerken yol g\u00f6sterir. Ge\u00e7mi\u015f ili\u015fkinizde kendinizi de daha iyi tan\u0131r, gelecekte kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakilerden neyi bekledi\u011finizi ve neyi kesinlikle kabul edemeyece\u011finizi bilirsiniz. Bu kriterlerin fark\u0131na vard\u0131ysan\u0131z, ayr\u0131l\u0131k sizin i\u00e7in ge\u00e7mi\u015fte kalm\u0131\u015f demektir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kabuslar\u0131n yerini r\u00fcyalar al\u0131yor:<\/strong> R\u00fcyalar, bilin\u00e7alt\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n yans\u0131malar\u0131d\u0131r \u00e7o\u011fu zaman. Ayr\u0131l\u0131k d\u00f6neminde, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleriniz s\u0131k s\u0131k ili\u015fkinize ve duygular\u0131n\u0131za kayar. K\u00f6t\u00fc hisleriniz de kabuslara yol a\u00e7ar. Ancak, bunlar gittik\u00e7e azal\u0131r ve rahat uykular\u0131n\u0131za, tatl\u0131 r\u00fcyalar\u0131n\u0131za geri d\u00f6nersiniz. Bu durum, bilin\u00e7alt\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n da ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 atlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131na i\u015faret olabilir.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">e\u00c7ift &#8211; A\u015fk Burada Ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; \u0130nsan hayat\u0131 boyunca \u00e7e\u015fitli insanlar tan\u0131r, kimiyle yak\u0131nla\u015f\u0131r, kiminden uzakla\u015f\u0131r. A\u015fklar da zaman zaman alevlenir, zaman zaman hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na sebep olur. \u0130lk defa ayr\u0131l\u0131k ya\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z, ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131 hi\u00e7 bitmeyecek, bir daha hi\u00e7 kimseyi sevemeyecekmi\u015f gibi hissedebilirsiniz. Ancak, yan\u0131l\u0131yorsunuz. Bir g\u00fcn, geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda bu kadar k\u00f6t\u00fc hissetti\u011finize \u015fa\u015f\u0131racak ve kendinizi tan\u0131yamayacaks\u0131n\u0131z. \u0130\u015fte o an [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4148,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[984,854,737,857,856,855,858,859,293,193],"class_list":["post-4146","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalp","tag-arkadaslik-sitesi","tag-ayriligi-atlatmanin-yollari","tag-ayrilik-acisi","tag-ayrilik-acisi-nasil-gecer","tag-ayrilik-sonrasi-ask","tag-ayriliktan-sonra-iliskileri","tag-ayrilinca-ne-yapmali","tag-biten-asklarin-ardindan","tag-ciddi-iliski","tag-ecift"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4146","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4146"}],"version-history":[{"count":16,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4146\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11703,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4146\/revisions\/11703"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4148"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4146"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4146"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4146"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}