{"id":4082,"date":"2012-09-10T15:17:46","date_gmt":"2012-09-10T12:17:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=4082"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:15:08","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:15:08","slug":"sevdiginizin-basindan-bir-evlilik-gecmisse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2012\/09\/10\/sevdiginizin-basindan-bir-evlilik-gecmisse\/","title":{"rendered":"Sevdi\u011finizin Ba\u015f\u0131ndan Bir Evlilik Ge\u00e7mi\u015fse"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4083\" title=\"Bo\u015fanma Sonras\u0131 \u0130li\u015fkiler\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/stockfresh_624526_young-woman-sitting-on-sofa-man-in-background_sizeXS.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"424\" height=\"283\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/stockfresh_624526_young-woman-sitting-on-sofa-man-in-background_sizeXS.jpg 424w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/stockfresh_624526_young-woman-sitting-on-sofa-man-in-background_sizeXS-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 424px) 100vw, 424px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Yeni birini tan\u0131maya ba\u015flamak g\u00fczel oldu\u011fu kadar zor bir s\u00fcre\u00e7. Bilinmeyeni yava\u015f yava\u015f \u00f6\u011frenmek hem heyecan verici hem de al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131 geride b\u0131rakmay\u0131 gerektiriyor olabilir.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz ki\u015finin ba\u015f\u0131ndan bir evlilik ge\u00e7mi\u015fse bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 daha da karma\u015f\u0131k bir hal alabilir. Ancak, sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z kadar zor olmak zorunda de\u011fil. Bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirerek tavsiyelerimize kulak verin.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><strong>Evlilik:<\/strong> Bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f bir ki\u015fi, yeniden evlenme fikrine s\u0131cak bakmayabilir. \u00d6zellikle, zor bir davan\u0131n ard\u0131ndan ya da k\u00f6t\u00fc bir ayr\u0131l\u0131ktan sonra evlenmek en son isteyece\u011fi \u015fey olabilir. Sizin evlenmek ile ilgili yorum ve \u0131srarlar\u0131n\u0131z, hi\u00e7 istemedi\u011finiz sonu\u00e7lara sebep olabilir. Zamana b\u0131rak\u0131p, bask\u0131 hissetmemesini sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda zaten kendili\u011finden yumu\u015fayacak ve evlilik hakk\u0131ndaki kat\u0131 kararlar\u0131n\u0131 bir kenara b\u0131rakacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Eski e\u015f:<\/strong> Sevdi\u011finiz ki\u015finin eski e\u015fi, \u00a0hayat\u0131n\u0131 yok sayamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z kadar etkilemi\u015ftir. Bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f olmalar\u0131, evlili\u011fi \u00e7e\u015fitli sebeplerden dolay\u0131 y\u00fcr\u00fctemedikleri anlam\u0131na gelir. Ancak, hayat\u0131n\u0131n bir d\u00f6nemini payla\u015fm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu ki\u015finin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yok saymas\u0131n\u0131 beklemek kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakine haks\u0131zl\u0131k olur. Varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kabul edip gereksiz k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131klardan ka\u00e7\u0131nman\u0131z gerekir. Kendinize ve sevdi\u011finizle aran\u0131zdaki ili\u015fkiye g\u00fcveniyorsan\u0131z, bu durum bir sorun bile olu\u015fturmayacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7ocuklar:<\/strong> Sevdi\u011finizin \u00f6nceki evlili\u011finden \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 olmas\u0131 durumu da olas\u0131l\u0131klar aras\u0131ndad\u0131r.\u00a0 \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n kiminle kald\u0131\u011f\u0131, ne kadar s\u0131kl\u0131kla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi unsurlara g\u00f6re ili\u015fkiniz de\u011fi\u015fir. Asla yapmaman\u0131z gereken hareketlerin ba\u015f\u0131nda, eski e\u015fini \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde k\u00f6t\u00fclemek vard\u0131r. Sevdi\u011finizi ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 arada b\u0131rakacak hareketlerden ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n ve konumunuzu iyi belirleyin. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n size al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 i\u00e7in zaman verin. \u00a0Onlara s\u0131cak ve sayg\u0131l\u0131 davran\u0131n. Sizi sevdi\u011finizin eski e\u015fi yerine koymas\u0131n\u0131 beklemeyin ve sevdi\u011finizi destekleyici bir tav\u0131r benimseyin.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Asl\u0131nda, hi\u00e7 de b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fclecek bir durum olmasa da zaman zaman g\u00fcvensizlik ve k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k olu\u015fturabilecek unsurlar\u0131 beraberinde getiren bu t\u00fcr ili\u015fkilerin avantajlar\u0131na da k\u0131saca de\u011finelim. E\u011fer, bo\u015fanman\u0131n ilk etkilerini atlatm\u0131\u015f ve yeni bir ili\u015fkiye haz\u0131r durumda sizinle tan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015fsa, ili\u015fkiler konusunda b\u00f6yle bir deneyim ya\u015famam\u0131\u015f bir ki\u015fiye g\u00f6re \u00e7ok daha net bir tavra sahiptir. \u0130li\u015fkiden ve sizden beklentileri belirlidir, sizi arada b\u0131rakacak hareketlerden ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">e\u00c7ift &#8211; A\u015fk Burada Ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; Yeni birini tan\u0131maya ba\u015flamak g\u00fczel oldu\u011fu kadar zor bir s\u00fcre\u00e7. Bilinmeyeni yava\u015f yava\u015f \u00f6\u011frenmek hem heyecan verici hem de al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131 geride b\u0131rakmay\u0131 gerektiriyor olabilir. G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz ki\u015finin ba\u015f\u0131ndan bir evlilik ge\u00e7mi\u015fse bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 daha da karma\u015f\u0131k bir hal alabilir. Ancak, sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z kadar zor olmak zorunda de\u011fil. Bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirerek tavsiyelerimize kulak verin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4083,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2383,4],"tags":[984,22,821,820,814,815,293,193,816,818,822,817,819],"class_list":["post-4082","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-evlilik","category-kalp","tag-arkadaslik-sitesi","tag-ask","tag-biten-evliligin-ardindan","tag-biten-evlilik","tag-bosanmanin-ardindan","tag-bosanmis-biriyle-iliski","tag-ciddi-iliski","tag-ecift","tag-eski-es","tag-evlilik-korkusu","tag-ikinci-bahar","tag-sevdiginizin-eski-esi","tag-sevdiginizin-gecmis-iliskileri"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4082","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4082"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4082\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7731,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4082\/revisions\/7731"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4083"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4082"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4082"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4082"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}