{"id":4054,"date":"2012-09-04T13:59:35","date_gmt":"2012-09-04T10:59:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=4054"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:15:08","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:15:08","slug":"annenizin-hatalarindan-ogrenin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2012\/09\/04\/annenizin-hatalarindan-ogrenin\/","title":{"rendered":"Annenizin Hatalar\u0131ndan \u00d6\u011frenin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4055\" title=\"Annenizin Hatalar\u0131ndan \u00d6\u011frenin\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/stockfresh_1560815_healthy-woman-holding-heart-selective-focus_sizeXS.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"267\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/stockfresh_1560815_healthy-woman-holding-heart-selective-focus_sizeXS.jpg 450w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/stockfresh_1560815_healthy-woman-holding-heart-selective-focus_sizeXS-300x178.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/stockfresh_1560815_healthy-woman-holding-heart-selective-focus_sizeXS-420x248.jpg 420w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/stockfresh_1560815_healthy-woman-holding-heart-selective-focus_sizeXS-85x50.jpg 85w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Anneden \u00f6\u011frendiklerimiz saymakla bitmez. \u0130yisiyle, k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fcyle hemen hemen her\u015feyi ondan g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz gibi yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 zaman zaman farkedersiniz.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zellikle insan ili\u015fkileri konular\u0131nda, aileden gelen ve farketmeden \u00f6\u011frenilen tav\u0131r ve davran\u0131\u015flar vard\u0131r. Bu davran\u0131\u015flar, bazen deneyimli annenizin mant\u0131kl\u0131 nasihatlar\u0131 ile \u00e7eli\u015fir. \u00a0Davran\u0131\u015flara yans\u0131mayan nasihatlar, sizin de bu hatalar\u0131 tekrarlaman\u0131za sebep olabilir.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte kendinizde ve \u00e7evrenizde g\u00f6zlemleyebilece\u011finiz en s\u0131k yap\u0131lan hatalar:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>G\u00f6rmemezlikten gelmek:<\/strong> A\u015fk gibi \u00e7o\u015fkulu duygular s\u00f6z konusuysa, siz ne kadar belli etmemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsan\u0131z da bu y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcze yans\u0131r. Anneniz gibi i\u00e7inizi bilen bir tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z da durumun hemen fark\u0131na var\u0131r. Ancak, bu konuda yorum yapmamas\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7e\u015fitli sebepleri olabilir. Bu gibi bariz durumlarda hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yokmu\u015f gibi davranmak annelerin en s\u0131k yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hatalardan biri.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130leti\u015fim kurmak yerine d\u0131rd\u0131r yapmak:<\/strong> Annenizin size verdi\u011fi tavsiyeler aras\u0131nda, sakin olup kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakini dinledikten sonra fikrinizi s\u00f6ylemek vard\u0131r mutlaka. Ancak, bunu uygulamak s\u00f6ylendi\u011fi kadar kolay olmayabilir. Ba\u015fka bir s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 oldu\u011fundan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na k\u0131z\u0131p en ufak \u015feylere patlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 siz de mutlaka ya\u015fam\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. Kendisini rahats\u0131z eden durumlar\u0131 konu\u015fup \u00e7\u00f6zmekten ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131r ve mutsuzluklar\u0131n\u0131 bu \u015fekilde dile getirirler.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130nsanlar\u0131 \u201cd\u00fczeltmeye\u201d \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak:<\/strong> \u0130li\u015fkilerde yap\u0131labilecek hatalardan biri de kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin zamanla de\u011fi\u015fece\u011fine inanmakt\u0131r. Annenizin zaman zaman baban\u0131z\u0131n hi\u00e7 sevmedi\u011fi ve al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 olmayan bir\u015feyi yapmaya zorlamas\u0131 gibi durumlarda bunu g\u00f6zlemleyebilirsiniz. Kendinizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn ve s\u0131rf kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki istiyor diye ba\u015fka \u015fekilde davranmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilir misiniz karar verin.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sorunlar\u0131n ge\u00e7mesi i\u00e7in beklemek:<\/strong> \u00a0Anneniz size ili\u015fkiler ile ilgili nasihat verirken sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zemedi\u011finiz noktada ili\u015fkiyi s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n anlams\u0131z oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemi\u015f olabilir. Ancak, ayn\u0131 durum s\u00f6z konusu oldu\u011funda anneler daha \u00e7ekimser davran\u0131r ve \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcl\u00fcr \u00fcmidiyle sorunlar\u0131 zamana b\u0131rak\u0131r. Oysaki, zaman b\u00f6yle durumlarda tam tersine sebep olabilir. Siz sorunlar\u0131 erteledik\u00e7e onlar b\u00fcy\u00fcr. Ayr\u0131ca, geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda beklerken kaybetti\u011finiz zamana \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 g\u00f6zlemlemek, annenizin s\u00f6zlerinden daha etkili olabilir ve siz farketmeden kendinizi ayn\u0131 hatalar\u0131 yap\u0131yorken bulabilirsiniz. Ancak, en s\u0131k yap\u0131lan hatalar\u0131 g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde bulundurarak kendinizi yeniden de\u011ferlendirip ayn\u0131 hatalara d\u00fc\u015fmemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">\u00a0e\u00c7ift &#8211; A\u015fk Burada Ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; Anneden \u00f6\u011frendiklerimiz saymakla bitmez. \u0130yisiyle, k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fcyle hemen hemen her\u015feyi ondan g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz gibi yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 zaman zaman farkedersiniz. \u00d6zellikle insan ili\u015fkileri konular\u0131nda, aileden gelen ve farketmeden \u00f6\u011frenilen tav\u0131r ve davran\u0131\u015flar vard\u0131r. Bu davran\u0131\u015flar, bazen deneyimli annenizin mant\u0131kl\u0131 nasihatlar\u0131 ile \u00e7eli\u015fir. \u00a0Davran\u0131\u015flara yans\u0131mayan nasihatlar, sizin de bu hatalar\u0131 tekrarlaman\u0131za sebep olabilir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4055,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[789,788,793,984,22,792,795,293,193,794,791,790],"class_list":["post-4054","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalp","tag-anneden-iliskiler-hakkinda-ogrenebilecekleriniz","tag-anneden-nasihatlar","tag-annelerin-hatalari","tag-arkadaslik-sitesi","tag-ask","tag-ask-tavsiyeleri","tag-ayni-hataya-dusmemek-icin","tag-ciddi-iliski","tag-ecift","tag-hatalardan-ders-cikarma","tag-iliskide-yapilmamasi-gerekenler","tag-sik-yapilan-hatalar"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4054","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4054"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4054\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11710,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4054\/revisions\/11710"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4055"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4054"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4054"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4054"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}