{"id":3983,"date":"2012-08-16T14:11:34","date_gmt":"2012-08-16T11:11:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=3983"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:15:08","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:15:08","slug":"cicim-aylarinin-ardindan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2012\/08\/16\/cicim-aylarinin-ardindan\/","title":{"rendered":"Cicim Aylar\u0131n\u0131n Ard\u0131ndan&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3984\" title=\"Cicim Aylar\u0131n\u0131n Ard\u0131ndan...\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/stockfresh_64612_summer-love-and-sunshine_sizeXS.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"425\" height=\"283\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/stockfresh_64612_summer-love-and-sunshine_sizeXS.jpg 425w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/stockfresh_64612_summer-love-and-sunshine_sizeXS-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 425px) 100vw, 425px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Birbirini bulman\u0131n ilk heyecan\u0131, midede kelebekler\u2026 \u00a0Cicim aylar\u0131 belki de ili\u015fkinin en g\u00fczel zamanlar\u0131. G\u00fczel oldu\u011fu kadar, k\u0131sa olmas\u0131yla bilinen bu d\u00f6nem baz\u0131 \u00e7iftler taraf\u0131ndan \u00f6zlemle an\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>As\u0131l g\u00f6zden ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lan nokta, ili\u015fkilerin bundan sonraki d\u00f6neminin de g\u00fczel olabilece\u011fidir.\u00a0 Dengeli ve uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc ili\u015fkinin temelleri bu d\u00f6nemde at\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Kelebekler mideyi terk edince ili\u015fki rutine d\u00f6nmek zorunda de\u011fil.<br \/>\nBu yola girmemek i\u00e7in dikkat etmeniz gerekenler:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>G\u00fcn\u00fcn de\u011ferlendirmesi:<\/strong> \u0130\u015f hayat\u0131, \u015fehir trafi\u011fi derken herkesin ayr\u0131 dertleri, yorgunluklar\u0131, k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131 oluyor. G\u00fcn i\u00e7inde s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 ileti\u015fiminiz de olsa, g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 oturup konu\u015fmak hi\u00e7bir \u015feyin yerini tutmaz. Sevdi\u011finiz eve geldi\u011finde mutlaka \u201cG\u00fcn\u00fcn nas\u0131l ge\u00e7ti?\u201d sorusunu sorun ve ilgiyle dinleyin. \u00a0En yak\u0131n\u0131 olarak, sevin\u00e7lerini ve \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fclerini size anlatmak isteyecektir. Bu payla\u015f\u0131m ile aran\u0131zdaki sevgi ve sayg\u0131y\u0131 artt\u0131rarak rutine d\u00f6nme tehlikesi olan ili\u015fkinizi yeniden canland\u0131rabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hedef belirleyin:<\/strong> \u0130leriye y\u00f6nelik planlar, size motivasyon sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi aran\u0131zdaki ba\u011f\u0131 da g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir. Tatil plan\u0131, yap\u0131labilecek en kolay ve ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i pland\u0131r. \u00a0\u0130leride de mutlu bir birlikteli\u011finiz olaca\u011f\u0131na dair inanc\u0131 payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 birbirinize g\u00f6sterebilece\u011finiz en g\u00fczel y\u00f6ntem.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A\u015fk\u0131n yolu mideden ge\u00e7er:<\/strong> Yeme\u011fin ne kadar \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu asla unutmay\u0131n. Ba\u015fba\u015fa yenilen g\u00fczel bir yemek, birbirinize zaman ay\u0131r\u0131p uzun uzun konu\u015fup keyif yapabilece\u011finiz bir ak\u015fam\u0131n ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r. Bunu ara ara tekrarlamak, ili\u015fkinizi canl\u0131 tutar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ki\u015fisel alan b\u0131rak\u0131n:<\/strong> Her\u015feyi birlikte yapmak, ili\u015fkinin sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan do\u011fru de\u011fildir. Ki\u015fisel ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 da g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde bulundurarak zaman zaman ayr\u0131 aktivitelerde de bulunmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z, aileniz ile g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek , sevdi\u011finiz bir kitab\u0131 okumak ya da ma\u00e7 izlemek gibi al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131 g\u00f6z ard\u0131 etmeyin. Sevdi\u011finizin bu y\u00f6ndeki isteklerini de anlay\u0131\u015fla kar\u015f\u0131lamal\u0131, ona biraz zaman ve alan vermelisiniz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Arkada\u015f olun:<\/strong> \u0130lgi alanlar\u0131n\u0131z, g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatlar\u0131n\u0131z, dertleriniz ve sevin\u00e7leriniz payla\u015f\u0131lmay\u0131nca size eskisi kadar anlaml\u0131 gelmeyebilir. Bunlar\u0131 sevdi\u011finizle payla\u015fabilmek \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Hayat arkada\u015f\u0131 olman\u0131n ilk\u00a0 yolu ger\u00e7ekten arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zla oldu\u011funuz kadar samimi, sab\u0131rl\u0131 ve payla\u015f\u0131mc\u0131 olmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">e\u00c7ift &#8211; A\u015fk Burada Ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Birbirini bulman\u0131n ilk heyecan\u0131, midede kelebekler\u2026 \u00a0Cicim aylar\u0131 belki de ili\u015fkinin en g\u00fczel zamanlar\u0131. G\u00fczel oldu\u011fu kadar, k\u0131sa olmas\u0131yla bilinen bu d\u00f6nem baz\u0131 \u00e7iftler taraf\u0131ndan \u00f6zlemle an\u0131l\u0131r. As\u0131l g\u00f6zden ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lan nokta, ili\u015fkilerin bundan sonraki d\u00f6neminin de g\u00fczel olabilece\u011fidir.\u00a0 Dengeli ve uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc ili\u015fkinin temelleri bu d\u00f6nemde at\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3984,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[984,22,747,745,746,293,193,748,749],"class_list":["post-3983","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalp","tag-arkadaslik-sitesi","tag-ask","tag-bitmeyen-cicim-aylari","tag-cicim-aylari","tag-cicim-aylarindan-sonra-devam-eden-mutluluk","tag-ciddi-iliski","tag-ecift","tag-mutlu-ve-uzun-omurlu-birliktelikler","tag-uzun-omurlu-askin-sirri"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3983","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3983"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3983\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7736,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3983\/revisions\/7736"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3984"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3983"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3983"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3983"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}