{"id":3142,"date":"2012-04-20T12:18:43","date_gmt":"2012-04-20T09:18:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=3142"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:15:24","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:15:24","slug":"uzun-evliligin-temelleri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2012\/04\/20\/uzun-evliligin-temelleri\/","title":{"rendered":"Uzun Evlili\u011fin Temelleri"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3147\" title=\"1\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/images.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"168\" \/><br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\nG\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde \u00e7o\u011fu insan mutsuz ili\u015fkilerden muzdarip. Bo\u015fanma oran\u0131 y\u00fcksek, evlilik s\u00fcreleri k\u0131sa.<\/p>\n<p>Ancak, <a title=\"Guinness Rekorlar\u0131 - En Uzun Evlilik\" href=\"http:\/\/www.guinnessworldrecords.com\/records-1\/longest-marriage-\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Guinness Rekorlar Kitab\u0131<\/a>\u2019n\u0131n en ilgin\u00e7 \u00e7iftlerinden biri olan North Carolinal\u0131 Herbert ve Zelmyra Fisher \u00e7iftinin mutlu ve uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc ili\u015fkiler i\u00e7in birka\u00e7 tavsiyesi var.<\/p>\n<p>Tam <strong>86 y\u0131l 9 ay 16 g\u00fcn<\/strong> evli kalarak, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en uzun evlili\u011fini y\u00fcr\u00fctten \u00e7iftin 1924\u2019te ba\u015flayan evlilikleri boyunca neler ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsenize! Hayal etmek bile imkans\u0131z.<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\nUzun evliliklerinin \u201cs\u0131r\u201dlar\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 bir de <a title=\"Twitter - Longestmarried\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/#!\/longestmarried\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Twitter<\/a> bile hesaplar\u0131 var. \u0130lerleyen ya\u015flar\u0131na ra\u011fmen hala g\u00fcn\u00fc yakal\u0131yorlar.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3143\" title=\"Herbert_and_Zelmyra_Fisher__photo_credit_DL_Anderson\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Herbert_and_Zelmyra_Fisher__photo_credit_DL_Anderson.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"410\" height=\"353\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Herbert_and_Zelmyra_Fisher__photo_credit_DL_Anderson.jpg 456w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Herbert_and_Zelmyra_Fisher__photo_credit_DL_Anderson-300x257.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 410px) 100vw, 410px\" \/><br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\nGel gelelim ili\u015fkiler hakk\u0131nda s\u00f6ylediklerine;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Uzun s\u00fcre evli kalanlara soruldu\u011funda cevap olduk\u00e7a a\u00e7\u0131k, san\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n aksine bu i\u015fin \u201cvay be\u201d dedirtecek bir s\u0131rr\u0131 yok.<\/li>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<li>Fisher \u00e7ifti i\u00e7in bo\u015fanma hi\u00e7bir zaman bir se\u00e7enek olmam\u0131\u015f, hatta ak\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131n ucundan bile ge\u00e7memi\u015f. Kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 emek ve sayg\u0131 ile sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zerek g\u00fcn ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e daha da sa\u011flamla\u015fan mutlu bir ili\u015fkileri olmu\u015f.<\/li>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<li>Tart\u0131\u015fma ve fikir ayr\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n oldu\u011fu bir g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda, evlili\u011fi bir yar\u0131\u015fma gibi g\u00f6rmemek gerekti\u011fini belirterek iki taraf\u0131n da ayn\u0131 tak\u0131mda oldu\u011funu hat\u0131lamak gerekti\u011fini savunuyorlar. Hakl\u0131l\u0131k tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131, \u201csen \u015f\u00f6yle yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131n\u201d tarz\u0131 su\u00e7lamalar\u0131 do\u011fru bulmuyorlar.<\/li>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<li>\u0130yi bir e\u015fte bulunmas\u0131 gereken \u00f6zellikler, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fkan ve verici olmak. Zelmyra e\u015finden \u201c\u00f6zellikle zor ge\u00e7en 1920lerde her zaman ailesinin iyili\u011fini isteyen ve ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lamak i\u00e7in \u00e7abalayan iyi bir e\u015f\u201d olarak s\u00f6z ediyor.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u0130steyip inand\u0131ktan sonra iki insan aras\u0131nda \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclemeyecek sorun olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirten \u00e7ift, evlilikleri boyunca 5 \u00e7ocuk ve 10 torun sahibi oldu. Hatta 9 tane torun-\u00e7ocu\u011fu ve 1 tane de torun-torununa tan\u0131k olan \u00e7iftin yollar\u0131 ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz y\u0131l\u0131n \u015fubat ayr\u0131ld\u0131. 104 ya\u015f\u0131nda vefat eden Herbet Fisher, 101 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki e\u015fi Zelmyra Fisher\u2019\u0131 yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Sizce de uzun evlilikleri ve bitmeyen sevgileriyle ilham verici de\u011filler mi?<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n<em>Daha fazla tavsiye i\u00e7in <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2011\/12\/12\/mutlu-iliskiler\/\" title=\"e\u00c7ift Blog - Mutlu \u0130li\u015fkilerin 6 Alt\u0131n Kural\u0131\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Mutlu \u0130li\u015fkilerin 6 Alt\u0131n Kural\u0131<\/a> yaz\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 okuyabilirsiniz.<\/em><br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde \u00e7o\u011fu insan mutsuz ili\u015fkilerden muzdarip. Bo\u015fanma oran\u0131 y\u00fcksek, evlilik s\u00fcreleri k\u0131sa. Ancak, Guinness Rekorlar Kitab\u0131\u2019n\u0131n en ilgin\u00e7 \u00e7iftlerinden biri olan North Carolinal\u0131 Herbert ve Zelmyra Fisher \u00e7iftinin mutlu ve uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc ili\u015fkiler i\u00e7in birka\u00e7 tavsiyesi var. Tam 86 y\u0131l 9 ay 16 g\u00fcn evli kalarak, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en uzun evlili\u011fini y\u00fcr\u00fctten \u00e7iftin 1924\u2019te [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3143,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2383,4],"tags":[984,22,293,193,455,456,457,194,459,24,458],"class_list":["post-3142","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-evlilik","category-kalp","tag-arkadaslik-sitesi","tag-ask","tag-ciddi-iliski","tag-ecift","tag-en-uzun-evlilik","tag-guinness-rekorlari","tag-herbert-fisher","tag-mutlu-iliskiler","tag-uzun-evliligin-sirri","tag-uzun-iliski","tag-zelmyra-fisher"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3142","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3142"}],"version-history":[{"count":29,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3142\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11751,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3142\/revisions\/11751"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3143"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3142"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3142"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3142"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}