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\u00d6mr\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc ge\u00e7irece\u011finiz bir e\u015f bulmak ve bu do\u011frultuda verece\u011finiz kararlar, hayatan\u0131z\u0131 belirleyen ciddi d\u00f6n\u00fcm noktalar\u0131d\u0131r. Hemen hemen herg\u00fcn beraber oldu\u011funuz, hayat\u0131 payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir ki\u015finin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve gelece\u011fe bak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirir.<\/p>\n
O \u00f6zel ki\u015fiyi ararken aceleci davrananlar, hayatlar\u0131na olan etkisini g\u00f6z ard\u0131 ederek baz\u0131 hatalara d\u00fc\u015ferler.<\/p>\n
A\u015fk her ne kadar mant\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 devre d\u0131\u015f\u0131 b\u0131raksa da arada bir durup d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekte fayda var.
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\n\u0130\u015fte en s\u0131k yap\u0131lan 3 hata:<\/p>\n
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Kendi kurallar\u0131n\u0131 yok saymak:<\/strong> Sizi birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn aray\u0131p sormamas\u0131na ra\u011fmen, hala yo\u011fun ilgi g\u00f6steriyor ve her istedi\u011finde bulu\u015fuyor musunuz? Cevab\u0131n\u0131z evetse, hen\u00fcz g\u00fcveninizi kazanmam\u0131\u015f biri i\u00e7in fedakarl\u0131k yap\u0131yorsunuz demektir.\u00a0 \u0130\u015finiz oldu\u011fu halde \u00f6nceli\u011fi\u00a0 \u201cO\u201dna vererek bir kural\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 daha \u00e7i\u011fnemi\u015f oluyorsunuz.<\/p>\n Bir ili\u015fkinin ba\u015flar\u0131nda, kendinize hat\u0131rlatman\u0131z gereken, g\u00f6sterdi\u011finiz \u00f6zverinin kendi \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 zedelemeyecek seviyede kalmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n Konuyu g\u00fcndeme getirmek size ne kadar zor gelse de kendinizi zorlay\u0131p insiyatifi ele alman\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6neririz. Zaman kayb\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nlemek ve hayat kalitenzi artt\u0131rmak i\u00e7in bu \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n \u00d6mr\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc ge\u00e7irece\u011finiz bir e\u015f bulmak ve bu do\u011frultuda verece\u011finiz kararlar, hayatan\u0131z\u0131 belirleyen ciddi d\u00f6n\u00fcm noktalar\u0131d\u0131r. Hemen hemen herg\u00fcn beraber oldu\u011funuz, hayat\u0131 payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir ki\u015finin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve gelece\u011fe bak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirir. O \u00f6zel ki\u015fiyi ararken aceleci davrananlar, hayatlar\u0131na olan etkisini g\u00f6z ard\u0131 ederek baz\u0131 hatalara d\u00fc\u015ferler. A\u015fk her ne kadar mant\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 devre d\u0131\u015f\u0131 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3094,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[985,22,293,193,68,444,194,442,443],"class_list":["post-3093","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalp","tag-arkdaslik-sitesi","tag-ask","tag-ciddi-iliski","tag-ecift","tag-iliskiler","tag-iliskiye-zarar-veren-hatalar","tag-mutlu-iliskiler","tag-mutlu-iliskiler-icin","tag-sik-yapilan-iliski-hatalari"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3093","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3093"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3093\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4613,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3093\/revisions\/4613"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3094"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3093"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3093"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3093"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nHepimizin baz\u0131 \u00f6ncelikleri ve prensipleri var. Ancak, ili\u015fkideyken prensipler bize birden \u00f6nemsiz gibi g\u00f6z\u00fck\u00fcr. Kendinizi bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn, ka\u00e7 defa i\u015ften sonra spora ya da k\u0131z arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zla yeme\u011fe gitmeye karar vermi\u015fken karar de\u011fi\u015ftirip sevdi\u011finizi g\u00f6rmeye gittiniz?<\/p>\n
\nSorunlar\u0131 g\u00f6rmemezlikten gelmek:<\/strong>
\n\u0130yi giden bir ili\u015fkide \u00e7e\u015fitli sebeplerden \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fc aksakl\u0131klar ya\u015fanabilir. Ancak, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman taraflar ya cesaretleri olmad\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in ya da nas\u0131l ifade edeceklerini bilemedikleri i\u00e7in rahars\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 dile getirmekten \u00e7ekinir. Rahats\u0131z olduklar\u0131 konu tekrarland\u0131k\u00e7a i\u00e7te biriken huzursuzlu\u011fun bir noktada patlak vermesi ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz sondur. Bu olduk\u00e7a y\u0131prat\u0131c\u0131 bir s\u00fcrece sebep olabilir.<\/p>\n
\nG\u00fcvensizlik:<\/strong>
\n\u00c7evremizde g\u00f6zlemledi\u011fimiz ya da \u00f6nceki ili\u015fkilerde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z k\u00f6t\u00fc deneyimler ili\u015fkilere bak\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirebilir. Fazlas\u0131yla aldatma ile ilgili hikayeye maruz kald\u0131ysan\u0131z ili\u015fkinizde daha \u015f\u00fcpheci olman\u0131z \u00e7ok olas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu konuda s\u0131k yap\u0131lan hata, yeni tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fileri bu deneyimlerinize g\u00f6re de\u011ferlendirmektir. Bu, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiye pek \u015fans vermedi\u011finiz anlam\u0131na gelir, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc her hareketi \u015f\u00fcpheyle de\u011ferlendirir, her ta\u015f\u0131n alt\u0131nda bir anlam arars\u0131n\u0131z.
\nYapman\u0131z gereken, yeni tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fileri hi\u00e7bir \u00f6nyarg\u0131 ve \u00f6nbilgi olmadan de\u011ferlendirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmakt\u0131r. Deneyimleriniz akl\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n bir k\u00f6\u015fesinde duruyorken tarafl\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmeler yap\u0131p yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ay\u0131rdetmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n
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\nS\u0131k\u00e7a yap\u0131lan bu hatalar\u0131 g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde bulundurursan\u0131z daha bilin\u00e7li ve ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 ili\u015fkiler ya\u015fayabilirsiniz.
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