{"id":2064,"date":"2012-01-05T13:55:17","date_gmt":"2012-01-05T11:55:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=2064"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:15:39","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:15:39","slug":"ask-hayatiniza-ceki-duzen-verin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2012\/01\/05\/ask-hayatiniza-ceki-duzen-verin\/","title":{"rendered":"A\u015fk Hayat\u0131n\u0131za \u00c7eki D\u00fczen Verin"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Yeni y\u0131la \u00f6zel beklentilerimizin ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmesini umarken ilk haftay\u0131 bitirdik bile. Peki isteklerimizin ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmesi i\u00e7in gerekli de\u011fi\u015fiklikleri yapt\u0131k m\u0131? \u00c7o\u011funuzun \u201chay\u0131r\u201d dedi\u011fini duyar gibiyim.<\/p>\n

2012\u2019de mutlu bir ili\u015fki dileyenlerdenseniz, \u00f6ncelikle ili\u015fkiye zarar veren davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 tan\u0131y\u0131p onlar\u0131 yapmamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak i\u015fe ba\u015flayabilirsiniz. Fark\u0131nda olmadan a\u015fk hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 baltal\u0131yor olabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fte yapmaman\u0131z<\/span> gereken 5 davran\u0131\u015f:<\/p>\n


\nKendini kand\u0131rmak: <\/strong>Y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyen bir ili\u015fkiniz var ve siz hi\u00e7 yoktan iyi diyerek devam ediyorsan\u0131z, yapmay\u0131n. Kendinizi olmayan \u015feylere inand\u0131rmay\u0131n ve i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e bilip de kabul etmekte zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ger\u00e7ekleri kendinize itiraf edin. Ne kadar rahatlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6receksiniz. Zaman kaybetmemek ve kendi i\u00e7 huzurunuzu korumak ad\u0131na\u00a0 bunu kendinize s\u0131k s\u0131k hat\u0131rlat\u0131n. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Sevilmeye de\u011fer olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek:<\/strong> Yanl\u0131\u015f insanlarla zaman ge\u00e7irdik\u00e7e b\u00f6yle bir duyguya kap\u0131lmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn. Ancak, bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi akl\u0131n\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131n. Sizi de\u011fi\u015ftirmeyi istemeyecek, i\u00e7inizi g\u00fczel hislerle dolduracak insanlarla beraber olun. G\u00f6receksiniz, sorun sizde de\u011fil, sizi k\u00f6t\u00fc hissettirende.<\/p>\n

Potansiyel bir ili\u015fkiyi sabote etmek: <\/strong>Beraber olmak isteyece\u011finiz ki\u015fi hakk\u0131nda belirli kriterlere sahip olabilirsiniz. Ancak, hayat\u0131n\u0131n a\u015fk\u0131n\u0131 bulanlara sorun \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bu kriterlere sahip olmayanlarla beraber olduklar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6receksiniz. Belli \u00f6zelliklere \u00f6ncelik vermek her zaman yanl\u0131\u015f de\u011fil. \u00d6nemli olan, bu \u00f6zelliklerin \u00f6n yarg\u0131lara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp ki\u015fileri de\u011ferlendirirken sizi etkilemesine izin vermemektir. Kriterlerinizin olu\u015fturaca\u011f\u0131 \u00e7er\u00e7eve b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6rmenizi engeller. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiye \u015fans verin ve onu oldu\u011fu gibi g\u00f6rmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n

Varsay\u0131mlarda bulunmak:<\/strong> bir s\u00f6z, bir an \u00fcst\u00fcnde tekrar tekrar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp sat\u0131r aralar\u0131n\u0131 okumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, farkl\u0131 farkl\u0131 anlamlar \u00e7\u0131karmak, \u00f6zellikle kad\u0131nlar\u0131n s\u0131kl\u0131kla yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u015fey. Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin ucu ka\u00e7t\u0131 m\u0131, neyin ger\u00e7ek oldu\u011funu da kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmaya ba\u015flar\u0131z. Oysaki tak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kelimeler \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ekstra bir manaya sahip de\u011fildir, \u00fcst\u00fcnde fazla d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmeden sarfedilmi\u015f tam olarak kelimenin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade eder. Bu gereksiz s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131ya girmemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkileriniz olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flar. Hem siz de daha rahat olur, as\u0131ls\u0131z \u015feylere yersiz tak\u0131lmazs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n deneyimleriyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma yapmak:<\/strong> \u0130nsanlar\u0131n ili\u015fki al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131 ve ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 \u00e7e\u015fitlidir. En yak\u0131n arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z da olsa ayn\u0131 \u015feyleri ya\u015faman\u0131z pek olas\u0131 de\u011fil. Bu sebepten kendi ili\u015fkinizi kendinize g\u00f6re de\u011ferlendirin ve yanl\u0131\u015f kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rmalar sonucunda ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu\u011funuzu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyin.<\/p>\n

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    Yeni y\u0131la \u00f6zel beklentilerimizin ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmesini umarken ilk haftay\u0131 bitirdik bile. Peki isteklerimizin ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmesi i\u00e7in gerekli de\u011fi\u015fiklikleri yapt\u0131k m\u0131? \u00c7o\u011funuzun \u201chay\u0131r\u201d dedi\u011fini duyar gibiyim. 2012\u2019de mutlu bir ili\u015fki dileyenlerdenseniz, \u00f6ncelikle ili\u015fkiye zarar veren davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 tan\u0131y\u0131p onlar\u0131 yapmamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak i\u015fe ba\u015flayabilirsiniz. Fark\u0131nda olmadan a\u015fk hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 baltal\u0131yor olabilirsiniz. \u0130\u015fte yapmaman\u0131z gereken 5 davran\u0131\u015f:<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2202,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[984,22,110,293,193,68,194,211],"class_list":["post-2064","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalp","tag-arkadaslik-sitesi","tag-ask","tag-basarisiz-iliskiler","tag-ciddi-iliski","tag-ecift","tag-iliskiler","tag-mutlu-iliskiler","tag-yeni-yil"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2064","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2064"}],"version-history":[{"count":15,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2064\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11797,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2064\/revisions\/11797"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2202"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2064"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2064"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2064"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}