{"id":1848,"date":"2011-12-12T15:02:47","date_gmt":"2011-12-12T13:02:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=1848"},"modified":"2021-07-28T17:15:39","modified_gmt":"2021-07-28T14:15:39","slug":"mutlu-iliskiler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2011\/12\/12\/mutlu-iliskiler\/","title":{"rendered":"Mutlu \u0130li\u015fkilerin 6 Alt\u0131n Kural\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u00c7evremizde di\u011ferlerine g\u00f6re daha bir yak\u0131n oldu\u011fumuz insanlar vard\u0131r. Sevincimizi, derdimizi ilk \u00f6nce onlara ko\u015fup anlat\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Arkada\u015f, karde\u015f, sevgili olsun canci\u011fer olunan ili\u015fkiler, g\u00fczel oldu\u011fu kadar karma\u015f\u0131kt\u0131r da.
\nBu karma\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n istenmeyen anla\u015fmazl\u0131klara sebep olmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in temel baz\u0131 \u201ckurallar\u201d vard\u0131r. Kural deyince biraz kat\u0131 bir ifade oluyor, ancak g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz korkmas\u0131n.
\nUygulamas\u0131 kolay, tecr\u00fcbeyle sabit ve \u00e7o\u011fumuz taraf\u0131ndan kabul g\u00f6ren ger\u00e7ekleri sizin i\u00e7in \u00f6zetledik.
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    1. Yak\u0131n \u00e7evrenize, sizi destekleyen aile ve arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131za birer hazineymi\u015f gibi davran\u0131n. Onlara de\u011fer verdi\u011finizi g\u00f6sterin.<\/strong> Size g\u00fcvenli bir ortam sa\u011flayan, ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z oldu\u011funda yan\u0131n\u0131zda olanlara \u2018Nas\u0131l olsa hep oradalar\u2019 diyip gereken ilgiyi g\u00f6stermeme gibi bir hataya d\u00fc\u015fmemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Sayg\u0131 duyun, hayatlar\u0131nda olup bitenlere \u00f6nem verin. B\u00f6ylece g\u00fcvenli ortam\u0131n\u0131z ve verimli ili\u015fkileriniz olmaya devam edecektir.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/ol>\n

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        1. Kendinizi \u00f6nemseyin<\/strong>. Evet , \u00e7evrenizdekilere de\u011fer verin demi\u015f olsak da kendiniz sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131, mutlu, huzurlu olmadan onlara destek veremezsiniz. Kendinize zaman ay\u0131r\u0131n, size zarar veren davran\u0131\u015f ve ki\u015filerden ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131p do\u011fru insanlara de\u011fer verin. \u00a0Kendi huzur ve mutlulu\u011funuzu sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda \u00e7evrenize de daha yararl\u0131 olursunuz.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/ol>\n

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            1. M\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011fu kadar a\u00e7\u0131k ileti\u015fim kurun<\/strong>. Yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lmalara yer vermeyecek a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131kta konu\u015fup davranmak \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir; zira sorunlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lmalar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden \u00e7\u0131kar. Kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n imalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlamas\u0131n\u0131 beklemeden m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca a\u00e7\u0131k ve direkt c\u00fcmleler kurun. B\u00f6ylece daha \u00e7abuk ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 sonu\u00e7 al\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/ol>\n

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                1. Zorluklardan ka\u00e7\u0131nmay\u0131n<\/strong>. G\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz sorunlar\u0131, hissetti\u011finiz rahats\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131 dile getirin. Susmak, g\u00f6rmemezlikten gelmek hi\u00e7bir zaman \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm de\u011fildir. Sakin ve a\u00e7\u0131k bir \u015fekilde nas\u0131l hissetti\u011finizi payla\u015f\u0131n ki son noktaya kadar bekleyip patlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olma riskini ya\u015famay\u0131n. Konu\u015fulmayan her ufak sorun ileride daha b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Oysaki, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 diyalog ve destekle \u00e7\u00f6zece\u011finiz her problem aran\u0131zdaki ili\u015fkiyi g\u00fc\u00e7lendirecektir.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/ol>\n

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                    1. Al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc ve ele\u015ftiriye a\u00e7\u0131k olun<\/strong>. T\u00fcm sorunlara \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulmak, her zaman do\u011fru yapmak hi\u00e7 kimsenin ba\u015farabilece\u011fi bir \u015fey de\u011fildir. Kli\u015fe gibi gelse de hatalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kabul edip onlardan ders \u00e7\u0131karmak \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan birinin bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 sizin de ufkunuzu geni\u015fletecektir.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/ol>\n

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                      1. Hata yapm\u0131\u015fsan\u0131z, \u00f6z\u00fcr dileyin<\/strong>. Herkes hata yapar, \u00f6nemli olan hatan\u0131n fark\u0131na var\u0131p onun kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki insan\u0131 nas\u0131l etkiledi\u011fini g\u00f6rebilmektir. E\u011fer size k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131, k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ifade etmek isterlerse onlar\u0131 dinleyin. Bunu ge\u00e7i\u015ftirip sorun \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f gibi devam etmek, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakini \u00f6nemsemedi\u011finiz, onu ne kadar k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlamam\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funuz anlam\u0131na gelir. \u00d6z\u00fcr dileyin ve zaman verin. Yak\u0131n ili\u015fkiler affedicidir.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                        K\u0131sacas\u0131, ili\u015fkiler kendili\u011finden s\u00fcrmez, emek ister. Bunu ba\u015ftan kabul etmek laz\u0131m. Ama bu noktalara dikkat edip az \u00e7ok uydu\u011funuz zaman daha sorunsuz, keyifli ili\u015fkileriniz olacakt\u0131r. Bunun sonucunda siz de kendinizi daha iyi hisseden, mutlu bir insan olursunuz.<\/p>\n

                        Hepimizin istedi\u011fi de bu de\u011fil mi zaten?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                          \u00c7evremizde di\u011ferlerine g\u00f6re daha bir yak\u0131n oldu\u011fumuz insanlar vard\u0131r. Sevincimizi, derdimizi ilk \u00f6nce onlara ko\u015fup anlat\u0131r\u0131z. Arkada\u015f, karde\u015f, sevgili olsun canci\u011fer olunan ili\u015fkiler, g\u00fczel oldu\u011fu kadar karma\u015f\u0131kt\u0131r da. Bu karma\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n istenmeyen anla\u015fmazl\u0131klara sebep olmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in temel baz\u0131 \u201ckurallar\u201d vard\u0131r. Kural deyince biraz kat\u0131 bir ifade oluyor, ancak g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz korkmas\u0131n. Uygulamas\u0131 kolay, tecr\u00fcbeyle sabit ve […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1849,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[195,196,984,22,293,193,100,68,99,194],"class_list":["post-1848","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalp","tag-aile","tag-arkadas","tag-arkadaslik-sitesi","tag-ask","tag-ciddi-iliski","tag-ecift","tag-erkek","tag-iliskiler","tag-kadin","tag-mutlu-iliskiler"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1848","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1848"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1848\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11808,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1848\/revisions\/11808"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1849"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1848"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1848"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1848"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}