{"id":13480,"date":"2022-04-24T19:39:19","date_gmt":"2022-04-24T16:39:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=13480"},"modified":"2022-04-24T19:39:20","modified_gmt":"2022-04-24T16:39:20","slug":"ilk-adim-kim-tarafindan-atilmali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2022\/04\/24\/ilk-adim-kim-tarafindan-atilmali\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130lk Ad\u0131m Kim Taraf\u0131ndan At\u0131lmal\u0131!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u0130lk ili\u015fkiye <\/a>ba\u015flama ser\u00fcvenini hat\u0131rlamayan var m\u0131? Ya da duygular\u0131n\u0131 ilk a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00a0o an! \u2018\u2019Eyvah eyvah\u2019\u2019 \u00a0diyenlerin sesi buraya kadar geldi. \u0130li\u015fkilerin ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 a\u015famalar\u0131nda \u00e7iftlerin en b\u00fcy\u00fck sorunlar\u0131ndan biri, hi\u00e7 ku\u015fkusuz ki \u0130lk ad\u0131m\u0131 kim atacak oluyor. Asl\u0131nda ne t\u00fcr bir tecr\u00fcbe olsa da i\u00e7inde a\u015fk, cesaret ve \u00f6zg\u00fcven olan bir eylem kutsal say\u0131lmaz m\u0131?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Konu ili\u015fki oldu\u011funda kad\u0131nlar \u0130lk ad\u0131m<\/a> da hep sab\u0131rl\u0131 davranmay\u0131 se\u00e7en taraf oluyor. Bir kad\u0131n\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131 i\u00e7in art\u0131k duygular\u0131nda son noktaya gelmi\u015f olmas\u0131 gerekiyor. Kad\u0131nlar genellikle ilk ad\u0131m\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131 taraftan beklemeyi se\u00e7iyorlar. Bu demek de\u011fil ki kad\u0131nlar <\/a>korkak! G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcze kadar her konuda kendini ispatlam\u0131\u015f iken \u00a0konu a\u015fka gelince mi korkacak! Buna herkes g\u00fcler, biz de g\u00fcleriz!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ataerkil yap\u0131s\u0131 olan toplumumuzda genellikle ilk ad\u0131m erkekten bekleniyor. Erke\u011fin auras\u0131na yap\u0131\u015fan bir duru\u015f vard\u0131r. \u0130li\u015fkiyi erkek ba\u015flatmal\u0131! \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kad\u0131n\u0131n ad\u0131m atmas\u0131 al\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda olur! Erkek ad\u0131m\u0131 atmal\u0131, kad\u0131n istiyorsa ili\u015fki ba\u015flamal\u0131! Bizlere \u00f6\u011fretilen basmakal\u0131p, demode hareket!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Baz\u0131 erkekler <\/a>de kad\u0131n\u0131n ad\u0131m atmas\u0131 konusunda \u00e7ok kat\u0131d\u0131rlar. Kad\u0131n\u0131n ad\u0131m atmas\u0131 hakk\u0131nda iyi \u015feyler d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmediklerini a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a dile getirenlerin say\u0131s\u0131 olduk\u00e7a fazlad\u0131r. \u0130lk ad\u0131m\u0131 atan kad\u0131n\u0131n ge\u00e7mi\u015f ya\u015fam\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ili\u015fki say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n fazlal\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan ku\u015fkulan\u0131rlar. Bunun sonucunda daha rahat hareket ettiklerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrler! Halbuki ne kadar sa\u00e7ma yerden bakt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n vurgusunu biz yapmak istemiyoruz. Cesur <\/a>kad\u0131nlar\u0131n ruhunu yak\u0131ndan tan\u0131malar\u0131n\u0131 temenni ediyoruz\u2026 Fakat ilgin\u00e7 olan ise, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n ilk ad\u0131m\u0131 att\u0131\u011f\u0131 ili\u015fkilerin \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn daha uzun olmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u00a0Peki, bunu bilseler yine de ayn\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi savunurlar m\u0131?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cesur kad\u0131nlar\u0131 tan\u0131yan erkekler yok mu? Elbette ki bu kitlenin say\u0131s\u0131 da olduk\u00e7a fazla! Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n ilk ad\u0131m\u0131 atmas\u0131ndan ho\u015flanan erkekler de mevcut. Bu hareketin kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6zg\u00fcvenini temsil etti\u011fini ve cesaretli oldu\u011funu g\u00f6sterdi\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorlar. Sonu\u00e7 olarak bu kad\u0131nlar\u0131 daha tatl\u0131 buluyorlar. \u0130li\u015fki \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn uzun olmas\u0131 da cabas\u0131 olur! Cesaretini toplayan, \u00f6zg\u00fcvenli kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131 i\u00e7in ne engel olabilir ki? \u2018\u2019A\u015fk<\/a>, cesurlar\u0131 sever .\u2019\u2019 k\u0131sm\u0131 tam da kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in s\u00f6ylenmemi\u015f mi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sonu\u00e7 olarak, ilk ad\u0131m\u0131 hangi taraf\u0131n ataca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ne \u00f6nemi var. \u00d6nemli olan do\u011fru ad\u0131m\u0131, do\u011fru zamanda do\u011fru ki\u015fiye \u00a0atmakt\u0131r. Att\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 o ilk ad\u0131m\u0131n uzun s\u00fcreli ili\u015fkinizin ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131\u00a0diliyoruz!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u0130lk ili\u015fkiye ba\u015flama ser\u00fcvenini hat\u0131rlamayan var m\u0131? Ya da duygular\u0131n\u0131 ilk a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00a0o an! \u2018\u2019Eyvah eyvah\u2019\u2019 \u00a0diyenlerin sesi buraya kadar geldi. \u0130li\u015fkilerin ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 a\u015famalar\u0131nda \u00e7iftlerin en b\u00fcy\u00fck sorunlar\u0131ndan biri, hi\u00e7 ku\u015fkusuz ki \u0130lk ad\u0131m\u0131 kim atacak oluyor. Asl\u0131nda ne t\u00fcr bir tecr\u00fcbe olsa da i\u00e7inde a\u015fk, cesaret ve \u00f6zg\u00fcven olan bir eylem kutsal say\u0131lmaz m\u0131? […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":13483,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2382,1,2383,2387,2435,4,5,2277],"tags":[100,2594,99,1916,2595,2596],"class_list":["post-13480","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-arkadaslik","category-ask","category-evlilik","category-flort","category-ecift-arkadaslik-evlilik-anasayfa","category-kalp","category-ruh","category-yasam","tag-erkek","tag-ilkadim","tag-kadin","tag-kadinveerkekiliskileri","tag-kimacilmali","tag-kimteklifetmeli"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t