{"id":12753,"date":"2022-04-03T01:15:00","date_gmt":"2022-04-02T22:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=12753"},"modified":"2022-04-25T09:16:37","modified_gmt":"2022-04-25T06:16:37","slug":"ayrildiniz-diye-uzulmeyin-kullerinizden-yeniden-dogmaya-bakin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2022\/04\/03\/ayrildiniz-diye-uzulmeyin-kullerinizden-yeniden-dogmaya-bakin\/","title":{"rendered":"Ayr\u0131l\u0131k Sonras\u0131 K\u00fcllerinizden Yeniden Do\u011fun!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u2019Leyla ile Mecnun\u2019 filminde Mecnun ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 nas\u0131l a\u00e7\u0131klam\u0131\u015ft\u0131 hat\u0131rl\u0131yor musunuz? &#8220;\u015fimdi o gidiyor ya. ikiden bir \u00e7\u0131k\u0131nca ne kal\u0131r bir kal\u0131r de\u011fil mi? \u00f6yle de\u011filmi\u015f i\u015fte, yar\u0131m kal\u0131yormu\u015fsun.&#8221; \ud83d\ude22<\/p>\n<p>Ayr\u0131l\u0131k d\u00f6nemi zordur ne s\u00f6ylenilse bo\u015f gelir. \u0130nsan i\u00e7indeki o ate\u015fin asla s\u00f6nmeyece\u011fini, kendini yak\u0131p bitirece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Hatta bazen hayattan kendini tamamen soyutlar. Kimse ile g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek istemez. Siz hi\u00e7 yan\u0131p yan\u0131p bitip, sonra k\u00fcllerinizden yeniden do\u011fanlar\u0131 duymad\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Z\u00fcmr\u00fcd-\u00fc Anka ku\u015fu vard\u0131r. Duydunuz mu? Simurg veya bir di\u011fer ismiyle Z\u00fcmr\u00fcd-\u00fc Anka, efsanevi bir ku\u015ftur. Efsaneye g\u00f6re, rivayet olunur ki, ku\u015flar\u0131n h\u00fck\u00fcmdar\u0131 olan Z\u00fcmr\u00fcd-\u00fc Anka ku\u015fu, Bilgi A\u011fac\u0131&#8217;n\u0131n dallar\u0131nda ya\u015fayan ve her \u015feyi bilen bir bilgeymi\u015f. Bu ku\u015fun \u00f6zelli\u011fi g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n \u015fifal\u0131 olmas\u0131 ve yanarak k\u00fcl olmak suretiyle \u00f6lmesi, sonra kendi k\u00fcllerinden yeniden dirilmesiymi\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7aresiz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, bitti\u011finizi hissetti\u011finiz ve sonra birden tekrar hayata d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz olmad\u0131 m\u0131? \u201cHi\u00e7 bir \u015fey yolunda gitmiyor\u201d diyerek vazge\u00e7meyi se\u00e7mediniz mi? \u015eimdi art\u0131k kendinize \u00fcz\u00fclmeyi bir kenara b\u0131rak\u0131n. Ayr\u0131l\u0131k ac\u0131s\u0131 baz\u0131lar\u0131na \u00f6l\u00fcm ac\u0131s\u0131 kadar \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc verebilir. Sevdi\u011finiz ki\u015fiyi her g\u00fcn g\u00f6rememek ya da konu\u015famamak, onunla hi\u00e7bir ba\u011flant\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n kalmamas\u0131, g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc korkutabilir. Ancak, yolunuza devam etmeden \u00f6nce bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi kabullenmek \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli. Hislerinizi bast\u0131rmak yerine onlar\u0131 rahat b\u0131rakman\u0131z, iyile\u015fme s\u00fcrecinin ayr\u0131lmaz bir par\u00e7as\u0131. Derin bir nefes al\u0131n ve kabule ge\u00e7in.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ecift.com\">Arkada\u015f<\/a> Kalmak M\u0131? Bunu Unutun!<\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u0130yi arkada\u015f olamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zaten belli de\u011fil mi?&nbsp; Anla\u015famayarak ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z biriyle arkada\u015fl\u0131kta nas\u0131l anla\u015fabilirsiniz. Hayat\u0131n\u0131za yeni giren birini ona m\u0131 anlatacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Eminiz arkada\u015f kadronuzda \u00e7ok daha e\u011flenceli, daha iyi dert orta\u011f\u0131 olan insanlar vard\u0131r. Eski sevgiliyle arkada\u015f kalmak sadece dizilerde g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz bir hayal d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n yans\u0131mas\u0131d\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Dostlar\u0131n\u0131zdan Yard\u0131m Alman\u0131n Tam Zaman\u0131!<\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Baz\u0131 insanlar sizin iyi g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fczde hep yan\u0131n\u0131zdayken k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fczde ortadan bir anda kayboluverirler. Ama dostlar \u00f6yle midir?&nbsp; Dostlar bu g\u00fcnler i\u00e7indir. A\u011flamaktan \u015fi\u015fmi\u015f g\u00f6zlerinize, akan burnunuza, da\u011f\u0131n\u0131k&nbsp; &nbsp;sa\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131za ald\u0131rmazlar. Defalarca anlatsan\u0131z bile seslerini \u00e7\u0131karmazlar. \u0130\u00e7inizdeki zehiri d\u00f6kene kadar sizi sab\u0131rla dinler, destek olurlar. K\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcn dostu bu olsa gerek de\u011fil mi? Konu\u015ftuk\u00e7a daha \u00e7ok ferahlayacak ve ta\u015flar\u0131 yerine oturtacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Konu\u015fmak, i\u00e7indekini bo\u015faltmak her zaman en iyi ila\u00e7t\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Ortak Arkada\u015flardan Uzak Durma Vakti!<\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Onun ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ac\u0131 \u00e7ekiyor mu k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmek i\u00e7in can att\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 biliyoruz. Ayn\u0131 zamanda ortak arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla \u00fcz\u00fclm\u00fcyorum mesaj\u0131n\u0131 ona g\u00f6ndermek i\u00e7in f\u0131rsat kollayabilirsiniz. Derin bir nefes al\u0131n ve bir daha d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlara ger\u00e7ekten gerek var m\u0131? Ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z her haber, ac\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 atlatma s\u00fcrecinde sizi&nbsp; geriye g\u00f6t\u00fcrecek. Cezaland\u0131rmak istiyorsan\u0131z en g\u00fczel ceza umursamamakt\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Her biti\u015f yeni bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7t\u0131r ayn\u0131 zamanda. Kolay de\u011fil elbette, yola devam etmek ve yeniden aya\u011fa kalkmak. Tekrar aya\u011fa kalk\u0131p y\u00fcr\u00fcmek gerek, cesaret ve inan\u00e7la. &#8221;Nerede kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m&#8221; dedi\u011finizi duyar gibiyiz.. Sakin kal\u0131p ayr\u0131l\u0131k s\u00fcrecini kendinizi geli\u015ftirerek ge\u00e7irmeyi denemelisiniz. Unutmay\u0131n ge\u00e7meyen ac\u0131 yoktur. Peki siz k\u00fcllerinizden yeniden do\u011fmaya haz\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/MART-2-2-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-12771\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/MART-2-2-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/MART-2-2-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/MART-2-2-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/MART-2-2-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/MART-2-2-810x456.jpg 810w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/MART-2-2-1140x641.jpg 1140w, https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/MART-2-2.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ecift.com\">http:\/\/www.ecift.com<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2019Leyla ile Mecnun\u2019 filminde Mecnun ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 nas\u0131l a\u00e7\u0131klam\u0131\u015ft\u0131 hat\u0131rl\u0131yor musunuz? &#8220;\u015fimdi o gidiyor ya. ikiden bir \u00e7\u0131k\u0131nca ne kal\u0131r bir kal\u0131r de\u011fil mi? \u00f6yle de\u011filmi\u015f i\u015fte, yar\u0131m kal\u0131yormu\u015fsun.&#8221; \ud83d\ude22 Ayr\u0131l\u0131k d\u00f6nemi zordur ne s\u00f6ylenilse bo\u015f gelir. \u0130nsan i\u00e7indeki o ate\u015fin asla s\u00f6nmeyece\u011fini, kendini yak\u0131p bitirece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Hatta bazen hayattan kendini tamamen soyutlar. 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