{"id":12250,"date":"2022-02-04T11:57:00","date_gmt":"2022-02-04T08:57:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=12250"},"modified":"2024-05-24T13:42:17","modified_gmt":"2024-05-24T10:42:17","slug":"ilk-bulusmada-hesabi-kim-odemeli-hayat-musterek-ya-hesap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2022\/02\/04\/ilk-bulusmada-hesabi-kim-odemeli-hayat-musterek-ya-hesap\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130lk Bulu\u015fmada Hesab\u0131 Kim \u00d6der?\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

S\u0131k s\u0131k sosyal medya<\/a> platformlar\u0131nda g\u00fcndem olan ilk bulu\u015fmada <\/a>hesap \u00f6deme konusu bir ara\u015ft\u0131rmaya konu oldu. Fl\u00f6rtte ilk ad\u0131m ba\u015fta olmak \u00fczere evlilik teklifi<\/a> ve ilk bulu\u015fmada hesap \u00f6deme gibi ilkler maziye g\u00f6m\u00fcl\u00fcyor. \u0130ngiltere\u2019de yap\u0131lan bir anketin sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 kurallar\u0131 ba\u015ftan yaz\u0131yor. Yeni nesil i\u00e7in fl\u00f6rtte kurallar tamamen de\u011fi\u015fiyor. \u0130lk bulu\u015fmada hesab\u0131 \u00f6demekten s\u0131k\u0131lan erkeklerin yan\u0131 s\u0131ra bedava yemek i\u00e7in kullan\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnenler de var, ilk ad\u0131m\u0131 atmay\u0131 ve kad\u0131nlar\u0131n pe\u015finden ko\u015fmay\u0131 reddedenler de\u2026 Peki, \u0130lk bulu\u015fmada hesab\u0131 kim \u00f6demeli<\/a>? Erkek ilk bulu\u015fmada hesab\u0131 \u00f6demeli mi<\/a>? \u0130lk bulu\u015fmada hesap b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcl\u00fcr m\u00fc<\/a>? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Son y\u0131llarda pek \u00e7ok erkek taraf\u0131ndan dile getirilen fl\u00f6rt ve ili\u015fkide <\/a>ilk ad\u0131m konusu \u0130ngiltere’de bir ara\u015ft\u0131rmaya konu oldu. \u0130ngiliz The Sun gazetesinin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6zel bir ankete kat\u0131lan okurlar, Fl\u00f6rt D\u00f6nemi ile ilgili d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini payla\u015ft\u0131 ve ortaya hayli ilgin\u00e7 detaylar \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ankete g\u00f6re fl\u00f6rt uygulamalar\u0131<\/a> ve arkada\u015flar arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla yeni insanlarla tan\u0131\u015fmak, a\u015fk\u0131 bulman\u0131<\/a>n <\/a>en pop\u00fcler yollar\u0131 olmaya devam ediyor. Bekarlar\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7te birinden fazlas\u0131 ilk kez daha g\u00fcvenli halka a\u00e7\u0131k bir yer yerine evlerinde bulu\u015fmay\u0131 tercih ediyor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130lk ad\u0131m\u0131 atmaya gelince, fl\u00f6rt edenlerin yar\u0131s\u0131 erkeklerin kad\u0131nlara \u00e7\u0131kma teklif etmesi gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor. Yine de erkeklerin neredeyse \u00fc\u00e7te biri ilk bulu\u015fmada hesab\u0131 \u00f6dememeleri gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131ndan fazlas\u0131 da ayn\u0131 fikirde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bununla birlikte, erkeklerin y\u00fczde 15’i, e\u011fer kad\u0131n yeme\u011fi \u00f6demeyi teklif ederse rahats\u0131z olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylerken, her 10 kad\u0131ndan biri, erkekler \u00f6demeyi teklif ederse rahats\u0131z olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130lk bulu\u015fmada<\/a> yenen yeme\u011fin paras\u0131n\u0131 erke\u011fin \u00f6demesi gerekti\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesinin k\u00fclt\u00fcrden k\u00fclt\u00fcre, pop\u00fclasyona ve ya\u015fa g\u00f6re de de\u011fi\u015fiklik g\u00f6sterebilen bir durum, bu durumun sembolik olarak kad\u0131nlar taraf\u0131ndan incelik, kibarl\u0131k, duyarl\u0131l\u0131k ve ili\u015fki <\/a>ad\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 taraf taraf\u0131ndan yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015f g\u00fczel bir yat\u0131r\u0131m olarak alg\u0131lan\u0131yor. Bir \u015feye ne kadar \u00e7ok yat\u0131r\u0131m (maddi, manevi) yaparsak o \u015feye o kadar anlam y\u00fckleyece\u011fimiz ve sahiplenme duygumuz o kadar artacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Di\u011fer yandan, erkeklerin kad\u0131nlara \u00e7i\u00e7ek almas\u0131 ya da kad\u0131nlar\u0131n kap\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7mas\u0131 gibi geleneksel davran\u0131\u015flara olan ilgimiz biraz azalm\u0131\u015f gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor. Ankete g\u00f6re kad\u0131nlar\u0131n<\/a> neredeyse yar\u0131s\u0131 ilk ad\u0131m\u0131 erkeklerin atmak zorunda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor. Ayr\u0131ca kad\u0131nlar\u0131n neredeyse \u00fc\u00e7te biri hi\u00e7 evlenmek<\/a> istemiyor. Ankete kat\u0131lanlar\u0131n y\u00fczde 37’sinden fazlas\u0131 \u00e7ocuk<\/a> sahibi olmak istemedi\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

S\u0131k s\u0131k sosyal medya platformlar\u0131nda g\u00fcndem olan ilk bulu\u015fmada hesap \u00f6deme konusu bir ara\u015ft\u0131rmaya konu oldu. Fl\u00f6rtte ilk ad\u0131m ba\u015fta olmak \u00fczere evlilik teklifi ve ilk bulu\u015fmada hesap \u00f6deme gibi ilkler maziye g\u00f6m\u00fcl\u00fcyor. \u0130ngiltere\u2019de yap\u0131lan bir anketin sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 kurallar\u0131 ba\u015ftan yaz\u0131yor. Yeni nesil i\u00e7in fl\u00f6rtte kurallar tamamen de\u011fi\u015fiyor. \u0130lk bulu\u015fmada hesab\u0131 \u00f6demekten s\u0131k\u0131lan erkeklerin yan\u0131 s\u0131ra bedava yemek i\u00e7in […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":12266,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,2382,1,2383,2387,7],"tags":[22,2447,193,517,2441,2444],"class_list":["post-12250","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-afro","category-arkadaslik","category-ask","category-evlilik","category-flort","category-sifa","tag-ask","tag-ciddi-arkadaslik","tag-ecift","tag-evlilik","tag-randevu","tag-uygun-tanisma"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12250","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12250"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12250\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13501,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12250\/revisions\/13501"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12266"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12250"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12250"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12250"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}