{"id":10431,"date":"2020-06-22T13:39:29","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T10:39:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/?p=10431"},"modified":"2024-05-24T13:45:38","modified_gmt":"2024-05-24T10:45:38","slug":"iliskideki-tehlike-canlari-1-kiskanclik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/2020\/06\/22\/iliskideki-tehlike-canlari-1-kiskanclik\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130li\u015fkideki Tehlike \u00c7anlar\u0131 : #1 K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ecift.com\">\u2018\u2019Seven insan k\u0131skan\u0131r!\u2019\u2019<\/a> Bu tabiri genellikle a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7 insanlar s\u0131k\u00e7a dile getirir. A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 sahiplenme duygusu beraberinde y\u00fcksek dozda k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011fa sebep olur. Bu yaz\u0131 dizimizde bir ili\u015fkinin en b\u00fcy\u00fck d\u00fc\u015fmanlar\u0131n\u0131 ele alaca\u011f\u0131z. \u0130lk s\u0131rada \u00e7a\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u2018\u2019k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k\u2019\u2019<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Uzmanlara g\u00f6re k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duygusunun temelinde sahiplenme duygusu, \u00f6zg\u00fcven eksikli\u011fi, kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa g\u00fcvenmeme ve kaybetme korkusu yatmaktad\u0131r. Erken \u00e7ocukluk veya ergenlik d\u00f6neminde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 sorunlar ruhsal geli\u015fimini olumsuz y\u00f6nde etkilemi\u015f olabilir. \u00d6rne\u011fin anne ve babas\u0131 evliliklerinde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 sorunlar\u0131 sorumsuzca, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden h\u0131rpalarcas\u0131na ya\u015famalar\u0131 ilerleyen d\u00f6nemde sevgi eksikli\u011fi, kaybetme korkusu gibi duygusal sorunlar olarak \u00e7ocu\u011fun kar\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kacakt\u0131r.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u0130nsan\u0131n do\u011fas\u0131nda daima sahiplenme ve bunu ba\u015fka ki\u015filere kar\u015f\u0131 koruma d\u00fcrt\u00fcs\u00fc olduk\u00e7a fazlad\u0131r. Bahsetti\u011fimiz gibi de bir ge\u00e7mi\u015fi varsa durum biraz daha zorla\u015fabilir. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011fa bir de kendini de\u011fersiz hissetme, \u00f6fke, yaln\u0131zl\u0131k, mutsuzluk gibi duygularda e\u015flik edebilir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u0130li\u015fkinizde a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 bir k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k sorununuz varsa bu durumu \u00f6nce sevdi\u011finiz ki\u015fi ile a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a konu\u015fmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Gerekirse profesyonel bir yard\u0131m alman\u0131z sizin i\u00e7inde \u00e7ok daha iyi olacakt\u0131r. Fark\u0131nda olmadan k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131klar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki insan\u0131 k\u0131rabilirsiniz. Sizi \u00e7ok sevmesine ra\u011fmen ili\u015fki onun i\u00e7in yorucu bir hal almaya ba\u015flar ve ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz son sizi bekler.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu durumun ya\u015fanmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fck emek veren taraf siz olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Tabi ki sevdi\u011finiz ki\u015finin de deste\u011fi \u00f6nemli rol oynayacakt\u0131r. Ama de\u011fi\u015fimin ba\u015flamas\u0131 sizin elinizde. Bir ili\u015fki kolay olu\u015fmuyor. Sevebilece\u011finiz birini bulman\u0131z zor de\u011fil. e\u00c7ift gibi ciddi evlilik ve arkada\u015fl\u0131k siteleri sayesinde bulmak sorun de\u011fil. As\u0131l mesele ili\u015fkiyi y\u00fcr\u00fctebilmek. As\u0131l emek gerektiren ve b\u00fcy\u00fck efor sarf etmeniz gereken nokta onu uzun y\u0131llar g\u00fcven i\u00e7erisinde ta\u015f\u0131yabilmek. Size g\u00fcvenip kalbini a\u00e7an birini as\u0131ls\u0131z k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131klar ile kendinizden uzakla\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131n.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u015eunu hi\u00e7 bir zaman unutmay\u0131n ki k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k ile g\u00fcvenmemek aras\u0131nda \u00e7ok ince bir \u00e7izgi vard\u0131r. Ayar\u0131nda k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k ili\u015fkinizin tuzu biberi olur ama bir ad\u0131m fazla atarsan\u0131z o zaman ne ili\u015fkiniz kal\u0131r ne de sizi seven biri. A\u015fk denilen duygunun b\u00fct\u00fcn h\u00fccrelerinize n\u00fcfus etmesine izin verin. Zaten y\u00fcrekten seven hi\u00e7 kimse sizi b\u0131rak\u0131n aldatmay\u0131 kendinden bile sak\u0131n\u0131r. A\u015f\u0131r\u0131ya ka\u00e7mamak kayd\u0131yla sa\u011f g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz sol g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fczden k\u0131skanabilir.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em>A\u015fk ile kal\u0131n!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2018\u2019Seven insan k\u0131skan\u0131r!\u2019\u2019 Bu tabiri genellikle a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7 insanlar s\u0131k\u00e7a dile getirir. A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 sahiplenme duygusu beraberinde y\u00fcksek dozda k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011fa sebep olur. Bu yaz\u0131 dizimizde bir ili\u015fkinin en b\u00fcy\u00fck d\u00fc\u015fmanlar\u0131n\u0131 ele alaca\u011f\u0131z. \u0130lk s\u0131rada \u00e7a\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u2018\u2019k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k\u2019\u2019 Uzmanlara g\u00f6re k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duygusunun temelinde sahiplenme duygusu, \u00f6zg\u00fcven eksikli\u011fi, kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa g\u00fcvenmeme ve kaybetme korkusu yatmaktad\u0131r. Erken [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":10434,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,2382,1,2383,2387,2435],"tags":[977,22,293,193,517,2444],"class_list":["post-10431","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-afro","category-arkadaslik","category-ask","category-evlilik","category-flort","category-ecift-arkadaslik-evlilik-anasayfa","tag-arkadaslik","tag-ask","tag-ciddi-iliski","tag-ecift","tag-evlilik","tag-uygun-tanisma"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10431","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10431"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10431\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13372,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10431\/revisions\/13372"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10434"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10431"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10431"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ecift.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10431"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}